Intj

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Portrait of an INTJ

According to the myers-briggs test I'm an INTJ. It's the one that fits me perfectly so I wasn't really surprised when I took the test. Any other INTJs here? As an INTJ I pretty much only ever feel comfortable socially in small groups of people (with other NTs, if I am understanding this model correctly) and during my 17 years of living I've mostly avoided big social gatherings, and when I'm at one I tend to stay "in the shadows", perhaps finding some interesting people and have conversations with (not just serious conversations, I'm not necessarily a bore to hang out with haha).

Now to the reason I created the thread, I just came home from a big social gathering of 30+ people (distant relatives) and I believe most people there ended up thinking I was arrogant. Is there some social skills I need to work on? What specifically? When sitting around a table with lots of people chatting about something I find meaningless/stupid/can't relate to I don't really know how to take part in it.