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| Master Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Are people seriously reading the same article I just read?? Why are people getting all riled up and defensive? What is it him using the word "slave?" I don't see anything bad in that article, in fact I'm quite intrigued! It sounds like something fun and exciting. Now, if I could just pay off my student loans, I would totally hop on a plane and join Mr. Master Savage (is that too much?) at his "compound." |
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| Master Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV
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They typically prefer to be called something like associates. If you refer to them as slaves, they may try to bite you. I say call them slaves anyway. It's more honest. The bite marks will heal. Most slaves don't have rabies. | |
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Some day ago I wrote a rather long answer here but accidently deleted it before posting, but anyway there I ended with thanking you because you pushed me out of my comfort zone (standing up for my feelings at least here). But again, I'm really sorry if I hurt you or anybody. And please note that English is not my language. | |
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Actually can I document it? | |
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| Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ~Milwaukee, WI - USA
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Hey Steve, are you going to be in town the 26th-28th? I'm compiling my application as we speak, and my girlfriend and I will be in Vegas that Tuesday through Thursday. I was wondering if you'd be open to keeping a lunch date free for one of those days. I see this as a once in a lifetime opportunity to let go and let grow. A heroic attempt to capture the creative energy of 15th century Florence and distill it into a single Vegas household. Unabashed enthusiasm aside, I'm ready to challenge my limiting beliefs, develop new habits, and make contributions that previously seemed too scary to even attempt. And my girlfriend is selflessly willing to risk months, if not years, apart so that I may have the chance to pursue this path to the fullest. My application ought to have no trouble conveying my commitment to personal growth and penchant for thriving in challenging and unconventional settings. But I feel a face-to-face meeting will tell us in an instant whether or not I might be a good fit for your vision moving forth. Thanks for sharing this opportunity the way you did. Even if I don't end up playing a direct role in this vision, the value I've gotten from merely imagining myself in this setting has opened me up to challenging the infallibility of my own point of view and finding more value in other people's perspectives. Much appreciation. |
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| Master Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV
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You may want to wait till I post the "Help Wanted (the Serious Version)" blog post though. It's written, but I still have to edit it before I can post it. It's the non-joke version, so it removes all the D/s stuff and such. It also has a lot more detail about potential ways of working together. I'm not actually looking to put everyone together in the same household, but the true part is that I am looking to build up a staff so we can get a lot more done as a team. When I saw that some people were taking the joke part so seriously, it inspired me to run with it for a bit, but it's not something I was seriously planning to do. I thought it was a fun thing to consider and discuss, but I can't see myself really doing that sort of thing. So far I've already received 3 slave apps, and it appears that all of them saw through the slave part as my being playful and basically let me know of their genuine interest in working together. Even if someone really got taken in by the slave parts, I wouldn't hold it against them. As I mentioned previously, D/s is nothing but acting or role-playing. I can see some creative types having fun with it in a silly sort of way. I think I'd have more fun on the business side though if people called me Captain, and then every time I gave someone instructions, I could say "Make it so." I think Erin encountered a company where everyone took on Star Trek inspired roles, and they seemed to enjoy it. | |
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| Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ~Milwaukee, WI - USA
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While I thought the D/s part was largely written in jest, I must admit the possibility of immersing myself in a "personal growth compound" really excited me. In my head it was Project Mayhem meets the Googleplex meets a confluence of talents and passion unseen since the days of the Renaissance. And I saw myself growing in ways I could scarcely imagine, and using this experience to eventually create my own experimental living/work environment to further explore the possibilities of immersion of and cross-pollination. I'll be looking forward to reading the serious article and seeing what dynamics you are willing to employ in lieu of co-located living and working. Who knows, it might even be a better fit for me than my lionized version of the personal growth compound. On the other hand, I can't help but think that I already have access to hundreds of growth oriented people in my area, and if I can just give myself permission to fail and make mistakes and initiate more, I can create the very experiences and opportunities I crave. The possibilities are endless. And that's what I appreciate so much about opportunities, real or imagined, that spur me into dreaming without reservations. I realize how much more I could be creating and contributing. And that the only excuse I have for not doing so is my own unwillingness to start. | |
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Another inspiration was Project Hollywood from the book The Game. I know someone who was there. Both of those projects ended on a bad note though. | |
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I'll be interested to see your serious version Steve. Admittedly, I don't really fancy the idea of being a slave as I can be that anywhere I work. However, I agree with most of your philosophy and the convenience of living in the same city is there if you're seeking offline help.
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For instance, even if you don't pay them, I doubt anyone will do work that you consider valuable for you without you giving them something that is of equal value to them in return. Even if that just means giving them a place to live without paying rent, then in their minds won't they naturally equate that to something like "Okay he's giving me a place to live which would normally cost me $700/month for an apartment, thus his gift to me is worth $700/month so I should give him about $700 worth of value in the form of my hard work" - or something like that. We humans always seem to be doing trade-offs like this in our head. Money is not something to be a slave to if you just see it as a tool used for transferring value. If someone works for $1000, their work hasn't just earned them 1000 green pieces of paper, it has earned them the things or experiences that that money can be traded for. I guess my actual question is: why are you avoiding a normal boss-employee (or captain-first mate All that said, of course I understand the analogy of employees to slavery. I've only had one paid job and one unpaid internship in my life so far, and both had some unintelligent people in charge of operations. But still, for someone who isn't an ignorant baboon, does being a regular boss in charge of employees really need to be avoided? Last edited by Curtis2011; 04-10-2011 at 03:05 AM. | |
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Unfortunately that story had a sad ending too...we're not putting together a very good trend of analogies here. | |
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People seem to forget that, as a consultant, Steve has regular opportunities to influence people who value their growth enough to pay $1000/hr to accelerate it. Do you honestly think he'd say to himself, "Well, since this employee is paying me $0 for my guidance, I should give him $0 worth of value?" Or is it possible that the reason Steve is able to attract $1000/hr clients with no paid marketing is because he gives away his best at every opportunity? And the reason people volunteer to work for him is because they know they will benefit much more from working with him than from substantially higher pay at a job that doesn't challenge them to grow? One of the reasons Steve wrote this article the way he did was to challenge people who were in denial about how slavery-like their current work situation was like. As someone who's been self-employed / happily jobless for the last six years, I know I haven't been working as someone else's slave. But the article still reminded me of how much of a slave I've become to my own willingness to sell myself short, and live a life that, while vibrant and periodically fulfilling, is only a shadow of what it could be. The reason I was willing to uproot my life, risk losing an amazing girlfriend, and pass on control of my local projects was because I knew I could grow more working with Steve than I could living in an environment where no one else is pushing me to grow. I already challenge myself a lot—and consequently grow a ton—but I can't see past my blind spots, or learn what I didn't even know I didn't know; so my self-administered growth is lopsided by bias and hindered by limitations that seem normal to me, but that would be quickly caught by someone who's already transcended those limitations himself. In my mind, I'm going to succeed with or without Steve's help. And I know I'm already succeeding on many levels. I just know that, despite my best efforts, the ways in which I sell myself short are greater than the price of receiving slightly less monetary compensation for the opportunity to do life changing work. Besides, we don't yet know what sort of model Steve is looking to employ. Who knows how much of the April 1st post was intended as a joke and how much was serious. But I do recall Steve's logic behind forming Pavlina LLC rather than making it a nonprofit. Quote:
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| Actually we could use a few more mods, so if you're serious about it, the mods and I can discuss it. We generally make these decisions by consensus because the collective group of mods usually has a good pulse on who'd make a good mod. I think that's one reason the mod team has gotten better and better since the forums launched.
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supertom, I also have an opening for you...in my army of minions. The first rule of this army is to not talk about the army though. And there's a brief initiation period, but it's nothing too terrible...just go hungry for 8 days, stand in the bitter cold for an entire night, and then bath in a tub full of [censored]. Your first mission would be to deliver crates of bigfoots and unleash them into the world. If you notice that they are blurry, do not be alarmed. Bigfoots ARE blurry. they are large out of focus monsters and that is extra scary. Shoot me a message if you're interested. Lots of Shoop, James P.S. Shoop da Whoop |
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