Older Women
 

are awesome.

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To finish my statement, this will be short because I'm going to go watch a movie...

For the past month or two, I've been dating this 41 year old girl who's been pretty awesome. I'm 20, about to turn 21 in March, and I've dated anywhere between 17-26 year old's max 29 and 32 something like that.

Anyways, the past 3 months of my life have been me pretty much meeting as many women as possibly, getting this relationships part of my life handled, and just exploring different options that I have with women, and it ended up being that my 41 year old girlfriend just happened to be the best matchup for me.

Now, I love all women, but there was just something special about this girl which really made me appreciate her not only as a woman, but as a human being.

Quoted from David Dieda's Book "Way of the Superior Man"

I found that alot of what I read in "WoTSM" seemed to be spot on in regards to older women.

I found myself falling in deep infatuation with alot of younger women, but this is/was the first woman who I actually truly fell in love with.

I could relate to her not only as a man does to a woman but as a friend does to a friend and a human to another human (deeper/spiritual like connection).

She's smoking hot, she [s]awesome[/s] phenomenal in bed, and she's a great person to be around. I found that I actually enjoyed her as a person because she was secure in her femininity and sexuality, she didn't tolerate my BS (and I'm extremely thankful for that), we communicate openly and freely (no emotions lingering under the surface. If there's ♥♥♥♥ to say, then we say it.), and she doesn't smoke or do any drugs,

AND she keeps her body fit and in shape.

There are a whole bunch of other things that I could add to this, but I'm going to go watch my movie.

After meeting her and getting real close to her, I've developed a greater appreciation for women in general, and more specifically, older women.

So as a celebration, all women have free shots on me :)

(or free green smoothies; whichever is your poison)

There ya go bro....knock yourself out.......


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Yay! Now I have something to look forward to when I get older.:):d

Of course we are :)

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yehhhh

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Somehow, I think I understand exactly what you mean. ;)

I bet older women are a serious challenge, though, since most females past age 16 don't look at younger guys that way.. It seems that they start to look at them again once they're middle aged, but in general even middle aged women don't seem to see younger guys as a relationship material..They see them as a material for something else, though :D

Right now Im seeing someone who is 11 years younger.
Actually exactly: 1 decade + 1 year + 1 month + 1 day younger.
Oh wow , that 11:11 I never noticed that!:eek::d

he has no problem with this. very strong attraction between us, and care and deep understanding. Very strange.
He said he thinks Im still a teenager deep inside, only more serious. haha. Hes right. I would say my "real" age is 26.

Hes got this innocence about him that I love. Like he talks about falling in love, and his feelings in general. Most older guys I met have too many guards to just talk about their feelings so naturally. Very authentic. For me the most important thing is that he is emotionally mature, and not a drama queen.
Otherwise I dont mind if they are like big kids. Its sweet.
Ive dated older men that were less mature emotionally.
I dont know if this can be long term, as soon Ill be living his country. But he is the first person in a long time to remind me, what it feels like to be happy in a relationship, and what really matters to me at the end of the day.

:D ;)

"In Praise of Older Women" - Frank Kaiser
(not Andy Rooney to whom this has been falsely attributed)

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

:D

Wow Im not 40 yet, but I do feel a lot like this.

Quote:

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

hahaha

LOL, Ceoarob.

You have no idea... I bet a good amount of the smartest/conscious guys go for the older babes. All my friends who are truly into PD, spirituality and consciousness always seem to have older girlfriends.

I've been in a relationship with a 42 year old women(I'm 24) for the past 2 years, and I've been living with her for the past 6-7 months or so.

It's heaven for the both of us.

"Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know."

I find this quote hilarious, because my girlfriend is an actual psychic who runs her own personal development center.

I'm not sure if I'll ever be attracted to young women ever again. God-******-damn is she hot. Into personal development. Into spirituality. Incredible womanly body. No ridiculous stuff like smoking, drinking, alcohol, etc. Funny. Incredible sexuality. Hot. Did I mention hot? I'm gonna die from a heart attack I can't take all this happiness. :d:d:d

It's such a high-level relationship as well. Constant personal development. Lots of meditation. Continuous improvement on both parts. I feel so victorious and successful in life and love I think I'm gonna cry. :o

Older Women, especially really good ones = *****

Probably at first, they're just looking for a couple of nice trips to bangtown.

After that, I think that they're just looking for real men who can truly handle them and who actually knows how to draw out that femininity.

Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I finished my first post. Maybe now you can tell me if we're thinking along similar lines my friend ;)

They don't?? I must be in a minority then :d. I've always fancied younger men... of course, the older I get the younger than ME they get :)

I think it's awesome when younger guys appreciate older women :D.

Yup, that basically covers it.:d

and how exactly do you tell a real man from a fake man?

Ceoarab, thank you for the schmoop injection!! :d <blows kisses>

The removable penis is a dead giveaway.

hehehehehehe. This made me smile.

How can you tell the sun from the moon?

<3

Definitely this...

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I went to my local library today for the first time in about a year.

One of the librarians (Mid 40's early 50's possibly) was looking smokin. She was wearing red heels and a tight grey dress. Very sexy.

She was too hott to be working in the library, I let her know.

Gave her a nice genuine compliment. She proceeded to light up like a Christmas tree.

The thing that I enjoy about older women is that they can appreciate the compliments more. They don't clam up, they're a bit more open, and just more comfortable with everything.

Also, I've found that I can be more direct and more forward with them (They know the deal ;) ).

I think that older women know that they aren't going to find Prince Charming on the first date, but they're open to whatever comes their way. They aren't going to fall in love after the first date/first ♥♥♥♥ mainly because they don't need the relationship for social status the way that a 20-something-yearold does. They know that relationships aren't going to "complete" them. Yes, they provide a great sense of unity, security, and oneness, but they know that there's still other things in life.

It's hard to explain, and I know that all older women don't fall into the descriptions that I've made about them, and I've even met some young 20-somethings who fall into these descriptions, but this has just been my experience so far.

A year from now, it might change, and I'll prolly look back on this post and have some greater insights on it.

You know, there's a full-on fetish for librarians. Erotica, porn, you name it. ;)

Hence why I could not resist myself yesterday.

With all the older men wanting younger ladies, it's good to see the older ladies aren't losing out. :P

what happened to age is just a number!
 

no but for me i usually date pretty close to my age - i just like when someone has similar life experience to me - regardless of how old our souls might be lol - that being said i try to keep an open mind - but i probably wouldn't date more than 10 years younger or older - just personal preference :)

I can see you have had a little shameless behavior in the past...

Thank you for this post. :)

I sort of needed this one put into perspective a bit for myself. :rolleyes: Much appreciated.

well this is great!

i'll be lookin' forward to some aware and conscious younguns! hehehehe :p :d

When I was in my late 20s, I had a relationship with a woman who was almost 40. I agree that older women can really teach young guys a lot about life. In my case, this lady taught me how to respect women better. As you said, older women tend not to deal with the usual crap that younger women tolerate. They have been through it all already.

Having said this, there is always the potential issue of different goals in life. There's always a possibility that a younger man will soon want to start a family where an older woman might be past that stage. Then there could be a problem.

So this is just something to bear in mind. But in the meantime, have fun and learn all you can.

Um, I'm 44, and I am not older. :p

This statement definitely needs substantiation. Pics, plz. :p