live, love, LIE

[cbreeze]

Upon finding out my soon 2 B spouse has been a liar getting away w/his good looks, however hurting ppl as well, it's obvious he will always be a liar. Since I attracted him does that define me lying to my self about something (aside from kicking him to curb)

[beautyscientist]

No - tell him to clean up his act or you will dump him. End of.

[ZHereford]

Originally Posted by annah

Since I attracted him does that define me lying to my self about something (aside from kicking him to curb)

No you attracted him because you needed to learn to respect yourself and establish personal boundaries. Yes, you could lie to yourself and ignore those things in which case you would continue to attract such individuals until you learned your lesson.