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Old 05-27-2008, 10:40 PM
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10 Reasons You Should Never Have a Religion
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Old 05-27-2008, 10:53 PM
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I need to work on my list writing abilities, especially in the form of whistle blowing.

Steve, I once again thank you for showing us how such a simple way to write can have such a strong impact on a myriad topics.

I find myself wasting time trying to argue points as they come about instead of using such a smart and logical top down approach as list building. Revision is sometimes necessary, but you personally really do strike it rich when you make top ten lists where they are called for.

I think the Google searches for "Hestia" are going to go up tenfold...
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Old 05-27-2008, 10:55 PM
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Oh, Steve, you are such a little scamp!

You are really stirring up the pot lately!
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Old 05-27-2008, 10:59 PM
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But won't I burn in hell for eternity if I don't have a religion? Who wants to go through endless torments?

Also, this article has a suspiciously similar format to another one of my favorite blog posts.

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Old 05-27-2008, 11:08 PM
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Bravo Steve, you deserve a round of applause for this.

You've taken what I've always thought about religion and put it into words so eloquently.
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Old 05-27-2008, 11:31 PM
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Yup, that just about sums it up. But only for those who are brave enough to face life on their own -- and capable of it.

Many people need everything you identified as degrading and pointless. They aren't strong enough, visionary enough, or intelligent enough to do otherwise. It's a shame, but going it alone is only possible for the few. That's changing. We are not there yet though.

Most major religions began with one face for the masses (rudimentary instructions for living), and deeper esoteric aspects for the few that were capable of more. Predictably, the masses have perverted their rudimentary version of spirituality by proclaiming it as the ultimate, all inclusive path. What else could they do? They didn't have the necessary to understand the deeper aspects. We are experiencing a strength-in-numbers problem in this issue.

But those numbers are changing. Every day, more people are exposed to alternative thought that the narrow vision of big religion excludes.

People are becoming braver. We have reason to be hopeful.

So are you are going to tackle politics next :-)

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Thanks for this! I've printed it out to remind myself NOT to carry around the guilt, fear and all the other baggage from my years of Christianity.
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That was a very enjoyable read! Poking the religious bear this time I see.

I would have to say the most quote worthy line I noticed in this article was:

"Religion is spiritual immaturity. That’s a compliment." Indeed.
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But won't I burn in hell for eternity if I don't have a religion? Who wants to go through endless torments?

Also, this article has a suspiciously similar format to another one of my favorite blog posts.

It's not just the format that's similar, it's practically the whole message. I think most ordinary churchgoers actually have enough compartment-space in their brains for several religions, with capital-R "Religion" being only one of them, and the 40-hour workweek (in America, anyway) being another. It doesn't matter if you accomplish anything; if you put in the 40 hours, you're a good member of society.

These two religions are fairly symbiotic to each other too, are they not? Submit to a higher authority Monday through Friday, so that when Sunday comes along, it's just one more...

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Bravo, Steve, for the courage to take a stand on something that's going to garner you a lot of hate mail. You've clearly amused a lot of atheists, but I hope the article won't come across as too inflammatory to do any good in converting religious fence-sitters.
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I could sum up my review of this article with two words: OH SNAP! That article was awesome! Angela was right. You are most definitely stirring the pot and I love it!
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Wow Steve...

I think you just topped George Carlin for summing up my views on religion better than I could myself (or "the way I wish I would have thought to sum it up first cause it's right on" )

I'm VERY tempted to post this as a myspace bulletin but am not sure I want to deal with the firestorm it's likely to cause. Of course, most people who know me already also know that even the word "religion", and especially "Christianity", just make my blood boil like almost nothing else on earth, so maybe it wouldn't be such a stretch...
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That's the closest thing to a rant that I've ever seen you write, Steve. I don't question the content, but the writing tone surprises me. I can't even get through it all because it hits me like a wave. What's the reason behind that tone?

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I loved the article. He said exactly what people think, but are too afraid to say.
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I know that the post made was probably just meant to get the idiots or hypocrites among us up in arms, but I'll bite anyway.

Yes, religion requires that believers subsume their actions and thoughts to a higher being and purpose. It takes "me" out of the center of the equation. I can understand why people would have issues with this.

I can also understand how, in a world of science, "faith" becomes a dirty word. You want to "know" something, but instead you're required to "believe" in something. Kind of like believing that all knowledge can be gained by believing in the self's ability to determine reality apart from a god. Don't we all have faith in something? It's just that some people believe that the only thing that they should have faith in is themselves and their own reasoning. Again, I understand why faith is hard. Though I don't understand whether it's avoidable. You either believe in what you want to believe in or what you think you should believe in. Either way, don't we all believe?

I also understand how people (Americans, in particular) would find it difficult to believe that anything other than their own free will can determine one's destiny. I doubt it's as hard for those in other countries to see this because they have so clearly been shown how their own free will did not determine their destiny, but I understand the attractiveness of the belief.

I understand too how religion can be tied to some major crimes in the last century. I also understand how faith can be tied to fear, how some who are religious can be intolerant and how religion is just as likely to be inherited as it is to be believed.

What I don't understand is the alternative. Believing in yourself as the sole arbiter and determinant of truth? Believing that science has all the answers, without an ounce of faith entwined in it? Believing that having religious people commit crimes indicts religion? Believing that calling those who are religious "idiots or hypocrites" demonstrates the vastly superior tolerance of the irreligious?

Anyway, I still got a good kick out of your article, so thanks for it!
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I agree with it all. I have a feeling it will go to the front page of Digg and Del.icio.us either tomorrow or the next day.
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That's the closest thing to a rant that I've ever seen you write, Steve. I don't question the content, but the writing tone surprises me. What is that all about?
What's wrong with the tone? I've read (and written a few) other blog posts of his that have similar tones as this one, and they don't seem insulting or rude in nature, just written from a satirical perspective (even if the content isn't exactly satire).

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It's not just the format that's similar, it's practically the whole message. I think most ordinary churchgoers actually have enough compartment-space in their brains for several religions, with capital-R "Religion" being only one of them, and the 40-hour workweek (in America, anyway) being another. It doesn't matter if you accomplish anything; if you put in the 40 hours, you're a good member of society.

These two religions are fairly symbiotic to each other too, are they not? Submit to a higher authority Monday through Friday, so that when Sunday comes along, it's just one more...
That's exactly what I was thinking

They are both "beasts with a similar functioning system" from my point of view. They both give you an alternative to what most people believe is mandatory and required of you. You decide your own future, not what society or religion dictates it to be.
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This is like bashing someone in the head for kicks.
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Although I am not "pro-religion" I think you could have done better than to paint every priest with the pedophile brush. I know of a local high-school teacher who was a pedophile too, so should we eliminate all teachers as well? He was married, so I don't know if celibacy really has anything to do with things.

You seem to have a lot of hatred towards religions Steve. I don't go to Church myself, but I know some people who enjoy going to Church, they enjoy the social atmosphere, some of them are older and it brings them comfort to go and pray etc. It's their beliefs, based on their upbringing so who cares. If believing in Jesus or God or whatever, brings them comfort so be it. They've never been molested by their priest or anything like that, and I'm sorry to hear that the priest you clearly put your trust in later turned out to be a pedophile.

On the path to raising your own level of consciousness / awareness, you might look into this further as for me when I read the article it really felt like a lot of fear/hatred towards Christianity was built into it.

Unless of course you just wrote the article to be controversial since that is one really good way to get traffic to your site.

On a slight tangent, considering your negative views of Christianity and organized religion, what are your thought of "A Course in Miracles"? It is a "Self-Help" course, requiring NO PRIEST and NO CHURCH and only your own self to master the course. The Christian Church has shunned the book, I believe calling the author who chanelled the text a lunatic or something like that. What do you think about ACIM?
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This is like bashing someone in the head for kicks.
You got that feeling too?

Would have been much better if it was delivered by Borat, and aimed at Kazakhstan.
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Steve,

I agree with your points in this article--I have some questions however.

Do you think that the tone of the article is helpful in