|11-12-2010, 02:07 PM||#91 (permalink)|
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: earth, everywhere and nowhere
Though the act of invalidation isn't the same as feeling a feeling. It is a reaction to feeling and can be a sign of discomfort about the feeling expression but I am not sure I see how invalidation is emotion or how the guidelines preclude expressing distaste or anger.
I would rather the thread not be about putting another's feelings on trial or judging them as wrong or bad. That means you are free to express how you feel about others, expressions, but I would prefer that you do so with respect as you have been.
I don't see why you felt the need to make the above post, but that's okay. Carry on.
|11-12-2010, 07:06 PM||#92 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: San Diego CA
Well he's the fat happy Buddha to me, and it seems, everyone who runs a Chinese restaurant! You know, put a coin in the bowl and rub Buddha's belly. That's cool.
|11-12-2010, 10:18 PM||#93 (permalink)|
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Melbourne, Australia
I have had this tendency before as well, to take on other peoples reactions to what makes them uncomfortable. It's taken a while, but I am starting to learn to be able to say "No, that's YOUR stuff, and you can keep it. I'm not taking that on". It's amazing how long it can take to learn to say a few simple words.
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