[ADULT] How to date a hot girl who loves rough sex

[NickWeb]

So I got to know a girl who is just perfect for me. We have not met yet, we will meet on friday this week.

Usually not, but this time I am extremely nervous. She told me so much dirty things that she likes that I cannot think of anything else. She can get every man she wants and she wants me.

I am even happy if I can have sex with her once or twice I do not hope for a relationship (although I could imagine with her).

She is the dirtiest and sexiest girl I ever known in my life. I know that she likes the way I look (body, face)


How can I stay cool with her while we drink a glass of something? Please give me some ideas not be nervous. Thank you in advance.

[VinceG]

Lol, if you can't get a hold of yourself, you won't even bang her once. Tell you what to do. Before you meet her, center yourself. Close your eyes and gather up all of your energy. Meditate. Pull that stuff in. I want you to focus it into an orb. Situate it either in your chest next to your heart, or under your chest at your solar plexus. Imagine your eyes, your brain, your whole being, sitting in that orb.

Then I want you to keep that energy, right there, while you're interacting with her. It will be difficult. If you have to, go to the bathroom and re-center yourself. Stay in control of yourself.

The great thing is, she'll probably see this battle in you to retain control of yourself. This is a very sexy thing, much sexier than you actually losing control, and deflating like a balloon.

At some point, if you can, push that energy down from your chest area to your belly area, right below your belly button. If you've been in control and centered, this will get you pretty aroused. Then push her against a wall and kiss her.

[Merr]

Lots of girls say dirty things online to get a guy's attention... it doesn't mean that they necessarily actually mean to follow through. I'd be wary and wouldn't place too much emphasis on what she says or looks like.

[NickWeb]

Originally Posted by Merr

Lots of girls say dirty things online to get a guy's attention... it doesn't mean that they necessarily actually mean to follow through. I'd be wary and wouldn't place too much emphasis on what she says or looks like.

she told me she hates romantic sex, she wants to be ******* rough only...

She also told me she enjoys that men cannot concentrate on nothing else just sex while she is with them.

[Eduard E]

Date?! With this girl, it sounds like it would be suited to skip the date and move directly to sex

[NickWeb]

Originally Posted by Eduard E

Date?! With this girl, it sounds like it would be suited to skip the date and move directly to sex

actually she would like to tease me before it, thats why we go somewhere first and talk..

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by VinceG

Lol, if you can't get a hold of yourself, you won't even bang her once.

Yeah dude, I agree with this.

At first, I thought that you had banged her once, therefore, I was going to give you 3 weeks.

Now, based upon new information, you're probably going to last only 3 hours.

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There are a couple of things that you can do:

1) Read this book: How To Give Women Orgasms SO Intense, She Will BEG You For More! - OFFICIAL Daniel Rose's Sex God Method Presentation
2) Ask her to show you how to be dominant/rough (might not work out well)
3) Give up.
4) Fly her down to Texas. Give her to me. Only if she's attractive. Don't send Sasquatch my way.

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If you read the book, that's probably the fastest way to learn this stuff. My first time having sex was a super failure. I wasn't very dominant at all, I couldn't give girls that "dirty" sex stuff to save my life. It got better with time and also that book was an extreme help.

I also read stuff like Nancy Friday's "My Secret Garden" that was very helpful too.

Cheers.

-AR

[wolfgang]

Originally Posted by NickWeb

So I got to know a girl who is just perfect for me. We have not met yet, we will meet on friday this week.

you haven't actually met her. reserve your prejudice for what she's actually like until you get to know her in real life. you are jumping to conclusions.

Usually not, but this time I am extremely nervous. She told me so much dirty things that she likes that I cannot think of anything else. She can get every man she wants and she wants me.

I am even happy if I can have sex with her once or twice I do not hope for a relationship (although I could imagine with her).

She is the dirtiest and sexiest girl I ever known in my life. I know that she likes the way I look (body, face)

I would say you don't really know her. you know her as an online person. she may be different in real life, especially different to your idea of what she's going to be like.

How can I stay cool with her while we drink a glass of something? Please give me some ideas not be nervous. Thank you in advance.

realize you are falling for an image you have created of her, that, yes, she has feed to you too. and you have to let her be who she is when you meet her. you are all nervous over thinking stuff about her that might not be true.

don't build up an expectation of her being a certain way, while you haven't really meet her or gotten to know her in person.

[NickWeb]

Originally Posted by wolfgang

you haven't actually met her. reserve your prejudice for what she's actually like until you get to know her in real life. you are jumping to conclusions.

I would say you don't really know her. you know her as an online person. she may be different in real life, especially different to your idea of what she's going to be like.

realize you are falling for an image you have created of her, that, yes, she has feed to you too. and you have to let her be who she is when you meet her. you are all nervous over thinking stuff about her that might not be true.

don't build up an expectation of her being a certain way, while you haven't really meet her or gotten to know her in person.

You are totally right in what you say. I forgot to mention that we talked 1 hour on the phone in a very calm way about many of our sexual fantasies (no telsex lol). So it is not just writing in msn or stuff like that. But still your post made me open my eyes a bit. I am excited about my own fantasy, not about the girl. But this is because this girl is perfect for my fantasy (at least I think so now)

[Bradshaw]

Enough with the feelings of unworthiness Nick.

You're awesome, and this girl would be lucky to even have a chance of having hot juicy sex with you.

[wolfgang]

Originally Posted by NickWeb

You are totally right in what you say. I forgot to mention that we talked 1 hour on the phone in a very calm way about many of our sexual fantasies (no telsex lol). So it is not just writing in msn or stuff like that. But still your post made me open my eyes a bit. I am excited about my own fantasy, not about the girl. But this is because this girl is perfect for my fantasy (at least I think so now)

yeah if you stick to the facts/keep it real and don't get ahead of it in your imagination too much you will be much less nervous about getting to know her more.

[NickWeb]

Originally Posted by Bradshaw

Enough with the feelings of unworthiness Nick.

You're awesome, and this girl would be lucky to even have a chance of having hot juicy sex with you.

I know that, I look like an underwear model lol, I train a lot and eat healthy. I am usually calm with girls, as I can get many of them.

This is why it is strange for me to feel so excited. I am trying to convert this excitement into a positive sexual excitement, so when I see her, she will hopefully know that I am into her. Of course I will try to control myself as VinceG pointed out.

[awdye]

Originally Posted by NickWeb

How can I stay cool with her while we drink a glass of something? Please give me some ideas not be nervous. Thank you in advance.

Just clean the pipes and you're good to go.
You gotta get the baby batter out of your brain before going on that date.

Dailymotion - There's Something About Mary _ Loaded Gun - a Funny video

Really...I couldn't help it.

[Spinoza]

Originally Posted by awdye

Just clean the pipes and you're good to go.
You gotta get the baby batter out of your brain before going on that date.

Dailymotion - There's Something About Mary _ Loaded Gun - a Funny video

Really...I couldn't help it.

That exact scene popped into my head when I read this post as well.

[Curtis2011]

Originally Posted by NickWeb

So I got to know a girl who is just perfect for me. We have not met yet

Uhh... what?

How can you possibly know she is perfect for you, if you have never even met her?

It sounds like you are judging her 100% off of her looks, which is a terrible, terrible idea.

[awdye]

Originally Posted by Curtis2011

Uhh... what?

How can you possibly know she is perfect for you, if you have never even met her?

It sounds like you are judging her 100% off of her looks, which is a terrible, terrible idea.

I dunno...he's been talking to her too. Seems the info about her...umm...plans for their future...could have had a part.

Depends on his criteria for "perfection". There have been periods in my life where I might have considered her "perfect" too. Sometimes...late at night...the perfection is REALLY apparent.

[Jocelyn]

From a hot girl perspective, I would not want a guy to be so nervous or anxious about having sex that the first date, or first time meeting is blown. (sorry-no pun intended).

I've had a lot of guys so nervous around me and were so eager to make it work that it was such a turn off for me. I think a lot of those guys were just caught up with whatever ideals they had of me, or an image that they'd wanted to fill, without really looking at if or not we were right for one another.

I am a very sexual person also, however, if I don't have a connection with a guy or feel there can be a friendship and connection developed, sex just isn't worth it. I realize though a lot of people really just want to have sex. But I don't think anything that lasts, starts off that way. Getting to know the real person is much better. Some people also really make who they are to try to get interest or a buy in, but in reality are totally different people!

Just my opinion.

[GeorgePH]

Originally Posted by Jocelyn

From a hot girl perspective

Hot and modest, apparently


To NickWeb

You're overanalyzing all of this. Others have already explained how so I'll skip repeating their words. But here are 2 simple ways to relax when you're on a date with someone you don't know.

1. If you have a little sister, try to remember and copy what it feels like to hang out with her. When I visualise this, I immediately become more relaxed and comfortable.
2. Pretend you've already had sex with this girl; visualise all the things you could do to make her moan in bed. This helps me instantly .