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You assume that people that dig ditches or do labor intensive jobs for a living hate what they do......not always true. The last part of the quote baffles me, did I give the impression I'm not living the way I want? Quote:
It is not I that assumes, it is you. You assume that without the massive amount of labor it takes to maintain critical infrastructure that things would go on, altered or otherwise. It is not I that underestimate the range of Human interest, it's you.... Not even the Egyptian worked without compensation....Do you think people are going to come along and clear your roads and bring you food and medical support or pick up your garbage for free? Why? for the sheer opportunity of it....Not without their fixed income and benefits they won't. At least not in the capacity that is needed. The bottom line is you are totally unaware of what it takes to maintain the quality of life you enjoy in this Country. And I know why roads were built, do you?...... Roads were built to expand territory, civil or otherwise. Roads were built to bring communities together for trade of commerce and goods. Just to name a few reasons. Mankind has always known the important role that roads play in the survival and progress of a civilization. All you need to do is look at Countries that don't have a modern and functional road infrastructure to see the quality of life you might have without them. Quote:
Let's look at Louisiana as a great example of how delicate things are, and quickly they can change. It is estimated that a lack of general maintenance on this countries roads were not performed for a period of one year. 40% +/- of the roads would be impassable. And this is to mean general maintenance, not critical overhaul. This percentage is based solely on environmental impact. Floods, snow, wind, ice, mudslides and excellerated erosion. Without passable roads power and utilities would come to a halt. Trucks couldn't deliver food and basic needed supplies. So you wouldn't have food, electric, running water or the basic necessities to live. You would also be without Emergency Response Teams, Law Enforcement and Fire Response. Most likely whole communities would burn to the ground because Firetrucks couldn't get through. So do I think we need are fancy roads, would we be better off without them, you tell me...... And this takes me back to beginning and my humble remark...... No food, no water,......extended bellies and flies up your nose. Why..... Quote:
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My point, which a lot of you seem to be having trouble grasping, is the fact that fixed income jobs are not only a great source of solid and long term income, but are a requirement for social and structural growth. How? Most of these jobs offer decent and needed benefits such as health care. If your waiting for the government to give it to you for free, don't hold your breath. | ||||||||
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| Couple questions for you, if you don't mind. 1. Did you quit your job before or after you had some form of income lined up? 2. Are you the primary breadwinner in your house? (i.e. are you the only source of income or do you have backup income from a spouse, roommate, etc.?) I'm only asking because I feel like I am at a crossroads with my own job. I have a couple different irons in the fire for income streams (outside of my day job), but I keep thinking that if I were to quit and devote my time entirely towards those things that I could grow that income much faster. I've also been tempted to quit my day job and go to work somewhere part time, andt hen spend the rest of the time building up those other income streams. I guess I'm just feeling like the comfort that my day job provides financially (it pays my bills, provides health insurance, child support, and retirement) have sort of got me paralyzed to where it's hard to motivate myself beyond that to stick with something. |
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That was probably one of the most insightful things I discovered about your book actually, was how surprised at how true it was when I rated things at a "7 out of 10" that I was sorely mistaken. | |
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I don't know.....what? KazeCraven, I don't think you or anybody is attacking me, sorry if you get that impression. Quote:
spirit4711 Asked: Why? Because a good fixed income job offers a solid and steady source of income. And generally very good benefits. It's up to the individual to decide the pay scale they can be happy with. People entering the job market can take a job like,.......the Post Office. Has all the bennie"s that a government job has to offer, including major medical. And still that person can pursue any supplemental income source they want. Now they have all their paid days and Holidays, pension and health plan that their not paying out of pocket. Quote:
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How long has man been making war?........... I think it's safe to say that one has nothing to do with the other.... But you have yet to answer the question on your health care.... How do you maintain and tend to maintain you health care? Do you even have health care? Do you pay for it out of pocket? | ||||||||
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It strikes me as kind of a dependent point of view to choose a job because of the benefits as health insurance, pension etc. Again, no problem if you make such a choice, but please don't equate that with 'the one true way'. It isn't. | ||
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| For shits and giggles one day, I sent off for a quote from Blue Cross/Blue Shield to get an estimate of what it would cost to have health insurance that I alone paid for out of pocket should I quit my job and start my own business. The plan was equivalent (not the same, but it was along the same ballpark as far as "quality" is concernet) to the plan I have now through my employer. They came back with a quote (with different deductibles the price changed) and the quote was along the lines of around $400 per month. Now to me, that seemed expensive. But do you think that $400 a month would seem expensive to somone like Steve? I highly doubt it. And, getting back to the point of this article, now I know what I need to make to cover the cost of insurance on my own. Instead of thinking "I'd never be able to afford that," I think "Hey, I just need to make sure I factor that in as a cost when I figure out what I need to make to quit my job and work for myself." |
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I also stated that the business generated great profit, but it would have cost an arm and a leg to provide my Family with the level of benefits I get through my fixed income job.....Not sure what you mean by, "No need for a job there." Quote:
I never equated fix income as the only option...... | |||
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I am self-employed and happily so. I've had 'regular' jobs before in the past and though they were valuable experiences, it didn't fit with what I want. Quote:
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Again, I don't judge you for the choices you make. I respond to what you write in this topic. | |||||||
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But here's the way I look at it. My definition of retirement is: "Not having to work at a job that I truly love." Planning for retirement (for me) is more than just putting money into a retirement fund. Putting money into a retirement fund is a PART of how I am planning for retirement, but it's not the only a part. The other part is remaining debt free, owning a home outright, etc. And then the final piece of planning for retirement is finding work that I love to do so much that I never ever want to quit doing it. Hence, planning for retirement for me is more about "ok, what do I have to do to make sure I'll be ok should I become physically unable to work?" Another piece of retirement planning is living and leading a healthy lifestyle NOW, while I am young. So that the odds of me becoming incapable of working are lessened. | |||
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OK, seriously?!? This is getting annoying, and I know Steve, you couldn't care less. But let me put it to you this way. You're completely out of wack from reality. As much as you would like to believe, there are certain facts that are in this world, and for some of us who actually still struggle very ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ day, we actually have to work HARD. We work for our families, for those who cannot support themselves. We work to get through school, so we can one day work better, and work a little less hard. We work, we work at the jobs that support lifestyles such as yourself. maybe we are slaves, but dammit, while I work to make the things you upper-class people consume on a regular basis, maybe you could not freaking insult me while I do it! I work hard, I work hard to help others that NEED MY HELP! I work to support others. Did I choose this, no! Am I happy, NO! But SOMEONE had to do it, and it sure as hell won't be people like you! I usually keep an open mind about all of these articles you right, but now you're just conceited, looking down on all us salaried lower-class persons with contempt. I actually try, you know? I once hard hope, and dreams of better things, instead, I got obligations and concept from the very people who are supposed to have helped me toward my dreams.....I'm so sick of it....I'm tired of this bull. Take my money. Take my life, but dammit, try to have a modicum of respect for the fact that not everyone gets as lucky as you, or can afford to take the time to blaze a trail through school in 2 semesters. Some of us just struggle everyday to support others...some of us are not in control of our own destinies! |
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Working for a living is like being a slave - agree Factory processing of animals is sick - agree Eating natural foods is good - agree Comparing people who eat meat to Hitler - disagree Everyone who works for someone else is a sucker - disagree personal development advice in the form of rants and insults - disagree I know you glaze over the "your wrong, and off your path" posts so I'm keeping it short. Personal Development for Smart People --> Smart people don't like to be insulted or guilted into change |
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But when I discover that Steve's posts are irking me, I realize that it's *usually* (I say "usually" because I don't think the last post on eggs was even in the same ballpark as the other posts) because it's prodding that sensitive area that I fear too much to go into, that's actually holding me back. Understand that his target audience is a very specific niche of people. He makes no bones about the fact the he's not here to appeal to everybody. He's hear to speak to a very specific niche, and thus most of his posts are geared towards people in that niche. Because of that, sometimes his tone can become arrogant sounding because, well, he makes no effort to appeal to the others outside of that niche (whereas most other PD people try to appeal to everyone). And that's actually something that I appreciate. (at least that is my take on it...maybe I'm wrong) Anyway, if this post caused a reaction within you, then that's a good thing. It means you are unhappy with where you are and that that unhappiness can be used to fuel your desire to change your circumstances. | |
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I've also stated why I drew those conclusions. Based on my interpretation of what you wrote. Doesn't mean that that is the correct interpretation, but as long as I don't see reason to change that interpretation, I'll stick with it. Quote:
In my country the rule of thumb is that as a freeelancer your profit before taxes should be about double what you would make in a regular job, then it evens out more or less (including benefits as pension, healthcare etc in a regular job). So if you earn more than double of a regular comparable job, you'll be doing better financially. Last edited by spirit4711; 09-11-2009 at 05:52 PM. | ||
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If I were in your shoes, I'd be pissed too, but I think I'd be a lot more pissed that you seem to be. You're still holding it in too much. | |
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My general floccinaucinihilipilification of money conflicts with this article as it stands, but if I replace income with outcome it resonates pretty well.
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I'm on fixed income right now, courtesy of the government's "extended vacation" program, no I don't expect to stay this way. I was on the "oh my god I hate my job and want to kill myself" fixed income plan for over seven years, which ended several months ago. Some of the benefits I experienced from that fixed income plan were depression, an inability to connect to others, and inability to think of anything OTHER than my job. During the weekend, I would think about how much I hated my job, and at my job, I would think of how much I wanted to go home. Probably the biggest benefit I received was burn-out. It has taken me several months to detox, and actually allow myself to contemplate a future that does not include that habitual nightmare of a job---I finally accept all those people are gone, and I never have to see them again, and that my future is actually in my own hands. I accept that I stayed in a bad job and that I had the power to change it, and I didn't until that change was made for me. I want to live my life and embrace wealth, but part of me knows if I "get a job" again, I could very well lose myself and go over the deep end again. I try to take action to get things going, but my gut says "no-stop. Don't do it." Like if you were going to put your hand in a fire and your reflexes stop you, that's how I feel about employment. When I read this article, I felt good that I had my freedom, and that I can now choose how much money I made. But I also felt this big feeling of dread, like "I don't want to do this again.... I don't want to get in the rat race again.... I can't take it." I think I really would rather die than work for someone else again. And I haven't had this feeling of independence and power that long, I'm not used to applying it to the world of money. But, it may be necessary for a short time... I don't know. But this idea of a fixed income does bother me, whether it's an unemployment check or a go-nowhere job. Has Steve written any articles about burnout? I find myself unable to take action towards employment at this time, and probably for reasons that are illusory. Last edited by cylon; 09-11-2009 at 06:42 PM. |
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I don't know why Steve doesn't mention one thing. Getting a "sucker" corporate job has one big advantage: you get to leverage your abilities with someone else's money and structure, while earning an income that you wouldn't be able to earn if you didn't have those resources available. And if you screw up, the worst that can happen is you get fired, but you're not responsible for the money you lost (unless you did something illegal). When you don't have any capital, that's certainly a great deal. It's like someone lends you money and you get to keep a part of what you gain from the investments but if you lose you don't have to pay anything. Now how is that a "sucker" thing to do? When the person is starting up it's the wisest choice. And this is not even counting all the support/learning, growing/traiging and networking he can do inside the company. Look at the finance/investing/banking industry. People there earn huge sums because they are given lots of other people's resources to work with. So Steve could say: "Ah look at these suckers working their a**es off to make money for other people" but the truth is these people are also getting a big piece of the cake, a piece that they'd never be able to get if they were to only invest with their own money and "keep it all" of whatever little they make. Of course, for a near-broke 40 year old, stuck in his position and with not enough education or skill to rise higher inside the corporate structure it totally sucks and he would be better off doing something else. |
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I love the attitude of this article. Fixed income is a sucker bet. I thought it was a very in depth article and had a ton of great insights. Some people on this forum are concerned that if there were no wage slaves that things would not get done. We would find a way. If we are highly conscious, we will find a way to take care of everything while at the same time living our dreams. Besides, I'm sure there is someone who is passionate about maintaining the roads and someone who is passionate about other things we would consider menial. You can always find ways to make more money and as Steve says, saving money is no fun.
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2. No spouse as of yet, no debt or other financial obligations. That might help too, I know. After taking some interest in personal development I knew the decision will come one day. Being a software developer, interested in personal development, I created a time tracking app for iPhone. After collecting stats for a few months I knew how I spend my "working time". It was like 80/20 for day job/personal projects. And income was in "personal projects" favor, not to mention satisfaction and fulfillment. I always liked tactical and economic games. I liked the idea that in programming you really create something from nothing, from scratch, just by setting bits in the right order. I have A LOT of respect for all creative people. If you are on crossroads now, you'll come back to it again and again, in 1, 3, 5, ... years until you try to walk your own way. Despite the comfort and safety your day job gives you. You'll just never get over that thought "if I don't try I'll regret it". That's my experience and gut feeling. I'm not a risk taker. I'm really not. Yet, I managed to get over my fears somehow. And it's OK, it feels pretty normal and obvious now, Earth is still spinning All the best, Marcin | |
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I do things like that to challenge myself as a writer and keep the process of writing fun. Otherwise... over too quickly. | |
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