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BillieAnn · 11-24-2011, 04:12 PM

I am 25. There was one 24 old boy. I was fall in love this summer realy!! I have meet in the club where I m going usualy. Hi is friend of my friend. Hi was single. Great!! And he become interested about me and we was dating and kissing and huging till this september! We was not in relationship, he did not talking much about that .. I was think that hi is just doing, instad tallking about the love and relationship .. but I did wrong Hi stop calling me. I call him but he did not answer .. days .. weeks! I was broken! But everythime when I was in my club I saw him. One night, I got realy drunk and I was ask him what is the point?? But he .. just say to me that he is not ready to be in emotional realtionship .. ok After one week I saw him with a girl. I am so sad I am not ugly. Hi is not even beautiful, just sweet. But I love him!! I am not rich, not even he! What is wrong? First time I was realy good, patient .. nice and 3 month dating for me means something. I love him still. Hi is single still.

Brutha · 11-24-2011, 09:38 PM

If a guy dates you for three months and there's no sex in your relationship with him, that might be a reason why he considers the relationship as going nowhere.

BillieAnn · 11-26-2011, 02:00 PM

At some stage you're right. But he is have not insisted at all!

Greek Dog · 11-26-2011, 02:32 PM

Unrequited love is one of the most difficult to understand or to explain or even to get beyond. Who knows why he did not fall for you as you fell for him. I suspect it had little to do with you and more about himself. But there is nothing that you can do to change things. The hardest thing of all is to let it go and move on. Good luck to you.

Clint Cora · 11-26-2011, 03:40 PM

He already told you - he's not ready for an emotional relationship and you can't do anything to change that. Even if he's with another girl, he's probably just playing around anyway. If it's a relationship that you want, you ought to be with somebody who is ready and willing to go into a relationship.

Beingist · 11-26-2011, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by BillieAnn

but I did wrong Hi stop calling me.

What did you do "wrong", if anything?

Otherwise, you've become attached to him, while he is not attached to you, and that means that, unfortunately, you have to let him go.

I'm sorry, BillieAnn. My best wishes for you.

BillieAnn · 11-27-2011, 07:07 PM

Thank you guys! You are right. I will continue .. actually 3 months a small period.Greetings to all!

11-24-2011, 04:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
BillieAnn Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: East from London Posts: 59	I need opinions, help? I am 25. There was one 24 old boy. I was fall in love this summer realy!! I have meet in the club where I m going usualy. Hi is friend of my friend. Hi was single. Great!! And he become interested about me and we was dating and kissing and huging till this september! We was not in relationship, he did not talking much about that .. I was think that hi is just doing, instad tallking about the love and relationship .. but I did wrong Hi stop calling me. I call him but he did not answer .. days .. weeks! I was broken! But everythime when I was in my club I saw him. One night, I got realy drunk and I was ask him what is the point?? But he .. just say to me that he is not ready to be in emotional realtionship .. ok After one week I saw him with a girl. I am so sad I am not ugly. Hi is not even beautiful, just sweet. But I love him!! I am not rich, not even he! What is wrong? First time I was realy good, patient .. nice and 3 month dating for me means something. I love him still. Hi is single still.

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11-24-2011, 09:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
Brutha Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Berlin, Germany Posts: 8,749	If a guy dates you for three months and there's no sex in your relationship with him, that might be a reason why he considers the relationship as going nowhere.

11-26-2011, 02:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
BillieAnn Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: East from London Posts: 59	At some stage you're right. But he is have not insisted at all!

11-26-2011, 02:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
Greek Dog Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Deep South Posts: 393	Unrequited love is one of the most difficult to understand or to explain or even to get beyond. Who knows why he did not fall for you as you fell for him. I suspect it had little to do with you and more about himself. But there is nothing that you can do to change things. The hardest thing of all is to let it go and move on. Good luck to you.

11-26-2011, 03:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
Clint Cora Family Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Mississauga, On Canada Posts: 1,502	He already told you - he's not ready for an emotional relationship and you can't do anything to change that. Even if he's with another girl, he's probably just playing around anyway. If it's a relationship that you want, you ought to be with somebody who is ready and willing to go into a relationship.

11-27-2011, 07:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
BillieAnn Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: East from London Posts: 59	Thank you guys! You are right. I will continue .. actually 3 months a small period.Greetings to all!

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