[ADULT] Anal sex, for or against?

[alexplatups]

Well, pretty much all the other topics have been covered, I figured anal sex
would be an interesting one to have a deep discussion about

In my experience, imagining having anal sex with my female partners really
stirred up all kinds of amazing emotions, especially when we were having
conventional sex, but after convincing them to try it, it never turned into
something that I wanted to keep experimenting with. The interesting thing
is that they started to really like it and wanted more of it.

What have been your experience with this area of the sexual domain, and
if you haven't tried it yet, do you want to or not?

[sorter]

He said deep. Ha ha. Ha ha.

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What's not to like?
And it's always good for peanut butter sales.
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[BillyTheAdult]

I've only done it with one girl. She didn't want to try it at first, she said she had tried it once before and didn't really like it that much, but I wanted to try it and she said it had been years so okay. Well turns out she loves it, after that she practically never wanted to do it any other way. This was great for me (imagine that) because I (learned to control it a bit more now) take like an hour to orgasm, I found anal cuts that time down significantly.

I actually believe there is sort of a threshold to breakthrough for many women where after they get comfortable with it they like it.

[faithsdaddy]

I've done it a few times, when I was much younger. Sensation is much better than through the front door. Not as messy as I thought it would be either. Would like to do it once in a while, but faithsmummy ain't up for it.

[Eliza]

Originally Posted by faithsdaddy

Sensation is much better than through the front door..

As a woman who enjoys sex, I am incredibly curious as to what sex feel like for a man, I mean it must be totally different! Please enlighten me about the differences in sensation between the front door and the back door.

Be as graphic as you like, I'm all ears

In hindsight that request sounds a bit pornographic, but I can't really express it adequately in any other way. I'm just a woman curious about the experience that my partner is having

[sorter]

Originally Posted by Eliza

As a woman who enjoys sex, I am incredibly curious as to what sex feel like for a man, I mean it must be totally different! Please enlighten me about the differences in sensation between the front door and the back door.

Of course, the back door is tighter but in the end (har), same result.

The idea or sense of it is different. It's more kinky I guess and I'm not even sure what that means.
And it's a different kind of kinky if she's into it or just doing because I want to.
Maybe someone else can explain it better.
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[faithsdaddy]

Originally Posted by Eliza

As a woman who enjoys sex, I am incredibly curious as to what sex feel like for a man, I mean it must be totally different! Please enlighten me about the differences in sensation between the front door and the back door.

Be as graphic as you like, I'm all ears

In hindsight that request sounds a bit pornographic, but I can't really express it adequately in any other way. I'm just a woman curious about the experience that my partner is having

OMG, that's a really tough one to answer. Difference between anal sex and normal- with anal, you can touch the woman differently. Because of this, plus the tighter sensation around the penis, it makes the experience more 'animalistic'. Stronger sex sensations, but less loving.

As for basic feelings of sex, I think you'd better ask loads of men, to get an idea. I think it would take that, to even get a rough idea.

Best I can come up with is that the feelings are mostly contained to the penis and nuts. There is some arousal felt through the body- but it's quite subtle. A kind of heightened sensitivity- bit like being on edge. An orgasm feels a bit like a sneeze, but in a less violent way. Tickly, but nice. Again, it's felt mostly in the genitals.

Tough question. Bit like a blind man asking what it's like being able to see

[BillyTheAdult]

Less loving? I hardly agree with that, it's much more personal to the woman as she is really putting herself in a more vulnerable position and you have to take more care. I would say it heightens intimacy.

[faithsdaddy]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

Less loving? I hardly agree with that, it's much more personal to the woman as she is really putting herself in a more vulnerable position and you have to take more care. I would say it heightens intimacy.

Not my experience, but fair play. Was probably about 97 when I last did it, so a lot has changed. Would love to experience it again, but it doesn't seem likely, unfortunately

Why not have a go at explaining how male sex feels to a woman. Come on, throw your hat into the ring

[BillyTheAdult]

Well as far as when you first start it feels a lot tighter and it's warmer but that's almost imperceptible. It feels like regular sex, just a bit more. After you've been going for a little while it loosens up some it doesn't feel much different at all. I think a lot or even most of the excitement of it (for the man and the woman) is on the psychological level. It's like a taboo you're breaking. I think for the woman it's like it's this dirty secret thing you're doing, and for the guy there's the thrill that it's likely only a few guys will probably ever do that with her even if she's had a decent number of partners.

[Eliza]

To be honest, perhaps I was a little bit concerned about the sensation of the back door being "much better" than the front-door, I mean of course it is tighter, but what makes it so much better? Or is it rather the other aspects such as animalism or increased intimacy?

Personally my partner and I indulge in anal from time to time, perhaps because it provides a different type of experience, and I wouldn't want it to replace our usually vaginal sex, but I'd hate to think that my partner is getting a sub-standard experience every time.

I've been thinking about getting a vaginal exerciser. After all, extra tightness is going to benefit the both of us. Anyone here will to give me a personal testimony?

Thanks guys for your descriptions. They are much appreciated :-*

[Eliza]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

Well as far as when you first start it feels a lot tighter and it's warmer but that's almost imperceptible. It feels like regular sex, just a bit more. After you've been going for a little while it loosens up some it doesn't feel much different at all. I think a lot or even most of the excitement of it (for the man and the woman) is on the psychological level. It's like a taboo you're breaking. I think for the woman it's like it's this dirty secret thing you're doing, and for the guy there's the thrill that it's likely only a few guys will probably ever do that with her even if she's had a decent number of partners.

Aha, this makes a lot of sense to me. On the odd occasion that my partner and I indulge, I do tend to come a more easily.

Now I'm relieved that my partner is not getting a substandard experience from 'ordinary' old vaginal sex.

[Gabo]

Apparently I'm a minority on this thread, but to me anal sex is disgusting and unhealthy. It's one of the easiest ways to spread disease, and can cause permanent damage to whoever's on the receiving end. Not to mention that sticking my dick into a shithole seems pretty nasty.

[ssandra]

It's a variation and the sensations are MUCH different (at least, for me).
All in it's time....

[elucidate]

Originally Posted by Gabo

Apparently I'm a minority on this thread, but to me anal sex is disgusting and unhealthy. It's one of the easiest ways to spread disease, and can cause permanent damage to whoever's on the receiving end. Not to mention that sticking my dick into a shithole seems pretty nasty.

I'm kinda with you here. I've tried it, and done it a few times now, but I honestly don't see what all the fuss is about or why people rave about it. It's a person poo hole for goodness sake.

I understand that there are nerve endings and it's tight for the man, but...

It's nothing to write home about IMO. I'd rather give head.

[Angela]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

L... it's much more personal to the woman as she is really putting herself in a more vulnerable position....

Only if she's the one with something being penetrated, which isn't the only way to have anal sex.

[BillyTheAdult]

It is for me.

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

It is for me.

You don't know what you are missing

[BillyTheAdult]

I'm actually not totally averse to having a fingertip put in there during a bj or something. People freak and look at me funny and act like it means something when I say that. I found that I'm very open sexually. I guess now I just have to start having more of it.

[beast]

Forgive my bluntness, but it's very strange to me that many guys would not think twice about sticking their dick in someone's anus, but shudder at the thought of anything going up theirs.

(Billy, I read your last post, so this isn't directed at you, or really anyone in this thread.)

[BillyTheAdult]

I hear what your saying. To me the difference is that the woman is always the "receiver" or the one to be penetrated. I realize that that's a debatable idea though. I actually had a very long friendly argument about exactly that with one of my gay friends ex-boyfriends once.

[elucidate]

Originally Posted by beast

Forgive my bluntness, but it's very strange to me that many guys would not think twice about sticking their dick in someone's anus, but shudder at the thought of anything going up theirs.

(Billy, I read your last post, so this isn't directed at you, or really anyone in this thread.)

I find that really odd as well, especially with homophobic types who brag about having anal sex. What's the diff really?

[st33med]

Originally Posted by beast

Forgive my bluntness, but it's very strange to me that many guys would not think twice about sticking their dick in someone's anus, but shudder at the thought of anything going up theirs.

(Billy, I read your last post, so this isn't directed at you, or really anyone in this thread.)

Honestly, I don't have a problem with something going up mine. I think it would be very pleasurable.

EDIT: Oh wait, misread. No, I do have a problem with a dick in my ass. I'm not gay.

[Solipsist]

Originally Posted by alexplatups

What have been your experience with this area of the sexual domain, and if you haven't tried it yet, do you want to or not?

On her: I'm willing, if she is.

On me: no way on God's green earth am I allowing anything to enter that particular orifice of mine. I cringe at the very thought of my next prostate exam.

[votoshka]

Anal is the only virginity left to me, and I don't plan to change that .

I don't have any problems with other people doing it, it's just not for me! I mean... errm... can't explain really! I had someone shove a finger up there once and I HATED it.

I almost decided to have anal sex once when drunk, fortunately it didn't happen lol...Probably cause he knew I was drunk and knew I'd regret it in the morning!!

Meh I dunno... I just think there are other things I could be doing. And I'd be paranoid that it wasn't clean up there and stuff

[Curt the G]

Originally Posted by Solipsist

On her: I'm willing, if she is.

On me: no way on God's green earth am I allowing anything to enter that particular orifice of mine. I cringe at the very thought of my next prostate exam.

Prostate exam, whats that?

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by Solipsist

On me: no way on God's green earth am I allowing anything to enter that particular orifice of mine. I cringe at the very thought of my next prostate exam.

Why?

[roxyruby]

i don't like my and don't understand why anyone else would like it either.

that area of the body is unhygenic.

[Solipsist]

Originally Posted by ssandra

Why?

It just feels too... weird. Like, unnatural, or something.

I heard someone once say about their anus that it was definitely an "exit only" orifice. That about sums it up, for me.

[Angela]

Hmmmm, I guess some of these guys aren't going to try the ginger technique, either..... too bad!