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Old 11-14-2011, 05:59 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Personally I have this acquire habit of not snooping into people's belongings, I respect people's privacy and rights.

Does anyone has experience others snooping into their belongings? I have requested many times with this person to respect my privacy not to go through my stuff, I guess this person doesn't show some respect at all and continue doing so. Any advise?
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Old 11-14-2011, 07:17 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I have this every day at work,emails are constantly read by senior managers and I have had my office checked after work hours,don't know what there looking for,so good luck to them. I don't like it but what can I do? I deal with it by focussing on my future plans of going home to the uk, I find Aussies to be very strange people.

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Old 11-14-2011, 08:36 AM   #3 (permalink)
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This is my personal opinion, I have strong beliefs in good and bad karma. What comes around, goes around.
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Personally I have this acquire habit of not snooping into people's belongings, I respect people's privacy and rights.

Does anyone has experience others snooping into their belongings? I have requested many times with this person to respect my privacy not to go through my stuff, I guess this person doesn't show some respect at all and continue doing so. Any advise?
I do not snoop into other peoples belongings but I find it insulting when I am not permitted to move someone else's things especially when they put them on top of mine without asking them.
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Yes, I've had my own father rummage through sealed boxes of my belongings, and read my personal diary, and then lie about how he happened to be reading it.

I've had my mother steal the money I had saved up for a whole year to travel with and blow it on the $2 pokies...and never apologize for it.

Brothers who take my stuff and then deny they did, and people I've lived with help themselves to my stuff and act like nothing happened. It's an icky feeling of violation when it happens.

I know people who have lived with people who regularly snooped into their emails without permission.

I think people who do this have some sort of mental illness that hasn't been discovered yet.

People who do this have no respect for others. They know in their hearts they shouldn't be there, but that doesn't stop them. Their curiosity takes over. I'm all for curiosity, but have some respect. If you are so curious about something then ask the person about it, don't just help yourself to information that isn't meant for you.
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