Having Sex With Dream Characters (or Astral beings) Considered Cheating?

[sourceofmiracles]

This was an interesting topic at DreamView that I wanted to get your opinions on.

Would you consider having sex with a dream character in a LUCID Dream or during Astral Projection/OBE cheating?


Here is what I said:

It depends on the couple's perspectives of what "cheating" is.

I think the question of cheating relies entirely on the relationship between the two people. Regardless of whether you believe that phenomenological experiences like Dreams/lucid dreams or "Astral Projection"/OBE/Remote viewing or whatever you want to call it is real or a bit of undigested beef, it really depends on the PERCEPTION of the couple; the agreed upon boundaries.

If the couple is cool with masturbating while fantasizing with other people then they are likely also open to Astral Sex and Lucid Dream sex. But again it totally depends on their perception.

(what does Erin think about this?)

[Erin Pavlina]

Sex with a dream character in a lucid dream is not cheating in my opinion. Unless you're in a committed relationship and only having sexual relations in your dream, that is! I say if you have the opportunity to live out a sexual fantasy inside a dream that you can't live outside of the dream, more power to you! There are a lot of things you can do in a dream that would be physically impossible in real life.

[The David]

What about astral sex, though? Wouldn't that be more real?

[Erin Pavlina]

Oh! Yes I should have made a distinction. You're talking about meeting up with another real person on the astral plane and merging energy (astral sex) right? That would be cheating, in my opinion. If everyone involved agreed to do it, then not cheating.

[Savage]

It's only cheating if your spouse is a better lucid dreamer than you are.

[The David]

Nah, you're just jealous.

[Gordon]

Originally Posted by sourceofmiracles

This was an interesting topic at DreamView that I wanted to get your opinions on.

Would you consider having sex with a dream character in a LUCID Dream or during Astral Projection/OBE cheating?

(what does Erin think about this?)

I think this would say more about your own present sexual relationship. If it was good already (I am not saying that yours isn't), then you wouldn't even be considering sex with anyone else, let alone with lucid or otherwise.

If people want to have sex in lucid dreams, then I feel the question is why, not whether someone feels is it cheating or not?

G