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07-25-2010, 04:38 PM
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this spring I hadnt talked to my ex for 3 years because of a bad breakup but we have a few mutual friends, and he has been having some problems so this winter I asked the universe that if I could be of any help to him I wanted that to be arranged. I met him in may through our mutual friend and we hooked up, but he was quite out of it so I was really worried about him after that, but we didnt exchange numbers or anything. So I asked the universe again that if I could be of help I wanted to. Then a month later I met him on the street and we talked for a while. And a week after that we met on the street again. And a few days after that he passed me in a car and honked. And then today, a week after, we met on the street again and decided to have a coffee and go for a walk. It seems like a really strong indication that we should keep in touch. And it feels really good for both of us too. And we dont force it we just leave it to chance. The city we live in is medium large so it isnt that usual to meet coincidentally that much either. I love living like this, just trusting the universe. |
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07-25-2010, 05:02 PM
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If you are focusing on him then he will of course make an appearance. What is it you want, to get back with him? Have no doubt though that you are creating the meetings and him appearing, it is not random. Peace and love. |
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07-25-2010, 05:13 PM
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thank you for replying  I am not really focusing a lot on him, just sent out that intention about wanting to support him if I could make any difference. I have romantic feelings for someone else. My wish is to hang out with him, and him to be ok. Also I wanted us to get over the misunderstandings. We have a very strong and rare connection (it felt like we had known eachother for years when we first met too) so I just kind of missed that. I dont know if I want to get back together, I am just enjoying this flow now. It seems things work so much better when I just enjoy things and people in the moment, and not cling to some idea of things having to be a certain way. Another interesting thing is I always "know" when I am going to meet him. I will think "later today when I see him I have to tell him..." or have a dream about him or something. But I have this kind of "intuition" a lot in my life not just about him. Last edited by nube; 07-25-2010 at 05:23 PM. |
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07-25-2010, 05:24 PM
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I used to have that connection with my ex-husband, turned out we were married in previous lives. However, I broke free of him in this one, as i think I was supposed to. Well my lovely friend you just go with the flow that is always the best way to be. Peace and love as always. |
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07-26-2010, 01:45 PM
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how did you find out you were married in past lives? thats definitely how it feels like, we even joked about being married almost right after we got together. I have had a similar connection with another guy, but it was easier to let go of him, some kind of gratitude about meeting him and certainty we were not going to stay together this life. just a lot of inspiration. But with this guy I am very motivated to stay in his life in this life sort of. Sometimes it is really beautiful with relationships that feel brand new too, even though it is not the familiarity it feels like it is a lot to be learned. |
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07-26-2010, 03:07 PM
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Its as you say, from the minute I met him I just knew I knew him. At that time i was oblivious to why. After 4 years of dating which was tumultous to say the least I left him and saw a past life regressionist who took me back to previous life which was a very mundane experience. Anyway, long story short, it turned out the dates of death in that life for me and my husband corresponded with the dates of birth for both of us in this life, and various other things. Anyway it was unfinished business or something although now I don't know if I beleive in that. So after another 4 years together in which I fell outta love, lost respect etc for him I told him I wanted out. He wouldn't leave and clung onto it and I eventually got my way when he left. I was very pleased it had ended. Have no hard feeling toward him and wish him the best. As always practicing unconditonal love for all. Perhaps your busines with this man is not finished hence you are drawn back to him. Peace and love. | |
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07-27-2010, 03:36 AM
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If you are attempting to manifest you desire to help simply from the Universe, why wait. If your desire to help him is so great instead of waiting for the situation to present itself to you present yourself to the situation. Make yourself available and ask him if he needs anything, if he doesn't move on. If he does then help him.
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07-27-2010, 07:51 PM
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I think being there in any situation and being attentive and warm is best. When I get an urge (feeling motivated and eager) to act I will. I live by that belief now and it feels great and great things manifest. But you are right about not being caught up in it when I am not in the situation. And interesting thought about time. I am very curious about different perspectives on time. Thank you all for replying |
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07-27-2010, 07:53 PM
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Yes my friend I know this, hence I said my beliefs are not with that thinking anymore, but at the time that was how I saw it. Peace | |
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07-27-2010, 08:24 PM
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This is what I am learning. You have a choice... You can either try to "force" your way in life. Which it will always be a struggle. Or you can set intentions and enjoy what you are given by the universe. This is that whole concept of thinking you know better than God does. (no not from a religious stand point, a spiritual one, just insert any word you prefer for God) Setting your intentions and just enjoying life works for several reasons, when you are not forcing you are pushing anything away. When you are not determined for something to look a specific way you are open to all that the universe has to offer instead of only what you think you want. And when you are just enjoying life, your vibration is higher and enjoying life attracts more things that will help you enjoy life. Its a win win. The bottom line here is you can either fight reality or enjoy it. Someone on this forum once told me "when you require trust, you invite doubt in the back door." I think it was something like that. So don't make it about trust, just make it about surrender or enjoyment. Trust is like saying "I give you the ability to take me where I want to go and I trust that you will do what I want." BUT..... the point here is remembering how powerful you are and remembering how limited your mind is. It's using your limited mind to allow the limitless and powerful energy of yourself/universe to create beyond your minds comprehension. If you force life you are always bound by your own mind and its beliefs. If you know that you are "connected" to a power beyond your wildest imagination and use that to create, you remove all limitations of the mind. | |
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