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I understand that jobs are not always the best thing for people but really ... isn't working for someone just the same as having your own business? Really your boss is just your business client and your workmates are just business partners. Its just a longer term project than if you had your own business. I know that people that don't look at it in this way have the danger of seeing their job as something else. So yeah what I'm asking is is their really a need to be so against jobs, you have an article called " 10 reasons why you should never get a job" There good points for people that are unaimed in life and don't know what there doing but the same problems that you said happen when you have a job would also happen to those kind of people if they had a business too! Thanks. |
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There are some that it works well for them to be an employee and others a business owner. Everyone is different. One downfall to working for others is that it's rare you will get paid what you're worth working for others, without having to work very hard, wait years, sacrifice much, etc. The downfalls of a business owner are much less, especially if you choose to control things rather than let the business run you much as an employer would. | |
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I can see why Steve emphasizes not having a regular job. I think it's really geared towards waking people up from their narrow thinking. We've been trained as a society to see jobs as the best way to make a living, and I think Steve simply wants people to take that same concept from a different viewpoint. Nevertheless, I'd be interested to hear Steve's thoughts on hiring employees of his own in the future if he felt the need to expand. Essentially wouldn't that contradict his way of thinking? Steve is fortunate to have a business model where he doesn't need employees right now. However, there are businesses that would require offering jobs to other people just because it's the most practical, ie, restaurant, or any other brick and mortar business. What would be Steve's thoughts on that? |
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It mainly has to do with how you treat your employees. When I had a business with independent contractors, I treated them mostly as equals. They had a lot of freedom, received rewards and praise for good work, got paid very quickly, were allowed to give input and be creative, had many perks, the job was more fun than work, etc. If you're helping to enhance people's lives whether they're your customer or employee, then you're truly offering something of value.
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I write anti-job pieces because so many of us are socially conditioned to believe that jobs are just a natural and expected part of life. I like to nudge people to take a more conscious look at the alternatives. We're taught to believe we must have jobs, but the truth is that they're usually more trouble than they're worth. In the scope of human history, jobs are a fairly recent invention, a modernization of slavery and indentured servitude. Between the jobbed and the jobless folks I know, the jobless ones are almost invariably happier, healthier, wealthier, and wiser. People who have jobs for a long time tend to be really messed up -- it's like every ounce of courage has been drained out of them, and many suffer from panaphobia (fear of everything). |
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The problem isn't with work, it's with the employee mindset. The basic idea is that it's smart to sell your ambitions and your soul to a company that uses you as they wish without compensating you adequately. You are not a human, you are a robot. You are not a person, you are property. The phrase "wage slavery" is frighteningly close to the truth. That's great if you want somebody else to make all of your decisions for you, but if you wanna live consciously you can't stay in that position for very long. | |
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The best thing that could happen is for me to get laid off. I don't believe I have the courage to just quit. Wow. I did not even realize how scared I am! I am afraid of losing health insurance, benefits, salary, losing home, being homeless, going hungry......so I stay at a corporate jail (The place I work is surrounded by a huge fence and I have to enter and exit through card key activated turnstyles) where I am basically dead as far as creative value or being innovative and excited. You are exactly right again Steve. Thanks! Dave Last edited by DAveNJ; 12-10-2008 at 10:35 AM. | |
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I could see the downside of working permanently for one company making you scared about loosing it because you get so used to not having to find ways to make money from your work... but i cant think of any other downsides.. I personally prefer to have a business because the kind of things i want to be involved in the creation and marketing of (art and music) you can't get a job doing that kind of thing without majority compromising the kind of things i want to do. | |
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You need to build your courage at-least the the point where you will quit before you should. | |
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I think that if more and more people will adopt the conscious, independent mindset, and they would only sell their services to another person if that person would offer them a decent reward in accord with the value they bring to his business, than most business owners would start treating employees better and the whole corporate medium would change. That's how LOA works, but even in terms of scientific cause and effect, the same thing would happen, only slower. |
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Is it right to say that if you are doing job it means you are slave ? Quote:
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But it's hard to admit that we secretly want to have so much fun in real life. | |
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I got laid off from my job and it was the best thing that could've happened to me because now I'm creating so much more value than ever before. Sure, I'm not making money from it yet, but time is on my side.
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"I like to nudge people to take a more conscious look at the alternatives. We're taught to believe we must have jobs, but the truth is that they're usually more trouble than they're worth." (Steve) Isn't this an "away from" sort of motivation? Just imagine the incredible "towards" motivation that could be generated if people had some clearer ideas on HOW. Why don't you write an article Steve along the lines of "How to Create Value for Dummies?" The value would: a) Enable the reader to earn value and live a better lifestyle than they would in employment. b) not involve technology or self help (heaven forbid we all jump on the same band-wagon!) c) Would be aligned with a persons true purpose (once we've discovered how the majority of people find it and whether it really exists within individuals). In fact if Steve or anyone else can offer the answer to this, they'll be an overnight celebrity! |
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Do you thikn he got his idea from you? | |
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Between the jobbed and the jobless folks I know, the jobless folks are almost invariably the ones out on the streets begging for spare change. They don't strike me as particularly happy or healthy or wise either. | |
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(1) Being Unemployed and Not Doing What You Love (2) Having a Job that Pays Your Bills But You're Not Doing What You Love (3) Having a Job Doing What You Love (Could involve partial ownership in company, such as for example working for Google and owning stock options) (4) Being Self Employed Doing What You Love I don't think it's that bad to have a job as long as it's #3 above, and not #2. I personally prefer #4, but if the thing I loved to do required a lot of co-operation with other people, such as for example being a video game designer, I might prefer #3. I think #2 is what Steve is really trying to get people to shake and to him doing #1 is even better than #2 because it will probably lead you a lot quicker to #4.... or you'll starve. | |
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That's my husband 100%. He has his college degree and his managerial job with high income and he is MISERABLE. BUT.. he chases money, not passions, so I am not sure he can ever be helped until he cuts the death grip money has on him!!! He believes security is in money and a "secure job." What is so secure about a job in a company that could go under at any time??? I have a "job" too, but at least I am running my own business. I do have some say. (though there is that fine line of pleasing the clients and running it your own way) I am still seeking something more aligned to my heart and soul's desires though. I believe chasing money is the mistake I have been making and I am really working hard at chasing passions now. | |
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(5) Being Self Employed and Doing What You Hate (6) Being Self Employed, Doing What You Love, But Not Earning Enough to Pay The Bills. Steve tends to miss these possibilities too. | |
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#6 happens all the time. In fact, I would say it happens more often than not which is why most people are afraid to give up their jobs because it's guaranteed. However, once you're at #6 working towards #4, there are many options available to bridge the gap. For example, you could take on some temporary part time work to make up the shortfall between your business income and your work income. The main thing with all of this is that whether you're working at a job or working for yourself, how much money you make comes down to things like Law of Attraction, your beliefs etc. When people work at jobs they hate, it's harder to make a lot of money because they are always miserable and so all they attract is more misery. When you hate what you do to earn money, you're always weighing the scales between earning another dollar by working another minute or stopping your money earning tasks and doing something you enjoy. It's like a constant battle between WORK and PLAY in your life. You only WORK so that you can afford to PLAY. However, when you love what you do for a living then WORK becomes PLAY and you stop having that inner battle in your mind all the time. Now you actually enjoy your life because you're PLAYING all the time. That puts you in a much better state of being to attract abundance in life. Just today I was talking to someone and they were asking me what I'm doing. I was just working on a Blog post announcing the winners in my affiliate marketing contest on my Blog, and then they asked me what I'm doing later on. I told them that I'm going to get some lunch and then write another Blog post announcing the second contest, to which they replied saying "Well, don't work too hard, it's the weekend!" And to that I said "Well, when work = play, you can never work too hard because I'm never working." I'm excited about doing what I do which puts me in a much better state of mind to attract abundance. If I had to go to a job I despised to work today though, I'd be miserable about it. | |
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