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StanJedo · 03-18-2011, 05:21 PM

I have one single problem...
Some times i say something and others act like they didn`t hear what i say and i feel bad..why?how can i solve this problem?

spacecadetglow · 03-18-2011, 05:30 PM

Haha, I know exactly what you mean. I think it comes from not feeling important enough to be heard, on the inside. I used to feel practically invisible to those around me, so of course I'd appear that way to others.

All I can say is that it gets better. As you gain self-confidence, this problem happens less and less. How do you boost confidence? Practice. Put yourself out there. Talk to a lot of people, even if it sucks and you feel ignored at first. You won't always feel that way.

StanJedo · 03-18-2011, 08:36 PM

i don`t know why i feel this way..i don`t know why it happens so often..

03-18-2011, 05:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
StanJedo Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 9	Problem with the socializing part I have one single problem... Some times i say something and others act like they didn`t hear what i say and i feel bad..why?how can i solve this problem?

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03-18-2011, 05:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
spacecadetglow Family Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: where don't I live? Posts: 4,412	Haha, I know exactly what you mean. I think it comes from not feeling important enough to be heard, on the inside. I used to feel practically invisible to those around me, so of course I'd appear that way to others. All I can say is that it gets better. As you gain self-confidence, this problem happens less and less. How do you boost confidence? Practice. Put yourself out there. Talk to a lot of people, even if it sucks and you feel ignored at first. You won't always feel that way.

03-18-2011, 08:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
StanJedo Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 9	i don`t know why i feel this way..i don`t know why it happens so often..

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