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| I just wanted to point out that the less meat I eat the less countryside is needed. Eating animals causes a double whammy on this from. Wild animals are displaced to feed factory farmed animals. |
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| [quote=Dave Kaminski;181394]Some of us do go as far as avoiding most/all of these things; yes. We feel that strongly about our stances. However, Steve was making an analogy of mental polarities (meat eating 'right' vs. 'wrong'), not path polarities ('lightworker' vs. 'darkworker') so he could set the foundation for his argument/point. QUOTE] I think that vegetarian vs. meat eating - 'right' vs. 'wrong' is a very weak analogy. I could go on and on with just as many reasons why farming plants is as bad as raising animals for consumption - the E. Coli spinach breakout was on organic farms, rain forests being destroyed to grow crops, growing corn for ethanol, fertilizer runoffs, pulling up happily living carrots and slicing and boiling them - (isn't that cruel to do to a living organism? - people have put their lives on the line to prevent trees from being cut down - why is a tree different than a carrot?), etc. etc. Supporting the subjective reality way of looking at life I don't see the world in terms of 'good' and 'bad' or 'right' and 'wrong' - those types of arguments are arbitrary and completely subjective. And many times what appears to be the 'right' thing to do ends up causing more problems in the long run. You can take any event and interpret it however you want to in order to show 'rightness' or 'wrongness' - I think everyone should understand boths sides of every issue, question their beliefs, try to eliminate dogma in their thinking, and not push others with their personal agendas in arguments based on blanket 'of course, this is the right/wrong thing to do, everyone knows that' type of rationale. |
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What is Important though is, what we are or willing to be . Polarization/polarity are just words . See the depth of, what it is to be a person , who is 100% service oriented or 100% opposite of that . |
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| Its noticeable to read in this article your vegetarian bias, christian perspectives; dark/light good/bad and from other writings and this, you seem to preference perceiving life with a pc game metaphor. By the thinking in this article, if you intentionally harm someone to stop them harming your wife your harming yourself whilst protecting yourself, what are you? Presumably you don’t believe in a human omnivore, assuming we are part of nature predatory behaviour is not without cruelty, you are saying in your opinion that human animals differ due to having behavioural choice? And that in your opinion ANY human being can healthfully live on non animal food sources? It’s all beliefs and values, directing behaviour. Good/bad are individual subjective judgements based on believing and valuing, including this statement. Playing with the game metaphor some more, you’re a dark worker or light worker or npc… so my choice is red blue or black… I’ll have white please… what do you mean you don’t offer white? It does exist; what is it? So the game context in which there are light workers dark workers and npc’s with presumably an avatar by the name of steve pavlina, presumably a light worker? Who determines the contextual parameters? The rules/possibilities of the context. Some may believe a god, the programmer… beliefs and values. Some wont have a god in their believing…beliefs and values. What was there before there was anything, what will there be when there is nothing, if you have no ‘I’ who are you, why are hot cross buns cold. Unlimited eternal pleasure’s just not enough. Enjoy being. |
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| If you really want to discern LW from DW: The mechanisms of growth are flavored by the perspective from which you view them. So check out how they've performed in the past and who they've affected (and in what ways). Easy way to measure. But that's sooo much less enjoyable than actually growing. |
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It's not inaction, it's appropriate (natural) action taken in the way that meets no resistance. Did you read the parable about cutting up an ox that I posted? That sums it up rather well (vegetarian concerns aside). P.S. When I refer to Daoism, I'm referring to philosophical Daoism, rather than religious Daoism, though that's a hard line to draw.
__________________ When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created. When people see things as good, evil is created. When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught. -Dao De Jing, Chapter 2 |
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In relation to the polarities topic I don't think Daoism is in contradiction to lightworking at all... in fact i would argue that it is lightworking in perfection. A total appreciation of simplicity and the moment, accompanied by perfect efforless action...
__________________ Swing it, shake it, move it, make it, Who do you think you are? Last edited by Plato : 04-27-2008 at 10:54 PM. |
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| I believe that everyone is starting to get a little crazy on the whole Dark Worker Evil thing. I myself am working on the Darkworker Path and I have learned many things. One of them is that you don’t need to kill, beat or threaten someone to get them out of the way. Yes, I may hurt some feelings sometimes, but that’s usually as far as I have to go. A little Manipulation tends to work wonders too, sometimes it even makes the said "person" my ally. Some Darkworkers may view one situation and think that it is better to just destroy the obstacle, others Darks may see the same thing and decide to go around it. Not all Darkworkers are the same, and not all Darkworkers use Evil as a tool. Another thing that I have learned, just by paying attention, is that hated and feared rulers usually end up dead. Why not just be a "loved by everyone" ruler? Sure I may have to go out of my way to make some people happy but in the end because they love me, I have power over them. Love is of course the most powerful thing in the universe is it not?
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As Machiavelli said, it's better for a ruler to be feared than loved. Love may be strong while it lasts but it's something that we can't control. Love is way too volatile to be any decent way of controlling other people sustainably in the long term. But i agree with you that it's better to wear an outfit of justice and goodness. People will respect you then, but at the same time you can never keep your guard down as you would if you just trusted that people's love is all you need to control them.
__________________ All that matters is results. Turbo mode now! Full schedule. Bye bye. |
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| Yes it is true that fear is powerful, but to only use fear is the way of a Moron. A wise Darkworker would use both Fear and Love to achieve his goals. I as a person moving towards becoming a full fledged Darkworker believe that Love should be used more the fear, because people can stand against fear, but who can stand against love?
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| I've put a long post on Keith and Plato's discussion on daoism in a new thread: Five points about Daoism |
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re: the original discussion, I maintain that any way of life with a 'true north' principle can be 'polarised' to. Daoism was just an example (and not a great one, actually 'cos it's so hard to explain
__________________ When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created. When people see things as good, evil is created. When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught. -Dao De Jing, Chapter 2 |
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If you are the BEST applicant to a job position and take the job from everyone else, that's NOT harming the rest of the applicants... because you were the BEST. As Ayn Rand wrote, "there can be no conflict among rational people", meaning that if a person does something better than you, he gets the job and the money... And any reasonable person will accept it and take it as an opportunity to get better. Imagine an editor needs a translator. The best translator appears, but suddenly she chooses to leave the job to another person, because said person "needs" the money. Much harm has been done, see: 1º. Employer loses the best candidate. Isn't that harm? 2º. Employee gets a job he doesn't deserve, since he wasn't the most qualified applicant. In the long run it'll do more harm, if he wasn't enough qualified, he needs to get better, and he may not realize it. 3º. Lightworker doesn't get money, and everyone gets the impression that being good equates with being a sucker. Let's leave it clear: there is no harm when the best one wins. Whenever I've participated in a contest which was decided by voting, I always asked the voters for this: "Please vote for the best. It sucks to lose against someone worse than you. But you always learn when you lose to the best, and make it an inspiration to keep on working harder". Losing always sucks, yeah. But there can be no complaining for losing against the best, it's fair and square, it shows you what you lacked, what you needed, your weak points and what you had to improve. So I see absolutely no selfishness in getting a job for which you are the best applicant. By refusing it, aren't you depriving the employer of the best applicant? What for? Pity for the rest? The rest of the applicants only have to get better than you... and that's going to be good for them, too. Quote:
But then again, I always find polarization stupid... Unless it's "partial polarization". I believe in the tit-for-tat system. I am a lightworker to lightworkers and NPCs. Some darkworker tries to "darkwork" me and finds out I happen to have a darkworker side. And of course, when you choose to do something "darkworkingly", don't be afraid and don't feel pity. I only do that in self-defense... And must add that I've found this system very helpful. Nice as a general rule, angelic when possible, damn bastard when attacked. But I don't see the reason why a normal being would want to be a 24/7 darkworker or lightworker. If you are a darkworker and try to use people, at some point you'll get caught and find out that there's a limit to what people will endure. If you are a lightworker, you can't let yourself be treated like a rug... or the bully will go on bullying you and others. I don't find any reason why a person should be a darkworker. I understand some situations in which you have to get darkworker. But, full life commitment? Don't see the reason. That said, I agree that when you decide you have to be nasty (stopping a bully on his tracks is the most common situation), don't back, don't hesitate, don't feel guilty and don't feel pity. But, a whole lifetime like that? Urgh. Quote:
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We are humans and need to live in society. Yes, nature is indifferent to suffering, but... life in nature is crap. Which is the first rule of animals? Law of the strongest, right? And whom does the law of the strongest suit? Why, that's easy, it suits the strongest. So, a society with no ethics in which people prey each other would be good only for the strongest. Fine, take the vast majority of the population off the list, only a few would benefit from such a system. We've got this few who benefit from the system. The strongest. Now... are they always that strong? During their whole lives? Possibly not. So, the "dog eat dog" system is good only for a few, only for a limited amount of time, unless some younger-smarter-stronger predator eats the strong one who was in charge. It's unfair crap and horrible lives for everyone else. But in a "let's all collaborate and behave" system, everyone has a chance of living to old age, with the best of his success, at the best of his ability. Now, who on his right mind would choose the "dog eat dog" system over the collaborative one? It's ridiculous... I just find it absolutely unefficient. Quote:
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Good that it's just your humble opinion and not everyone elses. Polarization is very useful and empowering if the person really understands it and experiences it. If he doesn't, then it will look like a crazy theory of motivation indeed. Polarizing makes decision making so much easier and faster. And after the decision is made, the person knows that it was the right decision, giving him more motivation to go after it. It's really something that you have to experience. Everything gets clearer and easier to understand and proccess. And the motivation and energy boost is awesome.
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So you see that's how a DW acts. Of course now Roman made so many enemies that he flew away from Russia to Great Britain and always surrounded by a heavy load of bodyguards. But he made it. Me too; i'd rather be the richest of Great Britain as he is but have made many enemies and betrayed a lot of people than be just the average joe blow and live a "morally respectful life", whatever that means... As in my example that i wrote before, i don't know where you got this idea that DWs are obsolete. The concept of the DW remains, what changes is the strategies. While a DW of 10000 years ago would go out on a killing spree, the DW today doesn't kill (unless it's really t |

