Older Women

[Ceoarob]

are awesome.

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To finish my statement, this will be short because I'm going to go watch a movie...

For the past month or two, I've been dating this 41 year old girl who's been pretty awesome. I'm 20, about to turn 21 in March, and I've dated anywhere between 17-26 year old's max 29 and 32 something like that.

Anyways, the past 3 months of my life have been me pretty much meeting as many women as possibly, getting this relationships part of my life handled, and just exploring different options that I have with women, and it ended up being that my 41 year old girlfriend just happened to be the best matchup for me.

Now, I love all women, but there was just something special about this girl which really made me appreciate her not only as a woman, but as a human being.

Quoted from David Dieda's Book "Way of the Superior Man"

For many reasons, from biological to yogic, you are probably more sexually attracted to young women than older ones. Walking down the beach or street, your head is more likely to turn for a twenty year old woman than a sixty year old. This is quite natural.

But there is more to feminine energy than this. Youthful sexual attractiveness is a temporary
aspect of a much deeper and more fundamental quality of feminine energy: radiance.

Feminine radiance is not only the flush of a young woman's cheeks or the glow of her skin, but is the shine of life force itself. A woman's true radiance reveals the degree to which she is open, trusting, connected, and loving.

Her capacity to love, in turn, allows her body to be moved by the power of life force itself. Herein lies the true nature of feminine radiance and power, far beyond the simple sexiness of a naive young woman.

The natural sexiness of a young woman will always give you energy. You never need to deny
this. But the awesome beauty and radiant ease of a deep woman can stop your mind, widen your heart, and suspend your body in the mystery of feminine grace, all in an instant, with a single gaze or touch, regardless of her body's age. And in relationship with such a woman, there are no bounds to the rapture which may resonate through your union. Boundless feminine love-radiance and temporary physical sexiness are both blessings; you must decide, moment by moment, and year by year, which qualities you will invoke and venerate with your attention, praise, and union.

As a woman grows older with wisdom, her "psychic weight" increases. She becomes a
"bigger" woman, able to influence her surroundings with stronger magic than a less developed woman.

She is able to read the signs of nature with great accuracy, as well as sway events with almost shocking reign. A superior man honors and appreciates this kind of magic, and knows that it complements his masculine style of accomplishment.

An older woman will also tolerate less of your ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ than a younger woman. Although this
might be one of your reasons for preferring younger women, you must choose your priority. If you find yourself attracted to younger women, be careful that you aren't trying to find an easy relationship with a woman who will let you slide. If your purpose is to become ever more free of your self-burdens and give your true gift to the world, then a spiritually mature woman—who won't let you slather in your comfy habits of security and distraction—may be an excellent ally for your journey.

I found that alot of what I read in "WoTSM" seemed to be spot on in regards to older women.

I found myself falling in deep infatuation with alot of younger women, but this is/was the first woman who I actually truly fell in love with.

I could relate to her not only as a man does to a woman but as a friend does to a friend and a human to another human (deeper/spiritual like connection).

She's smoking hot, she [s]awesome[/s] phenomenal in bed, and she's a great person to be around. I found that I actually enjoyed her as a person because she was secure in her femininity and sexuality, she didn't tolerate my BS (and I'm extremely thankful for that), we communicate openly and freely (no emotions lingering under the surface. If there's ♥♥♥♥ to say, then we say it.), and she doesn't smoke or do any drugs,

AND she keeps her body fit and in shape.

There are a whole bunch of other things that I could add to this, but I'm going to go watch my movie.

After meeting her and getting real close to her, I've developed a greater appreciation for women in general, and more specifically, older women.

So as a celebration, all women have free shots on me

(or free green smoothies; whichever is your poison)

[nothuman]

There ya go bro....knock yourself out.......

[CroMagna]

Originally Posted by Ceoarob

are awesome.

Yay! Now I have something to look forward to when I get older.

[SireneB]

Of course we are

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by nothuman

There ya go bro....knock yourself out.......

erm

Originally Posted by CroMagna

Yay! Now I have something to look forward to when I get older.

yehhhh

Originally Posted by SireneB

Of course we are

yepppp

[Philemon]

Originally Posted by Ceoarob

are awesome.

Somehow, I think I understand exactly what you mean.

[Agota]

I bet older women are a serious challenge, though, since most females past age 16 don't look at younger guys that way.. It seems that they start to look at them again once they're middle aged, but in general even middle aged women don't seem to see younger guys as a relationship material..They see them as a material for something else, though

[danas]

Right now Im seeing someone who is 11 years younger.
Actually exactly: 1 decade + 1 year + 1 month + 1 day younger.
Oh wow , that 11:11 I never noticed that!

he has no problem with this. very strong attraction between us, and care and deep understanding. Very strange.
He said he thinks Im still a teenager deep inside, only more serious. haha. Hes right. I would say my "real" age is 26.

Hes got this innocence about him that I love. Like he talks about falling in love, and his feelings in general. Most older guys I met have too many guards to just talk about their feelings so naturally. Very authentic. For me the most important thing is that he is emotionally mature, and not a drama queen.
Otherwise I dont mind if they are like big kids. Its sweet.
Ive dated older men that were less mature emotionally.
I dont know if this can be long term, as soon Ill be living his country. But he is the first person in a long time to remind me, what it feels like to be happy in a relationship, and what really matters to me at the end of the day.

[AllTogetherNow]

"In Praise of Older Women" - Frank Kaiser
(not Andy Rooney to whom this has been falsely attributed)

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

[danas]

Originally Posted by AllTogetherNow

"In Praise of Older Women" - Frank Kaiser
(not Andy Rooney to whom this has been falsely attributed)

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

Wow Im not 40 yet, but I do feel a lot like this.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

hahaha

[Bradshaw]

LOL, Ceoarob.

You have no idea... I bet a good amount of the smartest/conscious guys go for the older babes. All my friends who are truly into PD, spirituality and consciousness always seem to have older girlfriends.

I've been in a relationship with a 42 year old women(I'm 24) for the past 2 years, and I've been living with her for the past 6-7 months or so.

It's heaven for the both of us.

"Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know."

I find this quote hilarious, because my girlfriend is an actual psychic who runs her own personal development center.

I'm not sure if I'll ever be attracted to young women ever again. God-******-damn is she hot. Into personal development. Into spirituality. Incredible womanly body. No ridiculous stuff like smoking, drinking, alcohol, etc. Funny. Incredible sexuality. Hot. Did I mention hot? I'm gonna die from a heart attack I can't take all this happiness.

It's such a high-level relationship as well. Constant personal development. Lots of meditation. Continuous improvement on both parts. I feel so victorious and successful in life and love I think I'm gonna cry.

Older Women, especially really good ones = *****

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by Agota

I bet older women are a serious challenge, though, since most females past age 16 don't look at younger guys that way.. It seems that they start to look at them again once they're middle aged, but in general even middle aged women don't seem to see younger guys as a relationship material..They see them as a material for something else, though

Probably at first, they're just looking for a couple of nice trips to bangtown.

After that, I think that they're just looking for real men who can truly handle them and who actually knows how to draw out that femininity.

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by Philemon

Somehow, I think I understand exactly what you mean.

Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I finished my first post. Maybe now you can tell me if we're thinking along similar lines my friend

[votoshka]

Originally Posted by Agota

I bet older women are a serious challenge, though, since most females past age 16 don't look at younger guys that way.. It seems that they start to look at them again once they're middle aged, but in general even middle aged women don't seem to see younger guys as a relationship material..They see them as a material for something else, though

They don't?? I must be in a minority then . I've always fancied younger men... of course, the older I get the younger than ME they get

I think it's awesome when younger guys appreciate older women .

[Philemon]

Originally Posted by Ceoarob

Probably at first, they're just looking for a couple of nice trips to bangtown.

After that, I think that they're just looking for real men who can truly handle them and who actually knows how to draw out that femininity.

Yup, that basically covers it.

[BillyTheAdult]

Originally Posted by Ceoarob

Probably at first, they're just looking for a couple of nice trips to bangtown.

After that, I think that they're just looking for real men who can truly handle them and who actually knows how to draw out that femininity.

and how exactly do you tell a real man from a fake man?

[Angela]

Ceoarab, thank you for the schmoop injection!! <blows kisses>

[ButterflyWoman]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

and how exactly do you tell a real man from a fake man?

The removable penis is a dead giveaway.

[BillyTheAdult]

King Missile - Detachable Penis - YouTube

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by votoshka

They don't?? I must be in a minority then . I've always fancied younger men... of course, the older I get the younger than ME they get

I think it's awesome when younger guys appreciate older women .

hehehehehehe. This made me smile.

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

and how exactly do you tell a real man from a fake man?

How can you tell the sun from the moon?

Originally Posted by Angela

Ceoarab, thank you for the schmoop injection!! <blows kisses>

<3

Originally Posted by ButterflyWoman

The removable penis is a dead giveaway.

Definitely this...

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I went to my local library today for the first time in about a year.

One of the librarians (Mid 40's early 50's possibly) was looking smokin. She was wearing red heels and a tight grey dress. Very sexy.

She was too hott to be working in the library, I let her know.

Gave her a nice genuine compliment. She proceeded to light up like a Christmas tree.

The thing that I enjoy about older women is that they can appreciate the compliments more. They don't clam up, they're a bit more open, and just more comfortable with everything.

Also, I've found that I can be more direct and more forward with them (They know the deal ).

I think that older women know that they aren't going to find Prince Charming on the first date, but they're open to whatever comes their way. They aren't going to fall in love after the first date/first ♥♥♥♥ mainly because they don't need the relationship for social status the way that a 20-something-yearold does. They know that relationships aren't going to "complete" them. Yes, they provide a great sense of unity, security, and oneness, but they know that there's still other things in life.

It's hard to explain, and I know that all older women don't fall into the descriptions that I've made about them, and I've even met some young 20-somethings who fall into these descriptions, but this has just been my experience so far.

A year from now, it might change, and I'll prolly look back on this post and have some greater insights on it.

[ButterflyWoman]

You know, there's a full-on fetish for librarians. Erotica, porn, you name it.

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by ButterflyWoman

You know, there's a full-on fetish for librarians. Erotica, porn, you name it.

Hence why I could not resist myself yesterday.

[Blore]

With all the older men wanting younger ladies, it's good to see the older ladies aren't losing out. :P

[MissKriss]

no but for me i usually date pretty close to my age - i just like when someone has similar life experience to me - regardless of how old our souls might be lol - that being said i try to keep an open mind - but i probably wouldn't date more than 10 years younger or older - just personal preference

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by fooka

I love ♥♥♥♥ing moms in the bushes.. Moms are awesome.

I can see you have had a little shameless behavior in the past...

[codenamesmiley]

Thank you for this post.

I sort of needed this one put into perspective a bit for myself. Much appreciated.

[AllTogetherNow]

well this is great!

i'll be lookin' forward to some aware and conscious younguns! hehehehe

[Clint Cora]

When I was in my late 20s, I had a relationship with a woman who was almost 40. I agree that older women can really teach young guys a lot about life. In my case, this lady taught me how to respect women better. As you said, older women tend not to deal with the usual crap that younger women tolerate. They have been through it all already.

Having said this, there is always the potential issue of different goals in life. There's always a possibility that a younger man will soon want to start a family where an older woman might be past that stage. Then there could be a problem.

So this is just something to bear in mind. But in the meantime, have fun and learn all you can.

[newkaren]

Originally Posted by Ceoarob

are awesome.

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To finish my statement, this will be short because I'm going to go watch a movie...

For the past month or two, I've been dating this 41 year old girl who's been pretty awesome. I'm 20, about to turn 21 in March, and I've dated anywhere between 17-26 year old's max 29 and 32 something like that.

Um, I'm 44, and I am not older.

[VinceG]

Originally Posted by newkaren

Um, I'm 44, and I am not older.

This statement definitely needs substantiation. Pics, plz.