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First you have entertain the idea that there is a oneness to everything that is conscious. I'm not starting this thread to go over that, so assume that for now, there is a "all is one" consciousness - also termed idealistic monism.

Is it possible to experience oneness? To be aware of that state? I'd like to think so since I've felt something I imagine is that but also would snap back to being regular and look back and say - wow, wasn't that a trip...

But to really completely experience this oneness that is everything, how can one become aware of this state while in it?

Imagine you are identifying with being everything and being everything in the universe, there would not be anything outside of your boundary since you would have no boundary. By definition to be oneness is to encompass everything such that you are not going to be able be aware or sense something else since you are being everything. There will be absolutley no place from which to reference anything else.

So, is it possible to experience oneness and what would that really be like?
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i believe it is possible, isnt that what enlightenment is? i have no idea what it would feel like, and those who have experienced it usually say it cant be put into words, but that joy and peace come to 'mind'.
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I recently began studying the origins of our species and religion and have been meditating daily. I have begun to feel it again (I think). What I have begun to feel is that I don't necessarily feel my body anymore at times, and instead I feel like I am beginning to encompass everything around me - like I am 'one' with it. It's a weird feeling... but it feels great, I guess it's "weird" because it is uncommon. Another explanation is that I feel like my body is bigger than it really is, maybe what I am feeling is my 'aura' because I am doing some pretty advanced meditations.. I don't know yet.

I think that it happens when one is aware of where we came from and why we are here - and what our purpose is, and also by meditating daily, eating healthy and exercising- you must have a healthy body, mind, and spirit.
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I've experienced oneness with all...on several occasions. So in my eyes yup it can be experienced.
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I recently began studying the origins of our species and religion and have been meditating daily. I have begun to feel it again (I think). What I have begun to feel is that I don't necessarily feel my body anymore at times, and instead I feel like I am beginning to encompass everything around me - like I am 'one' with it. It's a weird feeling... but it feels great, I guess it's "weird" because it is uncommon. Another explanation is that I feel like my body is bigger than it really is, maybe what I am feeling is my 'aura' because I am doing some pretty advanced meditations.. I don't know yet.

I think that it happens when one is aware of where we came from and why we are here - and what our purpose is, and also by meditating daily, eating healthy and exercising- you must have a healthy body, mind, and spirit.
Keep it up bro, you are definately moving int he right direction. I understand what you mean by feeling like your body is bigger than it really is. When I experience the sense of oneness I am able to feel all of my immediate surroundings as a part of me...I can physically feel it. I also get the feeling that there is a larger me which I reside in and then that larger me also resides in a larger me on and on like an infinate russian babooshka doll, a human fractal. Mentally it is a very odd experience...the rational mind tries to make sense of it...tries to analyze the oneness...this must be avoided for the best experience. Once I feel a oneness with all that I can see I am able to beging to zoom out(leave my body) to experience the BIGGER picture but I have fear issues about death and this existince and my purpose here so I have never let myself zoom out much out of fear of not being able to return or learning something that would no longer allow me to inhabit this plain of existince. At the same time I feel like I am spitting in the face of the universe by NOT allowing the experience to fully unfold. Good luck on your journey my friend.

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I know this may sound weird.... but when I meditate, I experience a wave like feeling coming over me. This wave motion moves from my head to my feet and back. I can actually feel my body and my spirit separating... a very odd, and scary feeling at first but something that took a while to get use to. I'm not sure if it's a feeling of "oneness" but I definitely feel connected to something.
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i believe it is possible, isnt that what enlightenment is? i have no idea what it would feel like, and those who have experienced it usually say it cant be put into words, but that joy and peace come to 'mind'.
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... Another explanation is that I feel like my body is bigger than it really is, maybe what I am feeling is my 'aura' because I am doing some pretty advanced meditations.. I don't know yet.

I think that it happens when one is aware of where we came from and why we are here - and what our purpose is, and also by meditating daily, eating healthy and exercising- you must have a healthy body, mind, and spirit.
That aura boundary must be also connected. Do any of your advanced meditations include open eyes or movement? It seems that oneness doesn't have to reside in quite meditation- or better to ask is oneness something that is always there?
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I've experienced oneness with all...on several occasions. So in my eyes yup it can be experienced.
Does your experience of oneness last for periods of time? During those periods of time what is the ego doing?
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...feel a oneness with all that I can see I am able to beging to zoom out(leave my body) to experience the BIGGER picture but I have fear issues about death and this existince and my purpose here so I have never let myself zoom out much out of fear of not being able to return or learning something that would no longer allow me to inhabit this plain of existince. ...
It sounds like a spectrum of some kind that has a zoom factor. Sometimes I've left my body and experienced my body electric and looked at my physical self asleep. It did feel disjointed but curious. I try to keep the body and soul as much together was my awareness can. But sometime feeling this makes me think making the transistion to not incarnated would be smoother smoother or somewhat known.

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I know this may sound weird.... but when I meditate, I experience a wave like feeling coming over me. This wave motion moves from my head to my feet and back. I can actually feel my body and my spirit separating... a very odd, and scary feeling at first but something that took a while to get use to. I'm not sure if it's a feeling of "oneness" but I definitely feel connected to something.
hmmm... not too strange. I've had the mind, body, spirit idea for a long time. That we are a combo. So to feel that oneness is more free and the spirit is wave like to you. Where is the mindor does the mindcomealongwith spirit mostly?
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That aura boundary must be also connected. Do any of your advanced meditations include open eyes or movement? It seems that oneness doesn't have to reside in quite meditation- or better to ask is oneness something that is always there?
No I do all of my meditations with my eyes closed in a dark room. And the feeling that I explain in my post is not during meditation, it has happened when I lay down in bed or when I am sitting there. The feeling that MGJ explains is common during meditation and is the feeling of energy moving throughout the body which requires a quiet mind to 'feel'.
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Does your experience of oneness last for periods of time? During those periods of time what is the ego doing?
Time stops. Ego is trying to rationalize, it cannot and begins to die.
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No. If something is to be experienced, there must be something that experiences. So that which experiences and the experience are two different things. Hence there is a duality, oneness cannot be experienced.
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Deepak Chopra in 'How to Know God' identifies the 7 stages of God as beginning with a sense of small insignificant, stranded in the vastness of nature, survival, through to fulfillment of ones own needs, finding inner peace, manifesting ones own desires, then duality, an awareness and perception of being at the centre of an immense power and intelligence that emanates from God, (this is where healings, psychic ability, telepathy, ESP etc occur). The final stage of oneness requires no belief or faith. It is the total dispersion of physicality, ego, mind. There is no self, only the awareness of being expanded energy. I believe it is possible to experience it.
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To experience something, you must have the ability to compare that experience with other experiences, there must be a reference.
In this model where "all is one", it is impossible to experience oneness, because there are no references to other things.

However, it is possible to experience oneness indirectly: if you bring yourself in illusion.

To do so, create an illusory world in your imagination.
Enter that world as one of the millions of living beings, not knowing what your real identity is.
Let all kinds of things happen that make you think about your existence, until you realize what your real identity is.
Then you can experience oneness.
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During one of my experiences of "oneness" I was sitting in my backyard with two good friends to my right. I was staring straight ahead and everything just stopped...time stopped and only I had the ability to start it again..I did this by thinking of my friend next to me. I had figured out that I was God...atleast thats what was going through my head, once I started time again I looked to my right and gazed into my friends' eyes...instantly he said outloud "THIS GUYS GOD!" I said...that was tripping my friend because I had come to that conclusion myself...then my 2nd friend quietly and almost in a scared, shocked voice said "I...felt it too...I felt that you were God" I dunno what to make of this exactly but it has stuck with me...
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During one of my experiences of "oneness" I was sitting in my backyard with two good friends to my right. I was staring straight ahead and everything just stopped...time stopped and only I had the ability to start it again..I did this by thinking of my friend next to me. I had figured out that I was God...atleast thats what was going through my head, once I started time again I looked to my right and gazed into my friends' eyes...instantly he said outloud "THIS GUYS GOD!" I said...that was tripping my friend because I had come to that conclusion myself...then my 2nd friend quietly and almost in a scared, shocked voice said "I...felt it too...I felt that you were God" I dunno what to make of this exactly but it has stuck with me...
Now that is very interesting. It appears that you were of the present completely (the only place) and had become suddenly lucid of reality itself, maybe. What really got my attention is how you said that both of your friends suddenly realized this had happened as well. It reminds be of an event that happened ever-so-often while I was still in primary school: As usual the classroom would be filled with loud conversation and laughing when all of a sudden, for no noticeable reason, everyone would just go dead quiet for little more than a second. Then afterwards, most students within the room would start laughing (maybe nervously) over the whole situation then commence talking again! It has never happen since, not even once when I was in high school (or any other situation where there is a large mass of people in conversation).

But going back to your post. It just goes to show what can happen when one is within the moment.
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DoAnyOfYouExist,
Dude you have to be a "smoker." I used to be. You are insane, dude. I am not making fun of you, but I can't help not find the humor in the situation. I just imagine myself there and being a spectator. I would have been rolling on the ground laughing and probably got my butt kicked. Take it easy, man/woman. I don't know your gender. I am a guy. Joshiepoo3000 probably gave you a hint. Lol.
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Dude you have to be a "smoker." I used to be. You are insane, dude. I am not making fun of you, but I can't help not find the humor in the situation. I just imagine myself there and being a spectator. I would have been rolling on the ground laughing and probably got my butt kicked. Take it easy, man/woman. I don't know your gender. I am a guy. Joshiepoo3000 probably gave you a hint. Lol.
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Maybe if you were there with DoAnyOfYouExist you might have "seen the light" as it were.

But what about the topic? Do you have an experience with oneness yourself? Do you think it's possible?
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I am sorry I was making fun. I meant no offense. No, I haven't experienced oneness if DoAnyOfYouExist's experience is what that is. I know for a fact I am not God. Unless my subjective half of reality can transcend and manipulate the objective half of reality to the point of creating things out of nothing, I don't think I will ever feel "oneness." Especially considering no one can ever actually experience "nothing" unless they are in a coma. If one can't experience nothing, it is impossible for one to manipulate it. So I think that one cannot experience "oneness" unless they are either dead or in a coma. In either case it wouldn't matter to the living.
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To experience something, you must have the ability to compare that experience with other experiences, there must be a reference.
In this model where "all is one", it is impossible to experience oneness, because there are no references to other things.

However, it is possible to experience oneness indirectly: if you bring yourself in illusion.

To do so, create an illusory world in your imagination.
Enter that world as one of the millions of living beings, not knowing what your real identity is.
Let all kinds of things happen that make you think about your existence, until you realize what
your real identity is.
Then you can experience oneness.
Great stuff. Thank you.

I think it's impossible too. But if oneness can be experienced at all, I'd say that oneness would have to be like an everyday ordinary experience. Like engaging in a long passionate kiss, or sitting in traffic, or taking a dump. Oneness would be no big deal. Nothing particularly unique or special.

I say this because it seems like a lot of people can already accept the idea that "oneness" would have to mean the total collapse of any concept or sensation of a physical existence. Concepts like "here" or "there", "outside" or "inside", "figure" and "background", "all" or "nothing", would be totally meaningless and cease to exist in a state of oneness.

What's a little harder, at least for me, is to realize that oneness would also have to include the total collapse of any concept or sensation of time. Concepts like "now" and "then", "past", "present", and "future" would be meaningless. Even the experience of "The Now" that's talked about in books like "The Power of Now" wouldn't exist for you and would be totally meaningless in a state of oneness. With oneness it's all the same. Time would have no meaning and is just a mental construct that no longer exists for you. Just as with how the three physical dimensions would have no meaning and would cease to exist for you.

So, with this collapse of these three spatial dimensions, along with the temporal dimension, not to mention any other dimensions that we can't even experience directly (aren't there theoretically 11+ dimensions or something?), the "experience of oneness" would have to be always and everywhere. And, for that matter, this "oneness experience" would also simultaneously have to be never and nowhere as well.

If you say you "experience oneness", that means you'd have to also experience o