Ok, Hallo!

[BillieAnn]

I have 24 years and again I am wrong when I say 24, I am 25!!
I have some problem with the time! Time passing by, and I feel like I am standing here and I can see all the changes around me, but I am still the same! I have finished a college and I have no job, no appartment, I live with my parents still .. I have no boyfriend and I don't look like big girl .. I have sence and knowing about everything around me .. but that is not helping me. I am like lonley .. but like paradox, what lonly I am more I like the beeng lonley and I have no desire about hangin out's with friends .. Like there is no point in that! Hm ..

[OptimistPrime]

Hi, BillieAnn.

I'm in a life situation very similar to yours: 27 years old, no job, live with my parents, not really interested in hanging out with people offline most of the time. If it makes you feel any better, although I felt some shame and embarrassment about it when I was your age, at this point in my life I no longer feel that way. I'm able to recognize my own worth and value as a person, I'm able to see how much I'm growing as a person and enriching the world with my presence every single day. I don't know if you'll feel the same way when you're 27, but I know from experience that you could work in that direction.

And if you'd prefer to work in the direction of getting a job and living on your own, I'm sure the other members of this forum have lots of great advice that they can share with you if you request it.

Oh, and as far as the loneliness goes: Yeah, I felt lonely when I was 25. That really changed a lot for me this year, too, though.

[WisdomDome]

Many people at one point of their lives go through this stage, I know that I have. Often, from my experience, loneliness is a time for soul-searching and growth on deeper levels. Use this time that you want to be alone and learn about yourself, read books/website on personal development and spirituality, question reality, research a subject or topic that interests you or pick up a hobby. Try to really get in touch with you are and what you want out of your life.

The more time you spend now figuring yourself out, mind and spirit, while you have the opportunity to take advantage of your situation, the less time you may have to spend later in life when you might have more responsibilities to tend to.

To help get you started, here are a few topics that you may (or may not) find interesting:

Ascension, the 9th wave
Quantum Physics (double split experiment, entanglement)
Metaphysics
Oneness

Hope everything turns around for you! Remember that if you want it bad enough, it will happen with discipline and effort.

[BillieAnn]

Originally Posted by OptimistPrime

Hi, BillieAnn.

I'm in a life situation very similar to yours: 27 years old, no job, live with my parents, not really interested in hanging out with people offline most of the time. If it makes you feel any better, although I felt some shame and embarrassment about it when I was your age, at this point in my life I no longer feel that way. I'm able to recognize my own worth and value as a person, I'm able to see how much I'm growing as a person and enriching the world with my presence every single day. I don't know if you'll feel the same way when you're 27, but I know from experience that you could work in that direction.

And if you'd prefer to work in the direction of getting a job and living on your own, I'm sure the other members of this forum have lots of great advice that they can share with you if you request it.

Oh, and as far as the loneliness goes: Yeah, I felt lonely when I was 25. That really changed a lot for me this year, too, though.

Тhank you friend, a lot!!

[BillieAnn]

Originally Posted by WisdomDome

Many people at one point of their lives go through this stage, I know that I have. Often, from my experience, loneliness is a time for soul-searching and growth on deeper levels. Use this time that you want to be alone and learn about yourself, read books/website on personal development and spirituality, question reality, research a subject or topic that interests you or pick up a hobby. Try to really get in touch with you are and what you want out of your life.

The more time you spend now figuring yourself out, mind and spirit, while you have the opportunity to take advantage of your situation, the less time you may have to spend later in life when you might have more responsibilities to tend to.

To help get you started, here are a few topics that you may (or may not) find interesting:

Ascension, the 9th wave
Quantum Physics (double split experiment, entanglement)
Metaphysics
Oneness

Hope everything turns around for you! Remember that if you want it bad enough, it will happen with discipline and effort.

I will try, thank you, motivating!