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introspective1 · 07-10-2007, 07:39 AM

Have you ever answered a "roomate wanted" ad in a newspaper or online? Why do so many people post these ads and obviously, end up with roomates they don't know? I have thought about answering one of these ads because I want to live in a bigger apartment but save money. Not sure how good of an idea it is to live with a stranger or if it is even possible. If anyone has lived with a roomate they met through one of these ads, I would definitely like to know your experience.

Adrienne · 07-10-2007, 02:40 PM

I used roommates.com I did not like the service at all. I did manage to find a roommate who i did not know.

For me, it has worked well. He pays me on time. He has a couple habits that bother me, and i am sure i have a couple that bother him, but we are both tolerant.

I am glad i did it. I am glad it was a stranger too because there is no emotional attachtment. He is free to do what he wants, come and go as he wants, and i do the same. I will say that having my own bathroom definitely helps the situation.

Adrienne

introspective1 · 07-10-2007, 04:55 PM

what did you not like about roomates.com if you found a good roomate? Just curious...

Adrienne · 07-11-2007, 02:28 PM

i did not like it for a bunch of reasons. Here is a short list:

30 bucks a month and (for me) it took 3 or 4 months
Lots of spam messages. They try to clean them up, but you get an email as soon as a message arives, then you look at it, then it disappears.
Dont have good questions. What i mean is they have questions like do you have to have your own bathroom? but very little about who you are. For me, what is most important is how well i get along with someone and they dont have the questions and stuff listed so you can figure it out if they would be a good match.
I had a couple questions i needed to speak with custom service about, and it was worse then talking to microsoft.

Yes i found my roommate there, but what i did was find someone who wanted to look for a new place together. We have a 3rd room (with its own bathroom etc) and i kept looking on there for a few months and finally stopped. The place is filled with owners of places and not nearly as many looking for a place. So if you are looking for a place, you may have better luck.

in retrospect, i would put fryers up at a college campus, or post it on craigslist or just spread the word. I think that would be more effective, cost less, and find people who better suit what i am looking for.

hope that helps...

Adrienne

07-10-2007, 07:39 AM	#1 (permalink)
introspective1 Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 93	Roomate newspaper ads Have you ever answered a "roomate wanted" ad in a newspaper or online? Why do so many people post these ads and obviously, end up with roomates they don't know? I have thought about answering one of these ads because I want to live in a bigger apartment but save money. Not sure how good of an idea it is to live with a stranger or if it is even possible. If anyone has lived with a roomate they met through one of these ads, I would definitely like to know your experience.

07-11-2007, 02:28 PM	#4 (permalink)
Adrienne Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,218	i did not like it for a bunch of reasons. Here is a short list: 30 bucks a month and (for me) it took 3 or 4 months Lots of spam messages. They try to clean them up, but you get an email as soon as a message arives, then you look at it, then it disappears. Dont have good questions. What i mean is they have questions like do you have to have your own bathroom? but very little about who you are. For me, what is most important is how well i get along with someone and they dont have the questions and stuff listed so you can figure it out if they would be a good match. I had a couple questions i needed to speak with custom service about, and it was worse then talking to microsoft. Yes i found my roommate there, but what i did was find someone who wanted to look for a new place together. We have a 3rd room (with its own bathroom etc) and i kept looking on there for a few months and finally stopped. The place is filled with owners of places and not nearly as many looking for a place. So if you are looking for a place, you may have better luck. in retrospect, i would put fryers up at a college campus, or post it on craigslist or just spread the word. I think that would be more effective, cost less, and find people who better suit what i am looking for. hope that helps... Adrienne

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07-10-2007, 02:40 PM	#2 (permalink)
Adrienne Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,218	I used roommates.com I did not like the service at all. I did manage to find a roommate who i did not know. For me, it has worked well. He pays me on time. He has a couple habits that bother me, and i am sure i have a couple that bother him, but we are both tolerant. I am glad i did it. I am glad it was a stranger too because there is no emotional attachtment. He is free to do what he wants, come and go as he wants, and i do the same. I will say that having my own bathroom definitely helps the situation. Adrienne

07-10-2007, 04:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
introspective1 Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 93	what did you not like about roomates.com if you found a good roomate? Just curious...

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