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I see this approach as darkworker, because they are focusing on how they can increase their power/influence. They may even just be building their influence by increasing their power in manipulation through practice. This is wholeheartedly darkworker to me. |
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Whether left-hand or right-hand, it is the same Power that animates everything. The question is in how you use that power. I can use a knife to prepare food (to keep up with the analogy) or I could stab someone in the eye. The knife didn't change, it's the way I used it. I think life is like an instrument or tool that can be used in many different ways. Most people don't know what to do with it at all, so it just sort of lays there. They might as well already be dead. The only real need to distinguish light from dark or left from right is to begin to understand what this tool might be used for and what works best for me. I think Steve's point is that the more you use the knife to slice bread, the more it looks like a butter knife. The more you use it to stab people in the eye, the more it looks like a dagger. It isn't easy to slice bread with a dagger or to stab people with a butter knife. The instrument conforms to its use. BTW, BringTheDarkness, thanks for coming on here and discussing this in a clear, intelligent manner. You've made it a much more interesting conversation.
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You could do this for 5 days, make $100k, and then use that $100k to hire others to do something else for you at a reduced rate and continue to parlay this ownership to more power. Where do you see a downside for the darkworker? Unless he is caught or not cunning enough to prevent buyers remorse (you can change someones mentality from want to need very quickly with a bit of suggestion thanks to the many many infused messages in the form of advertisements. I've done so in sales.) |
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Whenever you feel someone made you buy things you actually didn't need you feel you have been taken and you promise yourself never to buy from him again (unless you are weak and let you be persuaded another time) and you will discourage people you know to do so either (unless you are ashamed and not telling it). In my opinion a 'smart' darkworker contributes because it will benefit him in the long term. For instance is 'Think and Grow Rich' a book for darkworkers or for lightworkers? Obviously both can use it. It is one of the #1 success books ever. In the chapter Auto-Suggestion: "By the first day of January, 19.., I will have in my possession $50000, which will come to me in various amounts from time to time during interim." This is obviously DW thinking. However the sentence continuous "In return for this money I will give the most efficient service of which I am capable, rendering the fullest possible quantity, and the best possible quality of service in the capacity of SALESMAN of..... (describe the service or merchandise you intend to sell" This is obviously LW thinking. I couldn't think of a situation where it would be beneficial for someone to trick someone else into buying, especially if you are taking 'opportunity cost' into account (the time/money you spent which you can't spend anymore on another service/sale to make money). The world is too small to keep tricking people into buying. Eventually you get caught and therefore you would be a short-sighted, stupid darkworker. |
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I agree with you. I think that the best a DW can do, when possible, is to take advantage of the buyer but at the same time make the buyer think that he's the got advantage, or that the trade was fair. Tricking the clients while they're aware of it is virtually never a good deal. Even if you're never going to deal with them again (in the case they're one-time buyers), they're going to spread bad information about you and scare away other possible future clients. Sometimes its even better to let them have the advantage of the deal, which will make them think that you're either dumb, soft, generous, and so on. They'll trust you more and when you sell them some more significant/expensive products/services you can bite them in the a** and they won't even know it, thinking that the price is still fair/advantageous to them. Of course if they find out (and, in this age of information, they probably will sooner or later), you loose them, but depending on the advantage you already got from them it may be a good deal.
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Darkworkers don't care about fairness, but an intelligent darkworker will cultivate the illusion of fairness when they believe it will serve their needs.
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Not everyone is so experienced with language and logic as those who use these forums and view these texts. There are masses of more easily exploitable people out there, in my opinion. |
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And what does it matter, to a DW, how the client/purchaser feels, as long as it's not going to backfire at the DW in the long term?
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Assumedly, the darkworker is just indifferent to what the feeling is. |
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Are you familiar with Daoism? Daoism is an entire belief system of "for its own sake". You don't do things for yourself, you don't do things for others - you just do things because they are the natural thing to do in those circumstances. Quote:
__________________ When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created. When people see things as good, evil is created. When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught. -Dao De Jing, Chapter 2 Last edited by Keith : 04-26-2008 at 01:45 AM. |
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Everyone always needs something. No one is "completely satisfied". So it's impossible to get to the level where you just do things "for their own sake". As you said in your example, that you think "it' right to channel art into the world". But why is that? Why do you like art so much? Isn't it because you feel well when doing art? You may not have DW motivation; you may want to make people see how good for them art is. In that case, it's a LW motivation. Whether it's DW or LW, one of these is behind what you do, you just need to dig enough to find it.
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| Right. The Daoist ideal of wuwei appears inconsistent with polarisation. If we accept everything Steve has said about polarisation, then it follows that Daoists are NPCs, that they are not on any sort of fast track to high awareness, and that their philosophy is a bunch of deluded bunk. It's sort of surprising that he credits daoism as an influence, really. |
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In fact, it seems to me that anything that can be seen as "the meaning of life" could serve as a focus of polarisation.
__________________ When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created. When people see things as good, evil is created. When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught. -Dao De Jing, Chapter 2 |
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| The Dao concern is where Steve's argument breaks down with me, in terms of logic, anyways. Although I don't see anywhere where Steve says Lightworker and Darkworker are the ONLY polarities, I think those who assume this to be the case are mistaken. They may be the only polarities that regard focusing inward or outward specifically, but they're certainly not the only things you can polarize yourself. Polarization to any of these things, I imagine, could have some very powerful results as well. I think it's less about energy (like the 'flow' of energy from a lightworker/darkworker) and more about pure intention/action correlation. Lets say you wanted to become an ARTist. We know the word already; we can use it as an example: You polarize with art. You decide that art is your purpose and your point of being. Your clothing and skin and words and output becomes art. You reflect on every possible means of communication or action you have and make it an artistic endeavour. Everything you do is to make yourself a better artist in every possible way. Of course you're going to be a better artist in 30 days. Art is your thing. It is quite literally all you focus on. 10 years like this and you're not only an art genius but have interesting perspectives in regards to art on everything you see because you've experienced it and added some sort of artistic flair to it. This can be said for a polarized scientist, preist, teacher, etc. These people would be seen as polarizing with their action or understanding in any school of thought. They will excel. |
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| @ Dave: But then again, what would be your motivation to create art? I like to see this as a labyrinth. To ensure a way out, you'd have follow either left or right. You could of course get out by guessing, but the chances of getting out aren't that great then and you'd be confused a great deal of the time. The left and the right path are different paths, but they end up leading you to the same destination. |
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| The way I see it now is that the DW (as the tricky bastard) is still completely identified with his mind and his thinking. Anyone who has reached a certain point of awakening will see the greater perspective and oneness in things and will renounce the DW path. It's that part; what Steve describes; will I be willing to die broke, but having affected millions of lifes in a positive way? Yes. Will I be willing to die extremely rich, but have had a negative impact on the well-being of the rest of the world? No. I think everyone who has lost the identification with his mind/ego/thinking, etc.. will make that very same decision in the end. Last edited by MasterD : 04-26-2008 at 0 |


