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Yup! I see it this way too! After all how can someone give something they don't already have or already give to themselves? So be a darkworker to gather the energy and once you know what that is, you can share it out - or stay "stuck" as a darkworker (as is being implied that it's just as effective to stay a darkworker). |
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Maybe one can start right away with the lightworker energy, but if one does start with the lightworker energy the dark energies are still included, in my mind, as part of being a lightworker. That is one has to take care of the goose that lays the golden eggs. (The goose being self-interest darkwork and the golden eggs the lightworker's giving.) |
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| I think this whole darkworker/lightworker dichotomy is a false one. If our thoughts and intentions manifest into our reality, and the "subjective reality" model that is proposed is correct, then the dichotomy between dark and light is nonexistant. This is because the universe is ultimately an expression of the individual, and vice versa. And other people are also an expression of the individual, which is again a reflection of the greater consciousness that is the universe. Of course, one can choose to either serve oneself, or serve the whole, but I think an individual with a certain amount of consciousness will realize that the endpoint is ultimately the same. One can choose to direct energy towards themselves, or towards others, but ultimately, both the individual and the collective must be nurtured. The ego is an important vehicle for us to use to experience reality, and we must support that through self-serving actions. But we must also contribute to the reality of others if we are navigate through the world effectively. So why put these things into dualisms? Serve all, serve one. Ultimately they are one in the same. At least this is what Steve has claimed in other blog postings... |
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Another thing is I think you can have a love-motivated STS, or a fear-motivated STO. In fact, our society encourages this. If you don't take care of yourself, others who love you will feel pity. Therefore, love can motivate us to take care of ourselves so that others won't feel bad. And if you act too selfish, others will despise you. Therefore, self-interest can motivate us to be kind to others. Perhaps there is a state of enlightened greyness where you utilize both motivations in equal proportion. Enlightened dark or light would also lead to a good balance of STS/STO, however, because both can and will be rationalized from either motive by an intelligent person. |
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At most, the lightworker versus darkworker thing provides a boosted sense of worth. In my opinion this is largely a ego based distinction similar to the Left-Hand or Right-Hand paths in the occult. The idea of working for the greater good of all presupposes that your view of what is right corresponds to your neighbors. This type of thought fosters persecution and division if taken to its extreme. This is not to say that Steve is not a lightworker, nor does it suppose that there is no such thing as a darkworker. I'm only implying that both of these terms are simply titles on the same scale as shirts and skins. It only applies to those playing the game. |
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If you chose to control your music completely, you could be doing it from a "darkworker" polarity to make yourself happy and just write for yourself, or you could be doing it from a "lightworker" polarity to give the world something good and entertain those who aren't happy with commercial music. If you choose to earn more money, you could be doing that with a "darkworker" polarity so you can be better off and buy more expensive things. You could also be doing it with a "lightworker" polarity so you could use your money and fame to bring attention and help to people who can't help themselves. Steve's latest post reinforces my point. As he says, the content of the decision doesn't matter; each decision can be done with both polarities, and each polarity can support both decisions. Choosing your polarity and choosing to "sell out" or not are actually separate decisions; you just have to go with whichever combination feels best for you. In the end, polarity probably won't make a big difference in how you decide things like this. Steve is just saying that if you do everything with the same polarity you eventually get much better at doing what you decide to do (I haven't experienced this yet). The point isn't to change your decisions, it's to put the right kind of energy behind them so you're motivated to accomplish your goals and you can use the law of attraction more effectively. |
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| I was excited by the recent book by Harry Jim called Wise Secrets of Aloha. I believe it may be the first book written by a native Hawaiian Kahuna. It really clarifies the critical distinction between the dark path of power and the light path of serving other beings. The question is "Am I enough?" "If the answer is a definite yes, then the path is service, If the answer is even the slightest vibration of "No, I am not" then that's the path of power. Of trying, trying, trying to be enough, to have enough power." Got to appreciate the philosophy of a culture that manifests and maintains paradise. |
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I like this perspective a lot. Right now I feel like I finally am enough. =) I think I would have got here a lot quicker though if I had been more competitve (darkworker) over the last few years about protecting what was mine and growing my financies. I let a lot of people walk all over on me, because they acted like they needed help from me, and it stunted me for years. Basically, compete hard (and ethically) to get to where you can truly be at peace and happy. Then relax, and share as much as you can, as smartly as you can, while protecting the peace that you've secured.
__________________ Best, Dan Linehan |
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| im not sure what to think of this idea of polarization.. i was under the impression that the point was to unify, not polarize. if we polarize dont we just reaffirm separation? isnt the point to unify to neutral, to be one whole? |
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Well, If I applied light polarity to my music... I would give my songs for free, reaching a few, and with a lower budget that If I was signed (but with greater artistic freedom). I already do this, and doesn't mean much to me. I don't think is worth to record some songs, to register them, etc. for a small audience... Well yes, it's worth it. But it's not a great thing... it's payed because I know some people like it, and that's all. It is somehow like when you post here or anywhere and you sometimes help people doing it. If I go dark I would do anything the companies would want (...) and maybe I would reach many... but in a way I don't like... You know, the dark side is a faster way... but not the best way. Music business is a very strange thing to analyse because music are feelings mostly. It's a fine line between heaven or hell in music business. I know that If I will "sell out" it wouldn't be good for me, maybe for others, but not for me. So, I'm still here and 97% of my music is only on my head. |
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It sounds like your goal is to reach as many people as possible. In this case the way you decide to work at this isn't necessarily on the light side or dark side. Polarity would apply more to the reason that you want to reach people. Is it to make their lives better, or so you can do something you enjoy all the time? Last edited by 1000feet : 03-10-2007 at 04:39 PM. |
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