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I agree that this qoute from steve cant be true. If we did search for proof out of fear and anxiety etc then surely those who did go through with it would be recognised as individual and brave
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I understand that there are some things you can not have objective proof, such as lucid dreams, physics stuff. However, to state that requiring proof in the world for objective stuff that can be observed means you have low self-esteme leaves me puzzled. Last edited by seeker5 : 10-23-2007 at 04:42 PM. |
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| Angela, How do you reconcile this with your disagreements with religions involving a Personal Interventionist God? All, Proof (or evidence) is just a way to share your perspective with another. It means that, if we agree on our assumptions, and we agree on how we draw conclusions from them, then we agree on our conclusions. That's it. It's meaningless in subjective reality, as Steve pointed out, but if you don't use subjective reality, then you need proof for every claim. This isn't about the mental patients down the street; they exist only because you created them, under the model of subjective reality. Under the model of objective reality, they exist independently, and their experiences are their own, and any claims they make are subject to independent proof because their conclusions do not agree with yours, and so there is a distinction between your assumptions and theirs that needs to be rectified in order for the two of you to agree on your perspectives.
__________________ "I read, I interpret, I think, I criticize, I oppose, I listen, I write, I question, I reply, I quote, I tell, I name, I discuss, I interpolate..., I learn, I teach, I live, therefore I am." -- Marc-Alain Ouaknin, "Mysteries of the Kabbalah", p383. Favorite Essays I Wrote: love, identity & growth, economics, education, equality, definitions. Recent Books I liked: Anansi Boys, Fly By Night, Hyperion. |
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Do you mean, my questioning why people would demand proof for a personal belief, which is what I have appeared to do on the p.i.g. threads? If that's what you mean, I've been careful to state my understanding of a demand for proof when the concept is an interventionist one. In the case of a p.i.g., believers can be extremely interventionist, and that's when I'm likely to get irritated and tell them no evidencee, no complyee. But you probably notice that I have no quarrel with people whose religious beliefs don't require them to interfere with my life. Rare as they may be. I haven't seen any cases of people talking about their experiences with OBE's, psychic phenomena or lucid dreaming behaving in an interventionist manner. Oh, except people like Sylvia Browne; she is interventionist and I'm fine with confronting her for proof of her "abilities." Is that what you're talking about? |
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| Great post Steve. I don't know why people have such a hard time with this one. I think it's a great article. I have noticed that the further along I grow away from the thinking of the "general public" the less possible it is to "prove" to them anything. Not because it's "unprovable" but because they don't want it to be "proven" to them. Meaning, the only way for them to get "proof" if they want it is to try to gather it themselves. For example I used to think Psychics were BS at one point in my life. My exposure to them was limited to seeing that Cleo lady (or whatever her name) on TV and I thought it was a pile of crap. But, as I grew my spiritual understanding I saw the possibility that psychic phenomena COULD exist, but I still had no "proof" for myself, so I started looking into it. I got a reading from Erin, worked with a spiritual coach that has psychic abilities and then got a reading with a totally different psychic. The psychic I got a reading from knew stuff about my life nobody should know unless they do have psychic abilities OR perhaps work for the CIA and had my house tapped or something which I really doubt. To me, that was "proof" enough. However, there is no way I can prove psychic phenoma to someone like my self 5 years ago by having a conversation with them. Maybe if I was psychic myself I could do it, but just talking about it...good luck. If they are really curious about it and are ready to accept a world where psychics exist, they'll seek out "proof" in their own way. Reminds me of The Matrix. Unfortunately nobody can be told about The Matrix, you have to see it for yourself. I guess the summarized statement would be that the only "proof" you'll ever get in life is the "proof" you discover yourself from your own experience. Nobody else can really be trusted in a SR model.
__________________ Paul Piotrowski InspiredAffiliate.com - Me vs. Richard Bonner Competition & Contest How to Make Money Doing What You Love Last edited by impaul99 : 10-23-2007 at 05:52 PM. |
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| I'm just noting that you seem to be, on one hand, bothered by the idea that people need proof, and on the other hand, need proof before believing in a particular X.
__________________ "I read, I interpret, I think, I criticize, I oppose, I listen, I write, I question, I reply, I quote, I tell, I name, I discuss, I interpolate..., I learn, I teach, I live, therefore I am." -- Marc-Alain Ouaknin, "Mysteries of the Kabbalah", p383. Favorite Essays I Wrote: love, identity & growth, economics, education, equality, definitions. Recent Books I liked: Anansi Boys, Fly By Night, Hyperion. |
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| You do not need proof for your subjective experiences. There is no need to prove them to others. If you experienced them, then they existed. Also, in subjective reality, when someone comes up to you with an experience, it is a part of you communicating, so a creation of yourself is telling you of an eye-opening experience. As for objective reality, if another person separate from you talks of an experience that was subjective for them, it is impossible for them to prove to you what they were feeling while in that experience. My brother and I have arguments constantly about our childhood about who did what and when, but I know what happened and apparentlly so does he. There is no way to prove who is right, because we all have our subjective experience memories. So it doesn't really matter all that much. So I just focus on the now, and look optimistically towards the future. |
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Also, I don't need proof before I believe X, necessarily. But I do demand convincing evidence of X if X requires intervention in my life. So I guess I require proof before compliance with X. |
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__________________ ~Lola~ "It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." - e e cummings |
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Let's take astral travel just as an example. Sure, one can experience it subjectively and if that's their truth, fine. But here's the thing: Such an experience runs so counter to the currently-understood laws of the universe, physics, time and and even personality that they completely turn those notions upside down. For instance, can an "astral being" (not sure of the terminology here, so please bear with me) travel faster than light? Can an astral being travel back in time? Does an astral being have mass? Is it affected by magnetic fields? Is it truly "the soul" or something else? Enquiring minds want to know! That's not based in fear, not by a long shot... it's rabid curiosity! And if it is true, it could blow the fundamentals of, for instance, communication right out of the water. Imagine the possibilities of having one's presence or consciousness in two places at once, or having the ability to gather information at, or faster than, the speed of light! Or travelling to, say, Mars for research purposes without ever having the corporeal body leave Earth! The possibilities are as endless as one's imagination... but only if it can be proved. So don't allow the fear of examining the phenomena derail the tremendous potential benefits. Last edited by cdn2wheeler : 10-23-2007 at 08:00 PM. Reason: hadda add sumptin... |
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| Well, cdn, I don't think we're talking about the same thing. I understand the idea of being curious about non-rational beliefs, and asking such a believer why he believes something that seems runs so contrary to our normal naturalistic physical reality beliefs. I'm all for that if the desire to understand is there, or even for skeptics who want to expose something that might be fraudulent. What I'm referring to (the "road to pain" part) is demanding evidence or proof; that is, feeling like the believer owes you evidence or proof. Because nobody owes you anything, the way I see it, and if you insist on believing they do, and trying to squeeze out something someone doesn't give you freely, you'll never feel fully compensated. However, like I was telling Michael, if someone's beliefs interfere with your choices, then demanding convincing evidence, or resisting their interference, is perfectly appropriate in my book. Still, nobody owes you anything, even in that case. |
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What is the "they" you're referring to? Is this also some construct of your imagination? Are you aware that your entire understanding of reality exists only in your mind? And that what you think of as objective reality is nothing but your own mental projection? It's imaginary. Make believe. You're building an argument based on imaginary constructs. You seem to believe that imaginary authority figures and an imaginary objective universe can dictate how your reality works. That is your choice of course, but have you ever tried loosening up on that belief a bit? Can you prove that any conscious being aside from you actually exists here? That would seem to be a necessary first step if you're going to argue that anyone is capable of understanding anything here other than yourself. Otherwise whenever you bring up the "laws of physics," you're really just talking about your own subjective version of those laws, which only exist in your mind. You concocted the laws of physics. You concocted the authority figures to support them. You concocted these imaginary people to challenge those beliefs too, so you could continue growing beyond those limits. It's your dream after all.
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| Not likely. The simplest explanation appears to be design. Either that or we exist in one of a billion (perhaps trillion) universes that don't support life. Also, you cannot explain consciousness by purely materialistic means. Therefore cannot completely explain ourselves at this moment. Last edited by Mr.Mustache : 10-23-2007 at 08:49 PM. |
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| Thats an appeal to authority. Science is not a position, its a method. Your understanding of science seems to be rooted in the 19th century Newtonian world view. I'm not saying contemporary physics automatically justifies astral travel but it sure turns the notions of time and space upside down. Last edited by Angela : 10-23-2007 at 08:52 PM. Reason: Removed the rude, unacceptable, forum-rules-breaking obscenity. -- Angela |
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Try this experiment. Take an envelope and place the letter inside of it that promises the bringer of the letter $10,000 if he brings it back to you. Lock this letter in random time delayed box that you ship across the country to busy Starbucks. Timer opens the box randomly any time between 1 and 30 days. If reality is all make believe and things don't exists when you stop paying attention to them, nobody will show up to claim your money... Quote:
Once I witnessed the person experiencing delirium tremens. One of the common symptoms include intense hallucinations such as visions of insects, snakes or rats. This person started "seeing" giant spiders on the walls attacking him. 3 of us in the room have not seen them. 5 minutes after, episode passed, and person stopped seeing spiders. Whats the point of the story? Mind is a powerful thing. It can make you see things that are not there and make them very real "to you" (subjective). That does not mean they actually exist... I completely agree that understanding that our perceptions of reality are subjective is extremely powerful. From standpoint of personal development especially. However, subjective perception does not in any way change the actual event that perception is based on. |
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There is no "outside" when it comes to your consciousness. Everything happens inside. The whole notion of there being something outside your consciousness is itself a mental projection, so even as you talk about the laws of physics and the existence of some random Starbucks, you're still inside your own mind. That's where all of these constructs are being created. Show me something that exists outside your mind and not within it.
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But the fact alone that we can have this conversation, that you and me do not share same memories and experience proves that something does exists outside your own mind. Unless I tell you my memories you don't know what they are... |
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