Nice Guys Finish Last. Chicks Dig Darkworkers!

[Shaden]

The shy, quirky guy wins every time!

Hmmm, one out of two. That's got to be worth something right?

[Jenny]

Thanks for the sweet reply, wasn't even sure if I was posting it correctly. Definitely, Shaden, definitely (I'd add a smiley face if I could figure out how...)

[Freelancer]

Originally Posted by Jenny

I'd argue that the reason "nice" guys don't get the girls is that most of the self-described nice guys really aren't all that nice. It's just a social mask to hide, well, who knows what. A lot of the guys I've know through the years who have trouble getting women who want to be more than friends, or seem to get the "nice guy" speech a lot and/or get cheated on regularly disguise a really crappy passive-aggressive personality as nice. Well, it's not. It is also NOT the description of a so called lightworker.

In defense of bad guys (again, not sure most bad guys qualify as darkworkers) at least you know what you're getting and they are one hell of a good time.

Those said, ultimately good character traits are attractive. The shy, quirky guy wins every time!

I can tell you what they'r hiding, they are hiding there insecurity about themselves. They don't fully accept themselves so they go with the presents/gifts/compliments making them weak and pathetic.

Your absolutely correct that this is NOT part of a highly conscious lightworker, but part of a low conscious lightworker...

On the other hand there are the high conscious darkworkers, who realize that to get pleasure themselves they first need to provide it (this doesn't mean giving presents but treating girls as humans and not gods). And the low conscious darkworker who's just plain a big jerk.

The bad guys are the low conscious light/darkworkers.
In fact I'd say that if you see high conscious light or darkworkers out clubbing they will act very similary but with a totally different intent.



Ps. There are smilies on the right side when your typing.

[Mark Lapierre]

Originally Posted by Jenny

The shy, quirky guy wins every time!

Hehe, I've been that shy, quirky guy all my life. It wasn't until I became a shy, quirky guy with higher self-esteem, and enough self-confidence to be comfortable with girls I'm interested in, that I started winning.

[spikyface]

Originally Posted by u2met86

this is from the same website as the original post:

As Seduction Goes Mainstream - Pick Up and Seduction Database

it's basically an expert PU explaining why it's GOOD FOR SOCIETY that seduction becomes mainstream. guys improve themselves, raise their standards for the women they'll tolerate. more guys will become attractive "elites" (not just rock stars, athletes, rich guys). thus, women will have to step up & improve themselves, etc. etc. that's why the author loves teaching the stuff.

Dimitri, I've met that guy, dude is awesome, completely redefined the way I saw true PUAs

Was completely natural, nothing loud, flashy or showy but there was just something "enlightened" about him

Like he knew himself, and just was himself, without trying

He could also pull hot girls out of thin air (to my eyes anyway)

[Brutha]

reason, isn't that high of a level. Its like level three. The level just above total dependance (oral) and agression, territoriality (anal stage)

Basically the level just above relying on base animal instincts. Reason, is the level most scientists are stuck on.

You should be aware that 95% of people live under that level of reason.
The amount of people who really live higher level of consciousness is quite small. It's the 1% that we were talking about above.

[jshine2]

I believe the phrase "nice guys finish last" is a hasty generalization.

There must be something within the niceness that is causing the finishing last, not being nice itself.

It is not logical to conclude that because nice guys finish last therefore you must become a jerk, dark worker or whatever the bad guy character is called nowadays. This is a false dichotomy. I highly recommend anybody taking dating advice to examine it under scrutiny because becoming a rabid jerk without knowing what you're doing can really mess up your life.

Can someone please explain to me what light worker and dark worker are?