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Tysonsmith · 11-12-2011, 04:07 PM

A lot of girls in school always say something under their breath and it is always about my @$$, sometimes even pinch it or squeeze it! I'm 5'8" and have a 28" waist and 37" butt. is this considered "BIG" like the girls say??
http://i1120.photobucket.com/albums/...1321036216.jpg

Criseyde · 11-13-2011, 02:42 PM

Hi Tysonsmith, welcome to the forum!

Given your measurements -- congrats, you definitely have a nice shape. Without a bust measurement I can't tell for sure, but you're probably either an "hourglass" (X) or a "pear" (A).

If you don't want people pinching your butt, you can tell them to back off. The fact that it exists doesn't make it public property.

Hope this helps!

Agota · 11-13-2011, 06:15 PM

The picture isn't clear enough to evaluate this, since proportions are distorted anyway in that picture. Your best bet would be posting a full-body profile picture (without head if you don't want people to recognize your face). This way, people would see actual proportions.

Also, if you're unhappy with your butt, it might be a good option to go to a gym and shape up. It might probably require conditioning of those muscles and losing some weight in case you have some additional weight on. Ass is a place which is relatively easy to shape, so in case it's really making you uncomfortable, just go to the gym.

Agota · 11-13-2011, 06:19 PM

I have no idea what these measurements mean, but what might help for you as a guy is upper body conditioning. Make your wings, chest,shoulders and arms bigger and you will have a classic upside triangle male shape. I know guys who do have disproportionally large butts, but it only looks weird because of the dispropotrion, not because of the actual size of their behind.

votoshka · 11-13-2011, 08:16 PM

Well... I think whether it looks like a "girl butt" depends on how the rest of you looks. I mean... if you're developing hips and man boobs, then maybe your butt looks girly. But a guy with a nice round butt, and otherwise masculine body parts, doesn't have a "girly butt" at all, as far as I'm concerned. I like a male butt that fills out a pair of jeans nicely

. But yeah, if it's a nice toned butt and not flabby, and the rest of you is in shape... it's most likely the girls actually LIKE your butt. If you had an ugly butt, I can assure you girls wouldn't be pinching/squeezing it

!!

Agota · 11-13-2011, 08:19 PM

Good points, votoshka!

Criseyde · 11-13-2011, 08:53 PM

Oh, you're a guy?!! Uhhhh, I assumed you were a girl. I WAS terribly confused by some of the things in your post. Ahaha. Sorry about that.

votoshka · 11-13-2011, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Criseyde

Oh, you're a guy?!! Uhhhh, I assumed you were a girl. I WAS terribly confused by some of the things in your post. Ahaha. Sorry about that.

Hehehe I just thought you were playing with him

.

Partaker · 11-13-2011, 09:33 PM

LOL .. I don't find anything wrong with a little junk in the trunk and it sounds like the girls that are "sexually harassing" you don't either.

Agota · 11-13-2011, 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by votoshka

Hehehe I just thought you were playing with him

.

I thought since when do guys have hour-glass or pear figures, but I thought maybe I've missed something..

awdye · 11-14-2011, 02:13 PM

And here I've been spending so much time working on my "bubble"...and this guy's b!tching about all the pinching and squeezing from the women....sheesh...

Criseyde · 11-14-2011, 02:15 PM

Hey, I stand by what I said before about other people pinching/touching you. I know there's a lot of wink-wink-nudge-nudge among guys about being "sexually harassed" by girls, but if it's bothering you, don't feel like you have to just put up with it.

awdye · 11-14-2011, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Criseyde

Hey, I stand by what I said before about other people pinching/touching you. I know there's a lot of wink-wink-nudge-nudge among guys about being "sexually harassed" by girls, but if it's bothering you, don't feel like you have to just put up with it.

I agree and see how my post supports the stereotype. It's not fun when it's not wanted.

Philemon · 11-16-2011, 03:33 PM

Maybe it's the pants . . .

Blore · 11-16-2011, 09:10 PM

Yes, judging from that picture you look bootylicious,

No, it's not a bad thing.

11-12-2011, 04:07 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tysonsmith Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 1	Do I have a "girl" butt :/? A lot of girls in school always say something under their breath and it is always about my @$$, sometimes even pinch it or squeeze it! I'm 5'8" and have a 28" waist and 37" butt. is this considered "BIG" like the girls say?? http://i1120.photobucket.com/albums/...1321036216.jpg

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11-13-2011, 02:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
Criseyde Family Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,157	Hi Tysonsmith, welcome to the forum! Given your measurements -- congrats, you definitely have a nice shape. Without a bust measurement I can't tell for sure, but you're probably either an "hourglass" (X) or a "pear" (A). If you don't want people pinching your butt, you can tell them to back off. The fact that it exists doesn't make it public property. Hope this helps!

11-13-2011, 06:15 PM	#3 (permalink)
Agota Family Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Barleylands, United Kingdom Posts: 1,257	The picture isn't clear enough to evaluate this, since proportions are distorted anyway in that picture. Your best bet would be posting a full-body profile picture (without head if you don't want people to recognize your face). This way, people would see actual proportions. Also, if you're unhappy with your butt, it might be a good option to go to a gym and shape up. It might probably require conditioning of those muscles and losing some weight in case you have some additional weight on. Ass is a place which is relatively easy to shape, so in case it's really making you uncomfortable, just go to the gym.

11-13-2011, 06:19 PM	#4 (permalink)
Agota Family Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Barleylands, United Kingdom Posts: 1,257	I have no idea what these measurements mean, but what might help for you as a guy is upper body conditioning. Make your wings, chest,shoulders and arms bigger and you will have a classic upside triangle male shape. I know guys who do have disproportionally large butts, but it only looks weird because of the dispropotrion, not because of the actual size of their behind.

11-13-2011, 08:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
votoshka Family Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 2,547	Well... I think whether it looks like a "girl butt" depends on how the rest of you looks. I mean... if you're developing hips and man boobs, then maybe your butt looks girly. But a guy with a nice round butt, and otherwise masculine body parts, doesn't have a "girly butt" at all, as far as I'm concerned. I like a male butt that fills out a pair of jeans nicely . But yeah, if it's a nice toned butt and not flabby, and the rest of you is in shape... it's most likely the girls actually LIKE your butt. If you had an ugly butt, I can assure you girls wouldn't be pinching/squeezing it !!

11-13-2011, 08:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
Agota Family Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Barleylands, United Kingdom Posts: 1,257	Good points, votoshka!

11-13-2011, 08:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
Criseyde Family Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,157	Oh, you're a guy?!! Uhhhh, I assumed you were a girl. I WAS terribly confused by some of the things in your post. Ahaha. Sorry about that.

11-13-2011, 09:33 PM	#9 (permalink)
Partaker Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 28	LOL .. I don't find anything wrong with a little junk in the trunk and it sounds like the girls that are "sexually harassing" you don't either.

11-14-2011, 02:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
awdye Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Jacksonville, FL Posts: 183	And here I've been spending so much time working on my "bubble"...and this guy's b!tching about all the pinching and squeezing from the women....sheesh...

11-14-2011, 02:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
Criseyde Family Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,157	Hey, I stand by what I said before about other people pinching/touching you. I know there's a lot of wink-wink-nudge-nudge among guys about being "sexually harassed" by girls, but if it's bothering you, don't feel like you have to just put up with it.

11-16-2011, 03:33 PM	#14 (permalink)
Philemon Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: ohio Posts: 345	Maybe it's the pants . . .

11-16-2011, 09:10 PM	#15 (permalink)
Blore Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 28	Yes, judging from that picture you look bootylicious, No, it's not a bad thing.

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