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Old 11-29-2011, 11:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How can I give my girlfriend the most amazing orgasms?

I really want to give my girlfriend the most amazing orgasms ever!

I think I am doing ok at the moment but ok is not good enough for me.
I know there is more.

Who can help me with some pleasurable knowledge?
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Old 11-29-2011, 11:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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How about you ask HER.
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Old 11-29-2011, 11:46 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I really want to give my girlfriend the most amazing orgasms ever!

I think I am doing ok at the moment but ok is not good enough for me.
I know there is more.

Who can help me with some pleasurable knowledge?
you need to experiment with her. We are all different...
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Old 11-30-2011, 12:12 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Awesome
Have you tried it?
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Old 11-30-2011, 12:18 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Have you tried it?
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Old 11-30-2011, 01:43 AM   #7 (permalink)
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What a nice goal to have! That's very sweet.

Have you seen Tim Ferris' book, The 4-Hour Body? He's got a great section in there that I can personally vouch for.
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Aww that's great you have a girlfriend now ! I am glad you were persistent.
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Old 11-30-2011, 04:05 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I agree that every girl is unique and has unique needs in bed. Just be open to her. Ask her whatever you want to know or whatever she wants you to know when it comes to having sex.
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Old 11-30-2011, 06:32 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I would like to post something but not sure if it's "appropriate." It's a free stream video on how to administer cunnilingus. It is, more or less a great resource. You don't have to pay for scam crap.

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I would like to post something but not sure if it's "appropriate." It's a free stream video on how to administer cunnilingus. It is, more or less a great resource. You don't have to pay for scam crap.
Well I haven't seen the vid (and don't need to ), but cunninlingus is the way to go . At least... for MANY women! I can't speak for all, but I can speak for myself!
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Old 11-30-2011, 07:00 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I need a mod to chime in. It's from a [free], for all intents and purposes [porn] site, but the site has various uploads, this one strictly for performance teaching. It would be in link form to this vid.
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Ultimately there's different kinds of amazing orgasms. There's the kind where you're BANGING the dongle out of a hot chick and she's squeezing you so tight and yelling so loud and it's just WOW... The Achievement Orgasm.
Then there's the one where your girl either sits on top of your nose and ties you down, and keeps you on the edge of orgasm with her hands and maybe mouth (although thats not as safe) for 45 minutes - 2 hours and the precum is just LEAKING out, and she's barely moving her hands at all but you're RIGHT THERE, and that goes on so long that when you finally do pop, it just goes EVERYWHERE. The Denial Orgasm.
Then there's the one where you find his prostate with your finger and get him off with that...it's kind of like the above one. Prostate O.
And then there's the one where you're blowing him, he comes in your mouth, you swallow it like like milkshake through a straw, and you keep sucking on him til he's crying cuz it's just that intense.
Try to do this with my bf and he's always totally satisfied with what we do until I want to try something and then he thinks it's totally mind-blowing. I totally ask him like, "Do you have any fantasies?" and "Is there anything you want to try?" but he can never think of anything. Grr I guess it's good that I'm so open and adventurous. Not to brag or anything, I'm convinced that I'm oversexed. maybe im mentally ill
I'm a transsexual , and I've tried a variety of things. Like if I know I'm gonna get laid on a certain day, I won't jack off for like 3-4 days before (usually I'm jerking off everyday, multiple times a day). This builds up sensitivity, and sperm. The more sperm that comes out, the more intense the orgasm.
The best orgasms I've given myself from jerking off usually involve the teaser method. I bring myself to nearly climax, like where my head gets all flushed and i go dizzy making me faint and I can feel the tingle coming on. Then I just stop, i then black out my hands are off. I usually have to grab the chair and focus on NOT cumming. but wait .. am i there yet !!!!! oohh ohh ohhhh , keep in the zone . im nearly there I wait about 2 minutes for the sensitivity to go away, and then start at it again. I can do this nearly climax-STOP thing about 3-4 times before I can't take it anymore. Then I do the same thing, slowly building up the climax, and then when I get close, I go furious and power over the edge.
As a fat girl, you can't really do this because its hard to tell when guys are close.
Im that fat i cannot come
If he can give you a clue to like, " listern here yuo sone of a duck I'm 2 seconds from cumming!" then you might be able to pull it off. But if you stop too late, and he goes into orgasm mode, and you're not giving him any contact, it can be so frustrating. If you try this, and you stop, but you see him cumming, start jacking him off quick. Worst thing you can do is sit there and watch him.
You can also try choking. I get some really good orgasms by holding my breath, then when I feel the orgasm coming on, I inhale deeply. The rush of oxygen along with the orgasm that floods my brain
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Okay, with all due respect there are certain things to be mindful of outside of the initial act, like refraining from anything before the time when you're both ready, teasing, etc., but your entire way of going about illustrating that [above post] is wrapped up with extremes. We can all go there if we wish, but we're talking to a guy searching out advice on just how best to pleasure more or less strictly within the confines of the technique in the act itself.

There are incredibly valuable things just there, like knowing how to rub around the labial lips before going straight to the clitoris to build climax, etc.... holding off on climax itself is something that can be suggested without illustrating exactly how many times you're usually prone to your own things.

What you're suggesting are techniques that mostly are ancillary to the act itself or sometimes dealing with another part, but when it comes to that one sex-specific part there are some valuable things to be learned, just saying, and that's what he needs specifically.
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If you have any lesbian friends who have been in sexual relationships, i would definitely ask them for tips. I imagine they would be fantastic in bed
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have you tried anal sex while she uses a dildo on her clit this is a good technique to use you wil have her screaming within minutes
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Aww that's great you have a girlfriend now ! I am glad you were persistent.
It just happened. We got along from the start

On asking her: Not sure why it felt a funny thing to ask. Now that you mentioned it, I think I will

I have that book the 4 hour body - forgot about that. Im gonna check it out

CLOCKWORKSC I have only read the first paragraph of what you wrote but am loving it so far Hope she gets adventurous with me

Wish I had lesbian friends.

Have not gone for anal sex yet.

I want to get her screaming so loud because of the pleasure she is feeling

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