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Use this thread to discuss the following entry from Steve Pavlina's blog: A Fixed Income Is a Sucker Bet |
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Last month was probably my best ever income-wise though, so were getting there. Fun to see it gradually manifest. | |
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I can relate. The first thing I did when I moved into my dorm was put up some similar affirmations. "I'm attracting all the right people into my life." "I provide value for thousands of people around the world." " I make an abundant income doing what I love." Most of my floor-mates think that's weird |
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Yet you still seem to be making progress toward that goal. | |
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For the most part, people don't tease me about my goals or act incredulous when they see them anymore. They're more likely to believe I can achieve them, and sometimes that creates the opposite response. They get fixated on an outcome that seems too far beyond them at the moment. That causes them to tense up and withdraw a bit. I don't want such people to tense up after walking into my office since it messes with the connection experience. I wrote the beliefs article for people who need to work a lot on their power, people who must overcoming feelings of inadequacy. The area I'm working on personally right now is learning to create deeper connections with people and to meet them where they are, and my belief board was working against that. What I could do to compensate is to restore the belief board and focus more on my connection/love goals. Then they'll become conversation pieces that can help create more connection, not less. The $100K/month goal is of secondary concern anyway. | |
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I found you via ycombinator/twitter. Personally I'd have to disagree, largely because I feel that you take no account of why somebody would be happy with a "fixed" income. For the last three jobs I've been earning progressively less money, solely out of choice I might add, (I can't spend all the money I make even now.) But then I love my job. "truly, madly deeply" There was a time I'd have done it for food and a bed, indeed people joked that I was there so long, I may as well just put a camp bed into the server room, as that way I wouldn't have to walk to work and back. That was my first UNIX job, the one I got paid least for, and it's still the best single job I've ever had. Because of it, I stepped out into a wider world, left my country of origin, met great friends, and got married on a mountain top on the other side of the world, to a woman who continually surprises me, even now. Because we're trying for kids at present I'm reading a lot of developmental psychology, stuff about parenting, etc. I came across this passage today, from a book my mother read as she was waiting for me: Quote:
Amusingly enough there's a program on the BBC later this week about parents in NYC fighting, (and paying stupid amounts of money) to get their kids into the right kindergartens. I remember listening to an interview long ago with the sage like porn magnate Larry Flynt, where he was talking about his life, and why he was in a wheel chair, and as an answer to a question I cannot remember he said, "happiness is way to travel, not a destination" which chimed, and has stuck with me ever since. Not everyone who's on a fixed income is a sucker, just as not everyone who makes $100K a month is smart. If money is all you love... Last edited by praxis22; 09-11-2009 at 02:01 AM. Reason: didn't proof read :) | |
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It was an ok article.... Kind of smacks of 'Ten Reasons You Should Never Get A Job". Which in it's self is kind of funny. I picture a world in which everybody follows Steve's advice. Now we move twenty five years into the future, roads in disarray, bridges and infrastructure falling apart. And everyone sitting around with extended bellies and flies all over them like the people I see on Sunday morning TV. And all because we followed Steve's advice, and nobody wanted to be a sucker and work for a living. Only one problem were not all pizza delivery men..... Let's see.....Firemen for the one of the highest paid departments in the U.S. Paid vacation, paid sick days, paid personal time, paid Holidays. Full pension for life, that means six figures for hanging with the Family doing whatever I want. My wife is a School Teacher in the same County. Same paid vacation, sick days, personal and Family leave, all paid for. Again, full pension. Now for the kicker, we both have full major medical 100% catastrophic coverage for us and are children, for life. This also includes dental and eye.... Yea I feel like a sucker. I assume you pay out of pocket for these things now. I'm curious to know how you will pay for these things in the future, say ten to twenty years from now. BTW I also owned and operated my own Masonry contracting business for 23 years. which I just sold off and liquidated for a very large sum. I did this freely because of my fixed income job. A lot of firemen and Teachers, Cops are able to work their fixed income job and have a second business on the side. Most people can find good fixed income jobs that handle the cost of things like health insurance, to name one very important asset. And still allow you to pursue other goals. Fixed income provides a steady flow of money while you refine your goals, point is you can still have both. But success doesn't come without hard work, and I think it's irresponsible to tell people otherwise. I'm sure you didn't achieve your status without it..... |
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I think there are plenty of people who would have a hard time implementing this advice. What about a single mother with two young children who dropped out of high school? She would love a big house and nice things for her kids, but as it is she has a job that lets her provide the family with a livable apartment, food, and adequate clothing. She is dissatisfied in the sense that she wants more, but should she "roll 'dem bones" on the hope that she will get it? She has to weigh the benefits of quitting her somewhat guaranteed income to pursue that pot of gold, and in the process she could lose her apartment, her ability to buy adequate food and clothing, and ultimately her children if she just cannot create that money. Yes, she took a chance that could have eliminated her dissatisfaction, but she may find that she should have been happy for all the things she had instead: her children, food on the table, a roof over her head. For many young, single, intelligent, motivated people this could be great advice. When you are young and ambitious, all you really have to lose are your youth and ambition. When you become older and have people who depend on you, though, it just seems too dangerous to give up a secure income in hopes of more. Maybe people in that situation should start looking to things other than the shinier car and the bigger house for satisfaction in life. |
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"Personal development is hard work. It takes time, consistency, and patience. If you're only here looking for shallow quick fixes and you aren't interested in real, lasting change, this isn't the right place for you." - Steve Pavlina Quote:
And yes it's perfectly fine to have a JOB you love. As long as you're choosing to do so consciously. IMHO The scenario you imagine is unrealistic in two regards. First, if everyone WERE to follow Steve's advice the world would be in a much better place. Instead of trashing our world we would take care of it instead. And there will always be people who ENJOY doing the odd jobs of the world. | ||
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@Always learning: Hmm, I would say that if you tell the universe you "want to be ready" that is basically saying you are not ready. So I would personally go with "I am ready" and visualise yourself being ready and it will come to pass. I put up some positive affirmations at work about being highly productive and loving working on my current game and making the best games in the world etc. and got a funny look from at least one person, but I don't care because it works for me. You do have to break through a certain amount of social embarrassment if you do something like that though. I was doing a talk last night at the Vancouver Film School to a load of Game Design students about my Indie game developer days and I mentioned some key things that Steve mentioned today. One was about hiring an accountant because they save you time and money so are totally worth it. I don't want to fill out boring forms, I'll delegate that to an expert so I can do what I do best. I've used an accountancy firm for 7 years with zero regrets. Another thing I mentioned at the talk was "Speculate to Accumulate" in relation to spending money on a business venture. Normally people have no problem spending money on stuff that depreciates in value like a car or a huge TV, but when it comes to investing money in something, fear kicks in and they don't want to spend the money. In 2006 I decided to spend about $2300 on a game I was making and I reasoned that the worst case was I'd loose it all, a middle case was I'd loose some or break even, and a best case was I'd profit by anywhere from $0.01 to infinity. Turns out the game has made $23,000 so far, nearly a 10x ROI, and it only took me 5 weeks to make, so I'm pretty pleased with that. Also, I constantly receive royalties for that game so the figure goes up every day :-) You may have noticed from my post above that I'm now employed instead of Indie (self-employed), and yes that was a hard transition but I did it for the experience of moving to another country and learning from the best in the industry, and to get paid loads. I still own my company and it still makes me passive income, which is nice. So, who knows what the future holds? (Well I guess I probably do as I have a 5 year plan - do you? But things can change.) Most likely at some point I'll run my own company again after building up more skills and contacts (some people would worry about posting stuff like that on-line, but it's the truth and don't believe in having two personalities i.e. public and private like people do on facebook, how lame. Besides whilst I'm still an employee, I'll be a damn good one because I want it to be win-win for me and them.) Anyway, that's my thoughts. Hope they are useful to someone. Last edited by Jake Birkett; 09-11-2009 at 04:11 AM. |
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Also, if no one cares to build roads, maybe it's safe to say that we would be better off without them? And if people really want all these fancy roads and stuff, road-makers will be paid big bucks. That's where the phrase "If I don't do it, somebody else will" comes from. And people being people, we'd be lucky if 20% of people take Steve's advice. | |
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Steve's Blog is focused on facts that fixed income jobs are for suckers, fixed income......That there are other ways of earning and enjoying yourself while you do..... That's all well and good... Quote:
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This argument boils down to, "some people will have to live lives they hate to keep things running" and it's ultimately an excuse for why you're stationed where you are. If you're not living how you want and you've got an ernest desire to change, you've no one to look to but yourself. And don't assume that if no one were employed (in the sense that people are now) that the roads would be in disarray and everyone would spend their time watching TV. Why do you think roads got built in the first place? The creative urge that drove those projects forward are still present in human beings. And if you think no one would want to handle the sewage or the garbage or what have you, you underestimate the range of human interests. Some are happy just being given a problem and an opportunity to solve it. | |
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I like this article. Struck a strong chord. I think it's worth pointing out that steve did not recommend immediately quitting your job. Until you have another way of creating and delivering value up and running, or to a point where your job is really stopping you, then you might consider staying in your job to pay the bills. Also, there's nothing wrong with a fixed income and benefits if you feel you are actually gaining more from the fixed income than you could outside of it on your own. Of course, there might be some internal work to do to improve your self worth, but if you are really getting great benefits etc. and you enjoy your job, why not stay with it? If you are happy in your job stay there. Just don't stay with a job you hate because of the money. Find another way to earn money, or die trying ( a little intense, I know, but hey, nothing wrong with a little intensity |
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Wonderful article, Steve. Really put me in the mood to do some major work on my website. You're right...we decide what our income is. Sure beats your egg article. Didn't care for that style of writing...not very uplifting. |
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I quit my day job about 3 months ago. I have no longer fixed income and my passive income has not even reached that level (but it's close Working without perspective for doubling or tripling my income really looked like playing game without any progress to me. Boring. Now I realize I can go broke but increasing my income 5 or 10 times is no longer a crazy thought either. And it's worth it But it's not only about money but also time for me. With my passive income I've essentially bought these 8 hours per day to do what I like. More time, more fun... maybe more money as well, some day |
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That's one picture. Another picture: people providing these services for a fee instead of in a 'fixed income' job. It seems you assume Steve tells us to get rid of our jobs. He doesn't. He does point out some of the disadvantages, to have his readers think about it, and make conscious choices, whatever they are. At least that's how I read him | |
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If you've looked at the possibilities of getting a job vs. not getting a job, the consequences of doing taxes or not doing taxes, etc. then guess what? You've thought about it, and no one is talking about you!! In this case you are taking something personally because you think or feel it applies to you, but it really doesn't. Some people have thought about it and still have jobs. Certain personality types, if they had thought about it, would never have gotten a job. If, on the other hand, you think, "Huh, well why didn't think of doing that? I'd much rather live with all the possibilities that not having a job offers over having a steady income that my wife and children can rely on!" Then you should thank Steve for showing you the golden egg. I don't know what to say. You seem to get it, but still think I'm attacking your position. I'm well aware that not having a job sucks financially for the first few years until the person "gets it". Maybe I missed something, but it seems to me that Steve is appealing to those people who are thinking "God, I hate a) doing my taxes b) never having really good days c) never getting credit for all my good ideas, etc." Whereas he is not appealing to those who are thinking, "Wouldn't it suck to have to always be looking for new opportunities? I'm glad I have this steady pay job." (although he gives credit where credit is due, and points out that the steady pay job might not be as stable as you think) | |
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I find the argument that bridges can only be built by employees to be rather silly. Bombs that blow up bridges (and people) are also built by employees, so be sure to take credit for those too. No sucker jobs means it would be much harder to conduct war. When the world is free of sucker jobs, I will personally maintain our bridges. | |
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