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11-27-2011, 09:09 PM
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 |  Should I Call Him?
I kind of feel silly for posting this but I'd like some opinions... So I met a person I already know for the first time in a year. We kind of lost contact since his number changed (as did mine.) We chatted for a while and basically hung out. We ended up exchanging numbers ( so I know for sure he has mine) and we parted. Well I don't know if I should call/text him first because he hasn't called. I'm kind of shy in this area because I really don't date, but I really like this guy. I just can't get the courage to call him either because I'm afraid of what might happen. Help? |
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11-27-2011, 09:12 PM
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Maybe he's too shy to call you also. Call me old school, but I prefer to do the chasing as opposed to a girl chasing me. I find that really uncomfortable. I believe the man should always chase the woman, not the other way around |
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11-27-2011, 09:24 PM
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Hi there, What if you don't call? You will never know. Take a chance - it's only a phone call or text. You're not asking him to run away with you and get married. I would give him a call and ask him to get together for a drink or see a movie. Something casual. I asked my husband out and we will be celebrating 25 years of marriage next year. I've asked him in the past would he have ever asked me out and it was a resounding "NO". He thought I was out of his league and was extremly shy - he still is. If you want something you have to go and get it. Don't live your life by the "what if's". Let us know what you decide. |
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Congratulations!
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11-27-2011, 10:54 PM
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Well think that you won't lose anything by calling which you won't also lose by failing to call... besides, it's not the end of the world either way.
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