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As long as people make conscious choices, it's OK. But the whole system is biased towards having a job. Starting with most parents and the educational system. Posts like Steve's are a nice counterweight and hopefully inspires people to ate least think about their choices. | ||
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The more people know about you, the more likely they are to do business with you. Even a serial killer can get a book deal, but not if he remains anonymous. Anonymity repels opportunity. | |
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Not everyone is meant to be self-employed, perhaps they are happier as employees. As an employee you only have a set amount of things to be concerned about. It's easier and for some people, it's the best way for them to add value to society. I did confuse "stable" with low pay when I mentioned the salary amount.I want to say more about that, but I need a minute to think about it. However, the dollar amount is not really important. | |
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| No idea, wasn't nearly as interested in economics then, as I am now. This is not your father's recession, it's your grandfathers. The world, and indeed/especially the developed economies will not easily bounce back from this, IMO. Now is not a good time to try to get into something new, better to find a safe, boring job with a regular pay check, bunker down and sit it out. Personally I would think a good time to get into something new would be in 3-5 years when employment picks back up again. I actually clicked on a link that brought me here because of the title. "fixed income is a sucker bet" I though fixed income meant bonds, as they are regarded as "fixed income" products. |
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It's interesting to compare and contrast the responses to those who disagree with Steve's article. On one hand you have one poster who doesn't like what he does for a living, doesn't make much money and objects very emotionally to what Steve writes in this blog post. On the other hand, you have someone like Acting like Godot who disagrees with Steve, but really likes his job, enjoys how much he is making and is secure in what he is doing. He responds logically and non-emotionally to Steve's post. So, in the first case, the poster most likely resonates with a good part of what Steve writes, but has been denying that to himself because he's chosen to live a life very differently. Thus he reacts emotionally to the post. In the second case, Acting like Godot, is very happy with what he's got now, so he doesn't feel attacked or takes what Steve wrote personally even though he disagrees with what Steve wrote. It goes back to reinforce what Steve has written. If you react emotionally negatively to his blog post, it's most likely because a huge part of you agree with what he is saying and you're bothered by it because you're denying that to yourself. Otherwise, you can still completely disagree with what Steve writes without getting an emotional reaction if internally you truly don't agree with what Steve writes. |
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Now is the time to create a business that's built on a solid foundation. | |
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In my life, I've discovered that most truths tend to go against the grain of what's commonly accepted as truth. For example, a few years ago everybody and their brother was buying a house. Why? Because it was easy to do so. Now what is happening? They are losing their homes and they can't sell them because they bought it at an inflated price. The result? What everybody else was doing was not what the smart thing to do really was. NOW is the chance of a lifetime to buy a house. But very few people are. Same with the stock market. It's this moment, when chips are down, that it's such a fantastically opportunity filled moment to invest because the potential of that investment is so much greater geared towards success. And the same thing with business. Right now is the moment to act for that same reason...BECAUSE EVERYBODY ELSE IS SCARED TO ACT. |
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Have you noticed how many people always complain how their job sucks and how they want to do something else? It seems that majority of working class fall into this category. And that's why weekends/holidays seem like a heavenly prospect. In some countries, some jobs, like those in the government, are 'secure' in the sense that you cannot be fired very easily. And this is one of the main reasons why people opt for those. I have seen so many getting a job in their young age and sticking it out till retirement, no matter how much the job stinks. Sadly, it becomes a way of life. They cannot imagine leaving a fixed income job and trying something else. |
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Live a PASSIONATE, Meaningful Life IN EVERY area otherwise it's all pointless. Just surviving isn't good enough. Temporarily yes, long-term never. Last edited by Dimond; 09-14-2009 at 06:36 PM. | ||
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So I think depending on your background and everything ALG listed in his above post. Steve’s blog is a bit self serving. | |
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I liked the essence of the article, especially the beginning where a strong point is made that secure really isn't that secure. Part of the article gave me the feeling that you feel that people who are on a fixed income must be terrible at managing money, and that if you make a flexible income, that doesn't matter, because you can just earn more if you get into a tight spot... I think all those people complaining about not having enough money would probably feel that same way (most probably worse) if they were self-employed. I don't see the necessary link. If you spend more than you earn, or close to it, yeah unexpected expenses will suck. For me personally, I make a fixed income, and although I do very much agree with the beginning part of the article, about being subject to another's whims, or not being able to earn more if you would need it, I feel as if the other side of the coin is not being addressed equally. I earn a very nice salary. More than I can spend, so for me I've come to a point where I have money left over every month. So that means, I don't think (or worry) about it anymore. I just focus on doing what I love and making sure I get paid for my added value. The fact that one month I might add more value than I get paid and the other month perhaps a little less, doesn't bother me that much. Money isn't the point of my life nor of my work. I passed the "i must survive" mark a while ago and now it's just more of the same. I might not be a millionaire and I might not drive 3 cars at the same time, but I don't care. I care for feeling good and creating. And once you are able to easily survive, I don't care how I am paid. Do I think I'll be self employed in the (near) future, probably. Does that make things easier? Not necissarily. Does it mean I'll have more to spend? I'm not sure yet. There is good sides and bad sides to having a job, and also for being self-employed. To being on a fixed income and being on a variable income. I think a lot of the "problems" you suggest have to do with money management in general and with desire for stuff. And perhaps with the "spend it before you earn it" idea that seemed so normal just a few months ago. Keep postin'! |
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A lot of Steve's articles are only relevant so long as the monetary system remains in place - be it generating passive income, turning what you love into a profitable business, manifesting wealth, etc... and I think he is fully aware of this. Just my thought on the matter. ____________ Learn by doing Last edited by Leondegrance; 09-16-2009 at 02:35 AM. | |
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I work from home and we have a housekeeper come in every 2 weeks. She spends 5-6 hours cleaning our house (incl. office) for $110.00! It's one of the best business investments I make. Maybe you are talking about something else it would take. Please fill in the blanks. -Erica | |
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This post encouraged me to send some tax documents I'd been putting off to my accountant with a note that said "I will pay you to deal with these." He's happy to get paid; I am happy to not have to spend my time doing stupid tax work. Interestingly, a strange synchronicity occurred. As soon as I made this decision, but before I had called him (I had it on my to-do list for this week), he called. Said, "Hey, I have your corporate 2008 taxes done. How are things going? Is there anything else I can help you with?" He *never* calls. Thanks, LOA and the universe. Appreciated the endorsement of my decision! I thanked him profusely for calling. -Erica |
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You're absolutely right, Steve. We need money, but a job may not be the best way to go about it. It could be a nice short-term solution (together with selling your stuff at dump prices or calling a shady loneshark who won't bother with checking your finances first), but long-term, it can bite you in the ass. I've seen this everywhere around me: - My mother used to be a nurse, until she had a stroke. She can no longer do her job, so the cashflow has stopped as well. - My father is a manager of a nursinghome that provides care to people in their own homes (not quite sure if I translated this right), but when his boss turned out to be a scammer, the whole company went belly-up and he was left in the dust, blinking and wondering what the **** just happened. He now has a new job and is LOVING it, but danger still lurks in the shadows. - My father's new boss is an awesome guy and a jack-of-all-trades. He owns this carebusiness, but also a cleaningbusiness, a cateringcompany and lord knows what else. Unfortunately, they are not self-sufficient and he still needs to attent. His wife and daughters need to help out as well in the cleaningbusiness and there are times he has to operate on only 2 hours of sleep for 60 hours, just to keep everything running until he can afford to hire more managers like my dad. I don't like any of the three scenarios above. My mother lost her income, because she could no longer do her work. My dad lost his, because the company he worked for went down the drain. He has a new job, but the same danger still exists. My father's boss thinks he owns business, but in my eyes, he just owns jobs. Sure, he can't get fired (except if you count bankrupty), and he doesn't have all his eggs in one basket, but at the expense of his time and health. I will try to find a way to make money work for me, so I won't have to. |
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A periodic housekeeper might be a good idea, though! I was just saying that I miss that one aspect of working in an office -- coming in every morning and someone has tidied and cleaned and taken the trash out. | |
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I am interested in a refutation of what Brickman says in reply to this blog post. If we take Steve's thesis to a logical conclusion, it means in a "perfectly conscious populace", there would not be anyone who wants to clean toilets, floors or pour concrete-- so who is going to take care of these necessary functions ? Or is the underlying thesis here that the human race will always be divided by "class" into -- the "smart conscious" people and the "intellectually challenged"/un-smart/un-conscious people ? If so, then this thesis should be made clear in the argument. -KN |
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To my way of thinking if you can save for a while and not do anything stupid like putting any more money into the markets, then you'll have enough in a few years to either buy a house or engage a wealth manager to actually trade for you, etc. If money is what you love then now is a time to be cautious, the "paradox of thrift" be dammed Can't say as I've ever been bored, though I may be boring, but I've never been a part of the crowd, or interested in making money. Seems to me that in world filled with as much information as this one, it would be a crime to waste time chasing paper when I could be learning instead. For instance, the more I learn of risk, (and this book is probably the best on the subject: Amazon.com: Against the Gods: The Remarkable Story of Risk (0723812295630): Peter L. Bernstein: Books) the more I learn that it's never the things you see coming that keep you up at night. The best you can do when getting into something is ask yourself two questions, "do I know what I'm doing?" and "what's the worst that can happen?" Provided you don't know what you're doing and you're happy if the worst should happen then you're good to go. Everything else you deal with as it happens. It doesn't matter that you get knocked down, what matters is that you get back up again. The moment you decide to stay down it's over. Wired 8.04: The Dumbass, The Daytrader, and the New Democracy Anthony Elgindy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia At the moment, going into the business end of the worst recession since the first world war, "safe but boring" has much to recommend it. Safe but boring will keep you alive and solvent. Just like the man with running shoes saying to the bloke next to him, "I don't have to out run the tiger, I just have to out run you" All you need to do at the moment is remain standing, once the dust settles then to the victor go the spoils. You can see a vivid demonstration of this with the remaining large commercial banks, (because there are no more investment banks) the ones that didn't fail get to carve up the business between them and with less competition they can charge higher fees. Financial Darwinism writ large. The key to this is to understand your position in the great scheme of things, (nobody) It is enough to see far enough ahead to get out of the way of the irresistible force, it will decimate everything in it's path, all you need to be is one step outside of that. If you have to look in the mirror and do the "rah rah" thing in the morning, then I hope it's working out for you. I maintain a simple faith, and make the rest up as I go along, for everything else there is the desiderata. YMMV | |
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If Everyone Awakens Will We All Starve? So RTFB. | |
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