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Old 09-26-2007, 06:40 PM
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StevePavlina.com Podcast #020 - Creative Self-Expression
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Old 09-26-2007, 07:41 PM
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Thanks Steve!

I think this is going to join How to Make Money Without A Job as one of my perennial bits of inspirational audio.
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Default Picasso had mistresses

Out of curiosity, I checked out the wikipedia entry:
Pablo Picasso - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

And this caught my eye:

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He maintained a number of mistresses in addition to his wife or primary partner. Picasso was married twice and had four children by three women. In 1918, Picasso married Olga Khokhlova, a ballerina with Sergei Diaghilev's troupe, for whom Picasso was designing a ballet, Parade, in Rome. Khokhlova introduced Picasso to high society, formal dinner parties, and all the social niceties attendant on the life of the rich in 1920s Paris. The two had a son, Paulo, who would grow up to be a dissolute motorcycle racer and chauffeur to his father. Khokhlova's insistence on social propriety clashed with Picasso's bohemian tendencies and the two lived in a state of constant conflict. In 1927 Picasso met 17 year old Marie-Thérèse Walter and began a secret affair with her. Picasso's marriage to Khokhlova soon ended in separation rather than divorce, as French law required an even division of property in the case of divorce, and Picasso did not want Khokhlova to have half his wealth. The two remained legally married until Khokhlova's death in 1955. Picasso carried on a long-standing affair with Marie-Thérèse Walter and fathered a daughter, Maia, with her. Marie-Thérèse lived in the vain hope that Picasso would one day marry her, and hanged herself four years after Picasso's death.
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Default Thanks for the confirmation Steve!

I've been an avid Steve Pavlina fan for a very long time, it's helped me get soooo far with so many aspects of my life. Because of his crystallized posted thought patterns as I like to call them, I've totally re-evaluated by life and goals. I used to be a computer science major doing it just because a) I was good at it and b) because my parents said it would be safe and make me good money to retire. My true passion has always been filmmaking though, and until I came across Steve who introduced me to all this new thinking, I totally ignored it as only a far off commonly held dream. But now I am going to show the world that when you drop everything you have and follow your heart, amazing things do happen! I'm currently going on a nationwide tour to promote my self written, directed, acted, and edited feature film that me and my life-long friend made with only 500 dollars!!!!!!! I have a hard time believing it still, but the power of self and the laws of attraction can accomplish amazing things! I hope someday I can be a shining beacon for others like Steve has been for me. Thanks a bunch Steve and I promise when I'm rich and famous I'll be donating quite a hefty sum of energy to you!!!

If anybodys interested in checking out the finished product of my intentions and dreams you can see the movie trailer at The Official Gallstone Website! - (www.thegallstone.com). It's a quirky medieval comedy, I promise you guys will love it!

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"If you're experiencing a state of financial lack right now, it simply means you're taking value than you're giving. Spend more time in that state of creative expression, expressing who you really are, sharing that with others, and you'll find it's very easy to meet your needs.

This doesn't necessarily mean working harder.

This doesn't necessarily mean working smarter, either.


It just means working with greater alignment, such that your career becomes an expression of who you are. And if your career is NOT an expression of the very best parts of yourself, you're going to have a hard time achieving abundance for yourself though honest means. Because you're not sharing the very best of yourself with the world."


Absolute gold Steve. Absolute gold.

"If they see me happy, that will be enough."

Spoken like a true selfworker. Absolute gold!
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I've been an avid Steve Pavlina fan for a very long time, it's helped me get soooo far with so many aspects of my life. Because of his crystallized posted thought patterns as I like to call them, I've totally re-evaluated by life and goals. I used to be a computer science major doing it just because a) I was good at it and b) because my parents said it would be safe and make me good money to retire. My true passion has always been filmmaking though, and until I came across Steve who introduced me to all this new thinking, I totally ignored it as only a far off commonly held dream. But now I am going to show the world that when you drop everything you have and follow your heart, amazing things do happen! I'm currently going on a nationwide tour to promote my self written, directed, acted, and edited feature film that me and my life-long friend made with only 500 dollars!!!!!!! I have a hard time believing it still, but the power of self and the laws of attraction can accomplish amazing things! I hope someday I can be a shining beacon for others like Steve has been for me. Thanks a bunch Steve and I promise when I'm rich and famous I'll be donating quite a hefty sum of energy to you!!!

If anybodys interested in checking out the finished product of my intentions and dreams you can see the movie trailer at The Official Gallstone Website! - (www.thegallstone.com). It's a quirky medieval comedy, I promise you guys will love it!

Follow your dreams!
-Dominick John
Dude, that's awesome! I have been telling people for a long time now that one day I'm going to be making movies. It's not the right time yet, as I'm currently enjoying expressing myself by other means, but seeing people like you out there is such an inspiration.

Is there an option to purchase the movie and watch it online, kind of like "The Secret"? BTW, did you go to film school? When the time is right, I was thinking about going to film school. I live in Vancouver, and we have a film school here that I think is pretty good. A lot of hollywood movies film in vancouver so that industry is quite developed here.
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yay another podcast!
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This podcast made me want to share something personal about myself that I think is meaningful and that goes well with this podcast.

About once a week if and when I'm in the mood I go into a light meditation. I use this meditation (which is basically just relaxing my body and mind) to get into touch with my greater source of creativity in order to solve problems or gain insight. You could say I'm getting in touch with my "higher self" if your into new age but I don't like labels. It does feels as if I'm making a connection with something outside my normal waking ego. When I'm the light trance I ask a question or just bring up a thought, then I quiet my mind and wait for some sort of insight. This is similar to what Steve talks about in his podcast about intuition but I didn't get the idea from him. When I receive the insight there is a slight tingling and depending on whether I'm focused or not I get an answer, sometimes its practical and common sense and other times profound.

A few days ago I did this meditation asking about intention manifestation. I had been trying intention manifestation casually with no results so I was interested in some insight.

Here was my answer (the answer comes more as impressions than words so this is a rough translation):
Successful manifestation of your desires is the default mode of your being. If you would only allow yourself to "be" there would not be the kind of struggle people have during their lifetimes. When you truly desire something your whole being is aligned with it, emotion, intellect, intuition, ability etc. Usually people have very little control over their thoughts and their true desires are buried under preconceived fears and limits. This clogs up your flow of energy (note: his words not mine) often creating emotional suffering or a lack of positive manifesting; almost unfailingly both. You must dig inside yourself to find what it is you truly desire. When you find it you will notice that you knew that answer all along and it should have been obvious. Once you do this and follow your desire faithfully and joyfully you will manifest with increasing ease.

That message entered my mind in a matter of seconds. I have been too caught up my routine to dig inside to find what it is I truly desire but I will soon lol.

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Here was my answer (the answer comes more as impressions than words so this is a rough translation):
Successful manifestation of your desires is the default mode of your being. If you would only allow yourself to "be" there would not be the kind of struggle people have during their lifetimes. When you truly desire something your whole being is aligned with it, emotion, intellect, intuition, ability etc. Usually people have very little control over their thoughts and their true desires are buried under preconceived fears and limits. This clogs up your flow of energy (note: his words not mine) often creating emotional suffering or a lack of positive manifesting; almost unfailingly both. You must dig inside yourself to find what it is you truly desire. When you find it you will notice that you knew that answer all along and it should have been obvious. Once you do this and follow your desire faithfully and joyfully you will manifest with increasing ease.

That message entered my mind in a matter of seconds. I have been too caught up my routine to dig inside to find what it is I truly desire but I will soon lol.
thank you! I really liked that.
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Beautiful. Almost brings a tear to one's eye. Will keep this short, so I will be spending more time doing what I love rather than making elaborate forum posts
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Really good podcast. Fantastic!
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Amazing podcast. Steve just gets better and better at it.
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Dude, that's awesome! I have been telling people for a long time now that one day I'm going to be making movies. It's not the right time yet, as I'm currently enjoying expressing myself by other means, but seeing people like you out there is such an inspiration.

Is there an option to purchase the movie and watch it online, kind of like "The Secret"? BTW, did you go to film school? When the time is right, I was thinking about going to film school. I live in Vancouver, and we have a film school here that I think is pretty good. A lot of hollywood movies film in vancouver so that industry is quite developed here.
No but I'm definitely looking into it!!! I was contemplating that actually a while ago but wasn't sure how to go about it, guess nothing a little googling cant solve . For now it's just me mailing them out via paypal, but i'll let you know asap!

Actually I never went to film school other than a video production class in a local college, so I pretty much taught myself everything through experience. I've found that when you go out and learn something on your own you have 100 times more passion behind finding all the details out! I used to intern at MTV and whenever I told everyone my dream was to be a filmmaker, they all scoffed and said that they went to film school and look where they are now, copying tapes in a dark room! So instead I took all the money I would have spent on college and I'm putting it away to promote and make my own films in the future. Having a film school on your resume is great, but having 10 of your own self produced films with money is even better! Not to mention all the publicity you can get entering festivals. But alas, to each his own. That's just my perspective for where my path is going in life.

Either way you're totally right, timing is everything. Making sure you take care of all your desires separately giving each the attention it deserves, and not spreading yourself to thin produces works of art and wonder .
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thank you! I really liked that.
Thanks.

In my favorite part of the podcast Steve tells us what he believes is the most important quadrant to least important quadrant.

The order goes: 1. Heart 2. Spirit 3. Mind 4. Abundance or body

Steve believes that if we start with our passion (heart) all the others will fall in place eventually. What I take issue with is the placement of spirit (contribution) as the second most important.

In my opinion the order should go: 1. Heart 2. Mind 3. Spirit 4. Abundance or body.

Because if you're passionate about something you will get good at and then you will make a meaningful contribution. I don't think you can make a real contribution without being good at what you do.

So, yeah. My tiny disagreement. Anyway, the best podcast Steve has done so far.
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Thanks.

In my favorite part of the podcast Steve tells us what he believes is the most important quadrant to least important quadrant.

The order goes: 1. Heart 2. Spirit 3. Mind 4. Abundance or body

Steve believes that if we start with our passion (heart) all the others will fall in place eventually. What I take issue with is the placement of spirit (contribution) as the second most important.

In my opinion the order should go: 1. Heart 2. Mind 3. Spirit 4. Abundance or body.

Because if you're passionate about something you will get good at and then you will make a meaningful contribution. I don't think you can make a real contribution without being good at what you do.

So, yeah. My tiny disagreement. Anyway, the best podcast Steve has done so far.
It may interest you to know that I almost ordered them the way you did. The reason I didn't is that I felt that intending a positive contribution and getting clear about one's purpose are more important that talent or skill.

When we're just starting out on a career path or going to school, we have the ability to form positive intentions to help people, but we may be weak in the skills area.

This is also based on my personal experience. I developed pretty good math, science, and programming skills at a young age. But that didn't automatically motivate me to contribute much. Only later when I got the spirit part working did I really start pushing myself in the skills area -- far more than I ever did before.
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Thank you, Steve! A very inspiring podcast, one of your best so far imho.
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No but I'm definitely looking into it!!! I was contemplating that actually a while ago but wasn't sure how to go about it, guess nothing a little googling cant solve . For now it's just me mailing them out via paypal, but i'll let you know asap!

Actually I never went to film school other than a video production class in a local college, so I pretty much taught myself everything through experience. I've found that when you go out and learn something on your own you have 100 times more passion behind finding all the details out! I used to intern at MTV and whenever I told everyone my dream was to be a filmmaker, they all scoffed and said that they went to film school and look where they are now, copying tapes in a dark room! So instead I took all the money I would have spent on college and I'm putting it away to promote and make my own films in the future. Having a film school on your resume is great, but having 10 of your own self produced films with money is even better! Not to mention all the publicity you can get entering festivals. But alas, to each his own. That's just my perspective for where my path is going in life.

Either way you're totally right, timing is everything. Making sure you take care of all your desires separately giving each the attention it deserves, and not spreading yourself to thin produces works of art and wonder .
Yeah, I hear'ya. The passion has to exist first, how you learn the stuff is a detail. Going to film school isn't going to make you want to make movies. You already have to want to to do it

And I totally know what you mean about spreading yourself too thin. THat's like my biggest weakness.
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Yes, I would have to also agree Steve. Best PodCast ever. Also better than any article you've written.

If there was like some form of universal value calculator that could instantly tell you how much value you've added to the universe in terms of value to people's lives etc. I would be willing to bet that the $ indicator would be showing something well above +$1Million for this single podcast alone.

Brilliant.

Hmmmm.... now that I think about it. Would you mind sharing if there was anything you did for this podcast that's different from other podcasts/articles? Was there any meditation / connection to source involved beyond the usual? Is this something you've been working on for a long time? Or was this just another article/podcast like any other for you?

Just curious.
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All I have to say is, "Wow--synchronicity!" I was just having a conversation with a family member today about this exact topic about how I want to change my major in college to something that "flows naturally to me." Great podcast, Steve.

it took you awhile to crank out another one of these things, but I will have to say that it was well worth the wait. Bravo.

It's not about the money. It truly is about the joy. This is why we all need to embrace our true purposes.
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Can't say I did anything unusual for this podcast, although I've been wanting to do one on this topic for several weeks. This was unscripted except for a basic handwritten outline, so I was mostly speaking off the cuff. The only scripted part was the Picasso quotes.
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