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I honestly think most of society's problems are exacerbated, if not caused, by our atrocious system of education. It conditions people into thinking that learning should be uncomfortable and boring, rote memorization of facts. It's no surprise that upon leaving school, most adults don't actively seek to continue learning and growing. They're glad to have it 'over with'. If I ever have kids, I'd like to homeschool them myself. The only problem is keeping them socially adjusted, but I guess it's good to learn alternate methods of meeting friends besides school early. Since I never did, I became severely depressed after leaving school because I wasn't making any new friends to replace the old ones that I was gradually starting to see less of. I'm far better off now, though I'm still working on getting rid of the social blocks. Last edited by Gregorz; 01-21-2009 at 11:34 AM. |
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now all I do is send a monthly attendance form and a yearly evaluation of their progress I basically can follow any curriculum I want to and I do | |
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So of course, they can utilize their "education" any way they wish, and I will do all I can to support their choices. Quote:
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To be honest though I do often worry that I've neglected to give my kids some needed tools to get ahead in a society that is geared competitively as ours is (U.S. citizen). So I worry for them financially at times. However, I remember that I was a total resister to school and am doing okay. My wife was labeled as slow in her school and I could not have married a better person for me....she's sexy and smart. I'm a believer that if any kind of institutional type of education is going to continue, then a self paced program is the way to go instead of this one size fits all approach we have now. politicians seem to think that tweaking the current system will someday transform it into something it can never be if only they would apply the magic tweak. Will never happen The best description I've ever heard of our current system is: "school teaches us to take life sitting down". | |
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| Thanks for pointing that out. I googled and hslda was the first link hence my posting it for Lil Chris. Of course we can find the laws by googling, but do you have any specific links related to unschooling to share? I'm just interested in reading more about it and wonder what you would recommend.
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You might be right that child labor isn't explicitly mentioned but the core of this thread is compulsory education, additionally I think that arguing to remove child labor laws will be hard in the US. | ||
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* Parenting a Free Child * Dayna Martin's Unschooling YouTube Series * Joyfully Rejoycing * Sandra Dodd's Unschooling Collection * Unschooling America * Unschooling.info There are numerous e-mail lists - my favorite is Radical Unschooling with the Law of Attraction. (what a great fit!) Most e-mail lists welcome people with questions about unschooling, even if you're not yet unschoolers. In terms of the law & unschooling, I've found it best to join a local unschooling list and find out how others handle it - after learning your state's laws, of course! NHELD is an alternative to HSLDA. | |
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There are lots and lots and lots of unschooling blogs. And unschooling conferences! That is a very powerful way to *see* unschooling in action, and connect with other like-minded folks. Life is Good Great Big Happy Life We Shine Good Vibrations The Live & Learn Conference will be no more, but you can still download & listen to talks from past conferences - just click "store". Books by John Holt are good to read, too - he gets more radical in his views in his later books. | |
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You keep on steering off-topic to child-labor laws, and I don't know why. Since when is homeschooling (from the child's POV or the parent's POV) child labor? | ||
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I found this essay, written by a 15-year-old, who went to school for one year (freshman in high school) after being unschooled his entire life. It's an interesting perspective! Unschool vs. School One of my favorite quotes: "Every thought you have, dream you want to fulfill, inspiration that strikes you, it all goes on the back burner, and eventually you just forget how to live any other way altogether." I think if he hung around with more unschoolers, at the end of his essay, he wouldn't see going to college, hanging out, or more school as his only options. Last edited by carenkh; 01-23-2009 at 01:26 PM. |
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I came across some quotes by Thomas Jefferson, who I greatly admire and found out that he actually supported public schooling. However, he didn't agree with compulsory schooling and his views diverge greatly from the views of education reforms of today and the past. I think he had to right idea on how a public school system should function. I want to bring back the quote I posted earlier for a comparison. This is from the American Association of School Administrators website: Quote:
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I loved reading that thank you | |
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school was torture for me when I was younger not only do you have to deal with kids personalities you have to deal with some of the teachers too it wasn't until I left my abusive husband that my eyes were opened to the possibilty of how the schools systems were 'killing' my kids freedom of individuality I used to get mad when my kids would not wake up and get ready for school I had to bribe and threaten them I look back now and think -I was a terrible parent then my oldest graduated from high school before I left my husband my 2nd born was in 10th grade ,my 3rd in 9th,and my youngest in 6th when I pulled them out of school you wouldn't believe the flack I got from everyone but if I had to do it all over again I would have done it sooner my 2nd is now one of the managers of a major grocery store and he isn't even 21 yet my 3rd is writing stories,drawing and works part-time at the same grocery store -he wants to be a writer and he shall the youngest is afraid he will be dumber than everyone when in fact he tells me things he learns that I never heard of -and he probably would not have learned this in school in my opinion some schools take away your freedom to express the true you I said some schools because I know there are different types of schools out there that cater to individuality -usually they are expensive and limited in openings I am not saying that school 'dumbed me down' but it certainly conformed me to the point where it has taken me years to figure out who I truly am My mother saved most of my school records and I see notes all over them that say I fought being conformed: she will not take a nap when told too-I was 4 she will not sit still in class-I was 5 she will not draw in the lines -I was 6 she will not contribute to class discussion-I was shy and I still am Last edited by lifetimelearner; 01-23-2009 at 03:10 PM. Reason: spelling |
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I wonder - could you unschool and still get into an exceptional college like Harvard if you have the achievements in your major to back it up? I mean, really, I want to go the medical/science route, but I don't know if unschooling would allow me to do that in the way I want, which is to go to the best institutions in the country and learn from some of the most respected professors in the world. Are there any stories of unschooling or homeschooling kids making it into great colleges in the modern day? |
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If you have a passion for medicine, unschooling would let you delve into that as deeply as you wish - no superfluous classes or time-wasters. You will learn everything you need if you immerse yourself in what you love! Graduates of Sudbury Valley School, which isn't unschooling, but allows students to do as they wish all day, almost always get into their first-choice college - and SVS doesn't write letters of recommendation! | |
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It's also that public schools are controlled by administrators who are "just doing a job". The teachers: bad ones stay if they get tenure. Good ones may not last long enough to get tenure, especially if they challenge the status quo. The parents: too many parents think education is everyone else's job but their own. The voters: They fund the schools by throwing more money at the problem but never fixing what is broken. Then push for their elected officials to pass laws like state standardized tests for grade-school kids, and the teachers have no choice but to teach to a test. The culture: we're in a culture of people who whine "why do we need school". We idolize rock stars and football players, not the student who got a PhD and developed an effective treatment for cancer. Our entire culture, economy, and values put so much emphasis on fame and making-it-big and there's so little emphasis on hard work, goals, planning, and focus. And then we wonder why the average American has problems writing a simple letter or reading a contract. One thing I'd like to add: I went to a parochial school for grades 1-8. It followed a similar structure, # of classes, and standard textbooks. Except in that school kids weren't allowed to goof off. We did our work and teachers expected (and got) the best out of each of us. Later, when I switched to go to a public high school I was so far AHEAD of all the out kids because they had been in public school. They struggled with basic arithmetic & algebra. The highschool didn't know what to do with me, and they didn't want to skip me forward a grade. It was the most boring 4 yrs of my life ! |
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If you have an educational system that better prepares kids for the real world, then invest in making it real. You'll make a ton of money, and it will quickly render the existing system obsolete. | |
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@ Keith, I'm curious, what exactly would you know about any of that? Did you go to school here in the US before you moved to Australia? Did you graduate via the American educational system? How do you know so much about it? Precisely where did you hear about our educational system so frequently that it made you "sick"? Because I live here and I rarely hear rational, lively or intellectual discussions about it.. As far as a better educational system, there some better options. As Funchy stated above, there are private schools that are miles ahead of the public school systems. Most parents, however, cannot afford $6k / year for private education. And the private schools hardly make a "ton of money" as you suggest they should. | |
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Every child I have ever observed began school with a natural love of learning, and most of them within a couple years tolerate "education" at best. It's natural to love learning if no one manages to destroy that affinity by forcefeeding a bland, passionless "education". My six-year-old nephew started kindergarten this year, and after Christmas break, he told his mother he was no longer "interested" in school. Now, he is still very interested in learning, and I hope and pray that his "education" doesn't destroy his love of learning. I don't understand why after learning the basics kids can't be allowed to pursue their education by following their interests. With the plethora of books, educational software programs and the internet, all that would be needed would be someone to be on hand for students to request guidance as needed. Kids could write papers and make presentations to demonstrate what they have learned, and a portfolio could be created for each student to demonstrate accomplishments as opposed to grades. What good are grades except to classify people and establish a pecking order? I found it easy to make A's and B's in school, but the things I retained were things that mattered to me, things that interested me or things I found useful. That's probably a common experience. |
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Note incidentally that I'm not saying the US school system doesn't have its problems. I'm just saying that "It was founded for purpose X" doesn't mean a lot when a century has passed since then. The same argument pops up a lot in dietary arguments too; "it's healthiest to eat X 'cos cavemen did!", for example (ignoring amongst other things that we live much more sedentary lives now, and have a much wider range of food options - ie. that things changed). Quote:
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What "impels" me to my "separation" from the public school system? Why do I fight the system I am a part of? I am in public schools, have been so my whole life and continue to attend a public high school. Indeed, what's the use of questioning the public school system at all if I'm here on Steve Pavlina's forum questioning my beliefs and creating a life of my own design? After all, am I not a product of the public school system? To question the status quo never comes to mind in most people. Social conditioning, the flawed education system, and an unconscious corporate culture leaves people with little choice. People "got bills to pay". People "got games to watch". People "got things to do". Of course. Such brilliant excuses keep people trapped in a depression and depravity for years. Who would think that eating mostly raw plant foods could give one tons of energy, enough energy and clarity of thought to quit your f*cking day job and create a life of your own design? Who would think that there are better things than public schools out there? Face it: most people will never think of discussing a topic like this in today's world. How often does this topic come up in the news? Any takers? Most people are trapped in a mirage, a mirage that has led countless weary men to die of thirst in a desert of solitude and moderation, of compromise and condemnation. We are the extremists, discussing extreme topics because it is the extremist who leads society in a direction of his or her own choosing. It is the moderate who never questions, who never wonders what lies in the mysterious beyond, for fear of failure, for fear of losing comfort, for fear of their ego. It does not matter that parents today are not sending their children "in droves" to better places of education. Not many parents feed their kids lots of fresh, raw vegetables, or create conditions conducive to the development of genius intellect and abilities with a child. It's not anyone's fault in particular. But the time of standing idly by and following the masses is over. It is us, in the pursuit of conscious growth, who must pave the way, must be first, must break the world records and be heralded for bringing light to darkness. Like the clouds that hide the rays of sun and sow destruction through a dry field of wheat, so too are the dark clouds of oppression casting their destructive sparks of weakness and co-dependence suffocating the beacon of light within every man, woman and child today. This will not be so. The clouds will pass; we will make them pass. The sun will shine once more, permeating through the glorious mind of a youth and illuminating the values of self-directed learning, of choice and control over one's own destiny from an early age. This task we have set ourselves, we cannot ignore. It is a duty of ours to improve everyday, in every way, the conditions of this world, and to allow others to do the same. It is a duty of ours to give all children opportunity, opportunity to grow in the manner most suited to their dispositions. It is our duty, as extremists, as growers, as those whom have moved beyond the clouds of oppression, to make manifest our vision of a world where all children have the opportunity to grow in an accelerated manner, to flourish their genius, and to make brighter this world we live in! | |
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If you have no effective way to make decisions because you lack the data to establish causality and only have studies that give you rough correlations going with the thing that worked in the past is a reasonable strategy because it worked. It's about decision making under uncertainty and if you want to know more about that kind of argument I would recommend you Nassim Taleb's The Black Swan. Quote:
Children who are in school can't work at the same time. Sometimes homeschooling might involve learning a trade. I read of one case when some farmer intended to homeschool kids and wanted to teach them farming by letting them work in his farm. That farmer argued that child labor laws prevent him from teaching children what they will need for their latter lifes as farmers. | |||
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