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What I find interesting whenever you start to have a discussion with christians (and other religionists) is that they quickly latch onto quoting the bible (and other books for the other religions). As if you are supposed to be so awed that they have this incredible manual dropped on their lap by Mr. God himself. Little do they realize it is the best way to get people to 'tune them out'. Who cares if the bible says so? Here's a clue: ONLY YOU!
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Sound reasonable? Of course not. I believe all of it. It's all relevant. The Beatitudes are more relevant than Leviticus, but it all matters. | |
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If you think that's some crazy, fringe belief, look at who is accepting Hagee's endorsement. Someone who could become the primary policy maker in the country. When you say you believe everything in the Bible, you are saying you believe: 1) That it's OK to own slaves, provided they are strangers or heathens. (Leviticus 25:44-46) 2) In committing genocide based on race (Samuel 15:2-3) 3) That God wants war (Exodus 15:3) 4) In committing genocide based on ethnicity as long as you spare the virgins.(Numbers 31) 5) In killing anyone who worships a different god or who worships differently. (Deuteronomy 13:6-16) 6) In killing disobedient children as prescribed by Old Testament law. (Mark 7:9) 7) In killing anyone who refuses to be ruled by Jesus. (Luke 19:22-27) Saying you believe all those things is a lie. If you really held all those beliefs you would be in jail right now for murdering just about everyone you met. | |
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Also, Hagee is not for killing Jews. I mean, the man is insane, but he believes they are God's chosen people. He simply believes (and it's Biblical) that the tragedies that have befallen the Jews are a result of God's punishment.
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It also depends on what you call "a true believer". My mother doesn't go to church, but she likes Jesus' teachings. I'd call my mother a truer believer than Ann Coulter (the very embodiment of compassión, isn't she? Quote:
Steve says, and you seem to think, that if a man goes to church in his neighbourhood and likes it, and meets nice people there, and feels comfortable there, but doesn't follow the exact orders of that church hierarchy (such as Catholic, Evangelist, Baptist, Adventist or whatever), he is being a hypocrite or an idiot. He is an idiot if he is ignorant of what he follows and he is being brainwashed. He is a hypocrite if he doesn't feel right there, or if he feels that, for example, using contraceptives, he is breaking the rules. But if he goes to that church because he's comfortable there, and doesn't follow the rule about contraceptives because he read the book and found out they aren't forbidden, then he wouldn't be either. He would just go to that church and to that assembly of people because he would like the feeling there. I will grant you that most people will label themselves "catholic", "evangelist" or simply "christian" or whatever, and many of them will be ignorant (idiocy and ignorance are not the same), or hipocrites. But some of them may be there by a conscious choice. What I mean... going to a catholic church and that may not mean you approve of what the Pope and high Vatican hyerarchy do. You may just feel comfortable around those people, and what I meant is that, as long as it is an informed decision, it will be OK with me. And I don't find hypocritical to go to a town catholic church and respect the priest there, and at the same time not obey the high hyerarchy, for the basic reason that the gospels talk of an "ekklesia" or "assembly", not of an institution. I never liked the church, but if someone finds a community in which he likes to be, I see no reason why he can't choose it willingly, and not be neither ignorant nor hypocrite. I hope I made my point clear. Though I have to grant you that the religious people who make a fully informed choice are not in the majority, or there wouldn't be a 28% of creationists in America. What I meant is I respect any choice as long as it's informed and conscious. | ||
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| Quote: Something that really astonishes me is how little informed people are about Christianity. I mean, it has shaped the Western world inmensely. We count the years considering the time we think Jesus was born (and we've missed by a few years, apparently). In fact, the whole world, including now China and Japan, count their years since Jesus was supposedly born... And we don't get enough info about it at school. One would think it is an important historical theme, to be discussed as scientifically as possible. You know, on grounds of it being one of the pillars of the Western civilization (the other two being Greek-Roman culture and Germanic drive). Last edited by Natsu; 06-05-2008 at 08:59 PM. | |
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You have an incorrect interpretration of both Mark. 7 and Luke 19 - and no, I'm not going get into a verse by verse Bible debate with you. Suffice it to say Luke 19 is a Parable and needs some good intrepretive teaching to go along with it for your literalists. Jesus said many times - "those that don't believe me or my words cannot comprehend them." Enjoy the back and forth Dan and I'm happy to further discuss Steve's toxic attitude toward religious folk - but, seriously, I'm not going to debate an agnostic or atheist - whichever you are - on the Bible. | |
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Could you write an article called "Ten Reasons to Have a Religion" so I know where you stand on it? You say the Bible inspires you, but then you won't say how, or what parts inspire you, or what loving actions or avenues in life the Bible has opened up for you. You won't even say how you're personally helping the downtrodden, which is something you mentioned, though that really has nothing thing to do with religion anyway. It sounds like you are basically just scared of Hell. Is that the main reason you believe? Because you'll go to Hell if you don't? | |
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Maybe refusing to discuss a belief is that he doesn't "own" them. | |
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Nice job of pigeon-holing me into your Class C (or is it B?) of Christian. Yes, I must be one of those "scared of Hell" Christians based on some nonsense you've dreamed up. Other than that, your request is reasonable - just not something I have time for this week. I'll keep the invitation open if you don't mind - and see how this weekend looks. Oh, boy - am I ever looking forward to seeing what label I can be attached to next. Take care. | |
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Could you at least give us a glimpse of how or why the Bible inspires you? All you're doing is attacking Dan's question, dismissing his question with sarcastic 'playfulness' and saying "take care" to top it with a cherry. We're just curious as to what we can glean from your viewpoint, as I'm not likely to be found reading a thousand page book of poorly written archaic fiction. | |
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From my perspective, believing in a God that would bane people to Hell is just crazy. You have to believe that good equals evil for that to make sense. And I don't believe that. Quote:
I'm all for spirituality, peacefulness, ethical behavior, etc. I just don't see organized religion as necessarily moving people towards that brand of harmonious living. Too often, a belief in Hell makes Christians want to send anyone they don't like there. Know what I mean? Quote:
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| So there was a time, before the birth of Jesus, that the things listed by Dan were ok? Then Jesus fulfilled the OT law, so those things are no longer acceptable? Does that accurately describe your stance?
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Worry for tomorrow is evil because it fosters fear... and fear, as we all know, is the path to the Dark Side. Fear is the root of all violence. Fear leads to anger anger leads to manipulation. Angry people are easy to be manipulated. And then anger leads to hate.... and hate... leads to suffering. | |
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The Bible inspires me to: 1) Show unconditional love towards others 2) Expect the best and receive it 3) Be grateful for the abundance around me 4) Find the best in others 5) Treat others with dignity and respect 6) Not be consumed with worry or fear 7) Understand there is an eternal home for me that will have no fear, hatred, jealousy, envy, pain or suffering 8) Be the best Parent I can be 9) Not be consumed with stuff 10) Not be disappointed in the temporary 11) Rely on the spiritual plane, not the emotional or physical 12) Stick with a committment 13) Stand for the poor, the oppressed and the downtrodden 14) Give generously to others 15) Understand the concepts of grace, mercy and reconciliation 16) Understand that people screw up, but they're still ok 17) Understand there are evil forces roaming the Earth 19) Understand those evil forces will not be victorious 20) To see God's Spirit moving in me and through me 21) See there are all kinds of whacky new ideas all the time that are temporal. 22) See that I need to help others 23) Be generous toward others 24) Not judge others 25) Not call others names 26) Treat others as I would hope and expect to be treated 27) Live on a higher plane than those that have no hope in the eternal 28) Forgive others 29) Seek forgiveness from others when I wrong them 30) Act morally and ethically in matters of trust 31) Be committed to my spouse in a monogamous relationship 32) Treat my parents with respect and take care of them 33) Run from evil 34) Know right from wrong 35) Understand the temptations of evil 36) Understand I have grace and redemption even though I fail 37) See hurting people in the world 38) Help hurting people More coming later, but that's a decent start. |
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For Kent F. What is the intentionality or motivation behind that list? I appreicate your list, many of those things I try (and struggle) to implement into my daily life. However what I don't get (and perhaps I am wrong) is the seemingly illogical attachment to the book? Obviously, I love philosophy. I love reading Plato, I love reading Aristotle, I love reading Kant (yes even Kant), I love reading Nietzche. I believe they help me do all those things on your list. However, I love/believe their ideas, not the books themselves. I guess what I am getting at is why do religious people take the bible and the ideas in the bible as synomous. Last edited by Liminal Chris; 06-06-2008 at 02:09 PM. | |
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Part II The Bible inspires me to: 39) Live within my means 40) Give thanks for my daily food 41) Pay my bills 42) Don't live on credit 43) Understand that excess credit is bad 44) Live honestly and fairly 45) Pay my taxes. I don't have to be happy about it either - which is nice. 46) Treat everyone equally 47) Appreciate the concept of time 48) Appreciate the concept of Seasons 49) Appreciate relationships with others 50) Understand the purpose of the Church OK, that's it for at least half a day. More coming. I haven't even really touched on many of the teachings of Jesus or the apostles. I can see this list going into the 200 range very easily. Last edited by Kent F; 06-06-2008 at 02:19 PM. |
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I believe the Bible was written by man, but inspired by God. I do also read other things and am inspired by them. Love is the Killer App by Tim Sanders is a very moving, thought-provoking book I've read several times that also inspires me for example. | |||
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| Thank you for the explination, and sorry for all the questions, but I have one more for you. To me, this seems like an apparent contradition. I believe the Bible was written by man, so it has a historical context and is fallible. However, I believe it was inspired by God and is thus infallible? Am I off on that? I think the Bible just too often gets used as a crutch, an excuse for people not to stand on their own two feet. |
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I guess that phrase revolves around my idea of the Future... my theory of what this world is and where is it suppose to be going... In my view is more interesting for the world to evolve that to repeat doing the same stupid mistakes over and over again. The way I view it, evolution of the human race requires fuel... and the most effective fuel there is.... is Love. | |
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| The Bible is the finger pointing at the Moon.... people should be looking at the Moon, not at the finger... should use the guidance of the finger... but never forget their target, never stop looking for the Moon.
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I know one big difference I have with a non-believer is that I believe the teachings in the Bible are congruent with one seeking the most fulfillment in the here and now, and also for the eternal Spirit. No problem with the question(s). Last edited by Kent F; 06-06-2008 at 03:14 PM. | |
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Thanks for the reasons Kent. The things you wrote are spot on, as far as what lessons people should take away from the Bible. Do you think churches are the best way to teach these lessons? Are these even the lessons that churches are really teaching? It would be a really interesting social experiment, I think, to go to several dozen churches and record the sermons to see if they mention these same values that you just have. If churches are out there telling people to celebrate life, to get along better, explaining how other religions aren't things to fear, teaching people to stay out of debt, etc., I'd be all for that. But I bet if you recorded ten sermons and analyzed the lessons, churches would be teaching something entirely different. In fact, I bet ten different Christian churches might be teaching ten different things, some of them contradictory. I know it's a bit unfair to group all churches together when looking at this issue. Not all churches are the same, by any means. I realize that there are some very loving, open minded, joyous churches out there. An interesting indicator of how truly loving and accepting a given church is would be their response to 1. an atheist joining, and 2. a gay couple joining. |
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