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| Yes. As I see it, This acceptance you speak of is an absence of certain machinations of mind that are only engaged when there IS a lack of clarity....things like, judging and identifying with concepts which really means we're donning a dirty lens & carrying baggage. This 'kind' of acceptance that is really more of an absence of something than it is an acquiring of something IS clarity (As Sonde pointed out earlier)....clarity of course being a letting go of false beliefs and concepts that limit our view. As such, this acceptance goes hand in hand with clarity and therefore seeing that a rope is a rope and not a snake, would be inherent within it. If this kind of acceptance IS our way of being, we could no more look at a rope and see a snake than we could judge an occurrence as being 'bad' and thus feel a NEED to change it. Our attachment to 'what is' (or what is not) ceases, because we are now 'seeing' clearly. The acceptance and the clarity are intricately linked. |
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| What is it to not be in acceptance? Is it just "too much conceptual thinking" that is being called "not being with what is"? And so? Why is that "not accepting"? And then how could this judgment of not being in acceptance, when you think something, aid in being accepting? What about those beliefs you were talking about earlier? It seems like it would be nice to ditch all beliefs, to you. Like that is a goal that will produce "not having to believe". Now look, this goal is actually a belief. It's a belief that believing things will keep you from being free. So to be free, realize that belief is bogus. And then it doesn't matter if you believe something or not. That would be freedom. Otherwise you'd be running your life tied to "oh no, I'm believing something again!" |
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However, I suppose clarity might mean different things to different people. If we can see the inherent nature of mind to spin yarns, perhaps this is enough? With this knowing in place, then every perception is seen to simply be 'mind doing its thing.' From a place of BEING accepting of all that appears, there would be no NEED to even determine what the 'truth' of the situation actually was...as when we are abiding in acceptance, all attachments, even an attachment to knowing what is 'true...illusion...actual' all fall away. Do you think its possible to abide in complete acceptance without an absolute seeing through of all machinations of mind...or do you think we cannot be in full acceptance so long as we are still capable of looking at a rope and seeing a snake? I can't help thinking that perhaps it would be helpful if we could use a real life example instead of the 'looking at a rope and seeing a snake' analogy. Perhaps; looking at a forum post and determining that those who I'm dialoguing with are being condescending to me, would work...? It seems to me that if there was a perception that said others were treating me poorly, there need not be any attachment inherent within that perception...that we could conclude (even wrongly) that others were acting or behaving a certain way and still fully be in acceptance this.....and perhaps along with this...also accept the fact that I may be wrong in making this assessment....? To be honest, I really don't know myself. It does seem that clarity on a very deep level is necessary for abiding acceptance...but maybe there's a point too where we become attached to the whole idea of seeing 'what is' clearly..of knowing what is ultimately 'true'.....maybe so long as we remain physically focused, there will always be a certain 'lens' in place.....? Okay....my head is really spinnin' now. | ||
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The discussion itself reduces clarity. Its only purpose is to aid in realizing that. The more mind focuses on itself, the more of it it creates. There's a reason guys like Gandhi kept their communications short. Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well. - Mahatma Gandhi |
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Seriously, it's starting to get me a bit concerned, as lengthy posts by you guys are becoming so much work to digest (though oddly enough, the "processing" becomes easier Anyway, thanks inri. What's bolded above nails it. to. the. wall. I think you're about to become my unofficial spokesperson for the purposes of this thread. | |
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Eventually everything you see and read will present itself to you as a 'fingerprint' of that person. You won't even see the concepts anymore, and so you'll be able to cut right through the nonsense. I can look at a big block of text, spot two or three words in it, and use that to figure out whether the whole thing's worth going through. It's vastly lowered the amount of time I spend in Google Reader. | |
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| Yes, it's a important point. Beliefs have to be seen through. The same is true of acceptance, which cannot be the acceptance of whatever illusions appear. The illusion is often the appearance of that which is unacceptable, and so it becomes a game of trying to accept one's own misperception of the unacceptable.
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Otherwise, I sure hope this "tunes in" to something clear. Lots of static with the text walls, man. | |
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Luckily, these days it's easy to withdraw, you don't have to move into a monastery or anything. You have to choose to do it, though. After awhile, the response is automatic. But the door to enlightenment must be walked through, spontaneous ego death is never pleasant. | |
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Certainly, there can be all sorts of wacky thoughts occurring and I don't think any guru has found a way to prevent that since thoughts are not formed from within the individuation or exclusively from the conditioning of that 'individual' mind. However, if these thoughts are seen as momentary occurrences, and it is simultaneously seen that these thoughts have no foundation, they simply fade and leave mo mess that needs to be accepted. However, if the thought is seen to be a true thought, it may be struggled with. The struggle already implies unacceptance, and cleaning up that mess in the face of that struggle is problematic, and the process is likely endless. In your real life example of perceiving condescention in a post, there are various possibilities. I may be perceiving it where none was intended or felt by the poster, in which case I spotted a giraffe that isn't really there even though I believe it is. If condescention is a problem for me, then there will be struggle and I don't see where one can make a choice to accept what has already been determined to be unacceptable as expressed by the struggle, at least not without some more clarity. If I erroneously perceive condescention, but I don't take it personally, there is an illusion, but nothing that requires a shift of acceptance. The illusion is already accepted even though it remains an illusion. If I perceive condescention that actually was written with that intention, then there is no illusion to be seen through in that, and so clarity reveals that there actually is condescention. Again, if it's not struggled with, there is no need for acceptance. If it IS struggled with, then it is because of an over-identification with the individuation that is being judged, which triggers self judgment, and this illusion must be seen through, as talked about above, rather than accepted. I guess the bottom line is that one cannot choose to accept in the face of that which is perceived as unacceptable, because it's being perceived as unacceptable. At the root of that perception is an illusion, which must be seen for what it is. | |
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| That's basically how I understood what you were saying: a way of describing what's there when you're just present, when you're just being, not making meanings or interpretations about whatever's there, but just being. Of course at an unconscious level you continue to make meanings and interpretations; you are unconsciously registering what's going on and making meanings. If something suddenly flew at your head when you're being what is, is, you'd react. And you've got whatever other background reality meanings you make, as well. But what I hear you saying with "what is, is" is your appreciation for the practice of noticing and surrendering when you're meaning making machinery is going full bore and simply allowing it to pass, and being Being again. It makes sense to me. |
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That said, though, what if there's no reaction? (Meaning more emotional reaction, really--physical reactions can be instinctive) Wouldn't that mean that the subconscious is cleaned out of previously held meanings and interpretations? Quote:
How odd it is, how much I now so appreciate your languaging, Ang, and how refreshing it is to see it again. | |||
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| Is this the way you actually perceive though? Is nothing actually being perceived as a problem or unacceptable or are problems appearing and you're reminding yourself that in the ultimate sense they aren't really problems? What I've been pointing to is the difference between collapsing illusory problems and hiding behind an 'ultimate perspective'. If with complete honesty you can say that problems are never being automatically perceived and struggle is not happening, that's fantastic. However if they are, even in your example of 'slipping up' and identifying with thought; clarity is a process of seeing through these problems and not merely trying to force acceptance upon them or get back to where you were before. |
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| Actually, Arc, I think what Vince is trying to elaborate on, is the difference between reading content (as in "dense concepts") versus context (as in seeing the "fingerprint" of a person), not necessarily the difference between conscious and subconscious (or "unconscious") mind.
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