that's it i'm confused
 

so i've been struggling with this base tribal chakra, the kundalini and so on because a guy i know who we have a lot in common with in terms of our upbringing and experiences .. well.. whenever i'm around him it gets activated. and when it gets activated i can't tell if i'm actually attracted him .. on even just a chemical level or if its just because we have stuff in common that it activates my chakra therefore arousing me at the same time.
its driving me insane because it is quite powerful and its like.. do i want to have sex with this man? i can't tell! on a logical level i don't because he has too many issues...
or is this being activated as a part of healing my own energetic issues? gah..

Maybe he is your soulmate and your higher self is giving you a signal by moving energy inside you? Just a thought.

Since when was love logical?

Allow the Mind to do what the Mind does; ie. gather, store, sort, label and classify information. Then let the Heart take that information and with the aid of Spirit make the decision.

Throughout my youth I let my Heart decide on issues of love and romance regardless of what my Mind told me. The result was a string of failed relationships.

The moment I actually took notice of what my mind was telling me and applied my Heart to it, I met the woman I've been married to for fifteen years.

Listen to what your Mind tells you, but decide with your Heart.

Oh... and BTW... Notice I didn't put "Loins" in there at all. ;)