|12-21-2011, 03:08 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2008
The Woman I LOVE, and her FEAR
I love this woman. I'm talking deep, romantic, all out, Shakespearean, love.
One big problem: FEAR
At least that's what I think the problem is.
All day yesterday we exchanged love and excitement about getting to be together that night. Lots of bliss. On my way there, almost arrived, I receive a text "I think I should be by myself tonight. I'm sorry."
So I call (This is a cycle by the way)
A conversation ensues where I just want her to communicate with me and she keeps telling me she's afraid. I'm confused how the drastic shift occurred -- all day love and excitement, now depression, sadness, fear.
I gently tug on the teeth of her sadness and depression and finally get her to tell me what's bothering her. Then I say, "OK, thanks for letting me know. Let me help with that."
But no, that's not it. I get off the phone. Negative texts start flying at me. I think her fear makes her delusional. I can't get her to see.
I teach this stuff to people, show them all the research and thoughtful writing on it, but I can't seem to help the woman I love, and in turn help our relationship. I think it's killing us.
What to do?
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