Growing a Spine (and Asking Out a Stranger)

[Uplift]

Jamie, heres the go. First thing, 10 girls a day. You speak to 10 a day. After a while, it gets easy. Ridiculously easy. Like anything. After a while, you get it through your head that it is normal for you and other people not to be attracted to everyone, or that attraction might happen for just a little while. So you don't waste time going down that path. You learn not to give it a second thought. You relax and talk to the girls that you like, that like you...and there will be heaps. You relax, just be you, and can't be stuffed with BS. You just be you. You are confident and honest, and it grows. Then there is a glut of girls that you want to go out with, and that want to go out with you, because just like you, girls worth spending time with get sick of BS, and actually like and respect honesty and genuine conversation. So more and more girls like you, and you like more and more girls. It's that easy.

The opposite choice is this...check out where you are now...check out all the poor fools getting smashed, trying to get the 'confidence' to dribble BS in a girls ear. Check out the 'muppets' waving their wallets around, literally hiding behind them, trying to buy a girl. Check out the desperados trying to be something they aren't even interested in. Check out the 'home alone' gang. 10 girls a day. Start now. Instead of talking to everyone here, spilling your guts to a screen, talk to girls. This is what's on your mind for now, so be honest. If you like someone, go up and tell her you want to talk to her because you think she looks nice, and you'd like to meet her. Tell you aren't very good at it, and wish you were better at it because you are a nice guy, and want to get to know more nice girls, but don't want to come across as sleazy. Why make up some BS. If a girl likes you, she'll like you, and what you have to say. If she doesn't...so what. That's life. Why be a fake you. You get to interact with 10 girls a day, 70 a week, 3,640 a year...how much fun!!!. This will soon be a dim, unbelievable memory. You'll actually be dreaming about time to yourself. And even more unbelievably, thats the ultimate 'aphrodisiac'!

That's what one of my first boss's told me and my friends. Away we went. Should be marketed!!!

[Ak47]

Originally Posted by Uplift

Jamie, heres the go. First thing, 10 girls a day. You speak to 10 a day. After a while, it gets easy. Ridiculously easy. Like anything. After a while, you get it through your head that it is normal for you and other people not to be attracted to everyone, or that attraction might happen for just a little while. So you don't waste time going down that path. You learn not to give it a second thought. You relax and talk to the girls that you like, that like you...and there will be heaps. You relax, just be you, and can't be stuffed with BS. You just be you. You are confident and honest, and it grows. Then there is a glut of girls that you want to go out with, and that want to go out with you, because just like you, girls worth spending time with get sick of BS, and actually like and respect honesty and genuine conversation. So more and more girls like you, and you like more and more girls. It's that easy.

The opposite choice is this...check out where you are now...check out all the poor fools getting smashed, trying to get the 'confidence' to dribble BS in a girls ear. Check out the 'muppets' waving their wallets around, literally hiding behind them, trying to buy a girl. Check out the desperados trying to be something they aren't even interested in. Check out the 'home alone' gang. 10 girls a day. Start now. Instead of talking to everyone here, spilling your guts to a screen, talk to girls. This is what's on your mind for now, so be honest. If you like someone, go up and tell her you want to talk to her because you think she looks nice, and you'd like to meet her. Tell you aren't very good at it, and wish you were better at it because you are a nice guy, and want to get to know more nice girls, but don't want to come across as sleazy. Why make up some BS. If a girl likes you, she'll like you, and what you have to say. If she doesn't...so what. That's life. Why be a fake you. You get to interact with 10 girls a day, 70 a week, 3,640 a year...how much fun!!!. This will soon be a dim, unbelievable memory. You'll actually be dreaming about time to yourself. And even more unbelievably, thats the ultimate 'aphrodisiac'!

That's what one of my first boss's told me and my friends. Away we went. Should be marketed!!!

I like this idea, i think it would work.

[Uplift]

Originally Posted by Ak47

I like this idea, i think it would work.

I swear to you, I'll take a lie detector test, it does.