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I just came across a short essay which I think is a wonderful articulation of a positive attitude towards life. Here's a snippet: Quote:
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Yep. I like this, Mark. This is pretty much what I'm striving for. Quote:
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I like it, too. Nice find. What bothers me a bit about it is that it's directed towards those who are overly critical, rather than those who aren't critical enough. To me, many people are more spontaneous and playful than critical and determined, and it's a lack of critical ability that holds them back. Of course, this was written 11 years ago, and times have changed a wee bit. It's like a pendulum, I guess. On the other hand, that might say more about me than others.
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Interesting essay and question. Particularly relevant to my personal philosophy (which is still quite fluid and growing as I do The definition of humor was quite unlike any other definition of it I've seen but several of the characteristics assigned to humor in this article also ring true to my way of living in the world such as flexibility, or the ability to live with irony, and the sense of balance, or the ability to stand outside of the problem. And accepting personal responsibility to examine oneself seems fundamental to any sort of successful personal philosophy - so yep, agree there as well. I notice though you never answer the question you ask, care to? Quote:
I think you make some good points here. For many years I've been one of those people who weren't critical enough and am slowly working to exercise those critical thinking muscles. I'd imagine that this very lack of critical thinking has held me back in many ways. That said, I think this article provides a bit of a bridge for someone not yet comfortable in the land of critical thinking to not take it all so seriously but neither to be dismissive of the power of critical thinking. At least that is one thing it provides me. | ||
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I talk about myself too much But since you asked, it's very much the kind of philosophy I've been working towards. A philosophy which values humour and novelty, which acknowledges and embraces the fluidity of our understanding of reality, which advocates the utility of the interpretations we choose to make, and requires that those interpretations are formed through a critical approach.
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It's worthwhile not to take criticism too seriously, for exactly the reasons he outlines: novelty and enjoyment. For instance, one of my favorite movies is V for Vendetta. It's very good at asking hard questions, provoking radical thoughts, etc. On the other hand, National Treasure is also one of my favorite movies. It doesn't ask any question, it's more entertaining than philosophical (it veers into inspirational, but that's it), etc. Not surprising: it's a caper film. They're both excellent movies, but for different reasons. What I wonder is this: does a complete lack of criticism have its place, too? A blank mind, unthinking, obedient, ...open-minded... I think so. But, like criticism, it's not an end-all. Thoughts?
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| Senior Member | Hmmm... Would complete lack of criticism be possible? For example what happens if you encounter contradictory beliefs. You can't adopt both of them. As a trivial example, the belief that all vegetable oils are healthy versus the belief that only some are. The latter belief would prevent you from fully adopting the former.
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Well, there's complete acceptance, but there's also complete rejection, isn't there? Or would that count as criticism... Hm. On the other hand, contradictions are not always apparent: they have to be experienced or noted before they can introduce a need for criticism. That's probably how criticism came about in the first place: conflicting worldviews.
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That wouldn't surprise me. It's certainly how criticism seems to often come about today. First the acknowledgement that someone else's view doesn't agree with one's own, then the reason for one's own superiority (which may or may not be valid or rational). As you said, complete rejection. The need to notice contradictions before they can be criticised is a good point. I was just thinking about hypocrisy, which is usually something that we're not aware of until someone points it out (and even then some people will vehemently deny it). Though in that case it's the complete acceptance of one's own (distorted) view without consideration for others (or at least without due consideration of one's behaviour). So in that case lack of criticism is undesirable. |
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When? After a belief or practice has been given a preliminary examination, found to have potential and in the beginnings of its practice or acceptance. In many ways it seems that complete openness to a belief or practice is essential to ever really understanding it the same as at some point critical examination of the same belief or practice would become essential to deepen one's understanding. I imagine this ability to examine without question is either a core component of one's psychological make-up or it must be cultivated rather like skepticism on the other side of the spectrum. Quote:
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So it's not merely a lack or presence of criticism per se, but where and how and why it's applied. ...that... complicates things... so much, heh.
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