Used and Bruised, need advice on how to move on and not let it kill me

[Oscarjohn]

Damm, my ego has been busted, and stepped on. She went back to her boyfriend who was living there for three years. Thought she was completly done with him. As of last year when her and I got back together. Now I want my mom's jewelry and other things back, and she is totally blowing me off. I just wish I could meet somone new like yesterday and just get over it. I am trying to hang on to little stuff that is important to me be it is dragging me across the coals. She knows what the hell she is doing too. She kept playing me out and accepting my gifts all the time she was back with this drug user and jail bird who can't rub two niickles together, and has to move back in with her because he doesn't have a place to live. I told her LA is full of drug users that are homeless and he needs to be checking into a damm county halfway house or low income drug rehab facility. She has two children and appears to not care that he is a drug user (herion), and is back around her children again. I know she has been lieing about everything including being pregnant, which caused me to step up and get a two bedroom apartment across the street form her to take care of her, until last week I seen them together.

[rawxstasy]

This girl has a lot of problems and it is good that she is gone. I think you dodged a bullet. Let her go and give yourself time to heal. I know that it doesn't feel good to be hurting but to let yourself feel the hurt is the best thing for you.

Ask yourself why you were attracted to someone who needed to be taken care of? Usually there is something in our past which causes us to keep repeating events to try to resolve them. Knowing what that is can help us avoid getting into another unhealthy relationship.