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roxyruby · 11-24-2010, 11:27 AM

What are your practices in your Domination/Submission Bondage/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism life?

I just felt like this really wants to be talked about

VinceG · 11-24-2010, 02:35 PM

The real question here, roxyruby is...

What are yours!?

roxyruby · 11-24-2010, 02:43 PM

I don't know if it is appropriate or if I should be private. I was thinking other people might say stuff and then I could see the sort of things other people say then I could slip my answers in inbetween other peoples post

roxyruby · 11-24-2010, 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VinceG

The real question here, roxyruby is...

What are yours!?

no the real question was directed to everyone ^-^

VinceG · 11-24-2010, 02:54 PM

Well, you said "this really needs to be talked about."

This is a classic case of projection. Who wants to talk about this is you!

And we're all ears!

elucidate · 11-24-2010, 10:56 PM

Hasn't it been talked about to death already?

There's been at least 5 different threads on BDSM in the last year, including a share all. One recently about rough sex and dominating women.

roxyruby · 11-25-2010, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by elucidate

Hasn't it been talked about to death already?

There's been at least 5 different threads on BDSM in the last year, including a share all. One recently about rough sex and dominating women.

I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

ssandra · 11-25-2010, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby

I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

I don't get it... You thought the discussions were getting too much and therefor you started another one??

Anyway... I'd be happy to answer any questions or help you (and others) with any issues there might be, but I don't feel a need to just lay out my sex life just for the fun of seeing it in writing...

So, if you have questions, ask away

beast · 11-25-2010, 06:06 PM

I think she meant that these conversations were all in the past, so she figured it was time to make a new thread.

roxyruby, perhaps you could give the older threads another good thorough reading and then see if you still want to dredge up this discussion.

elucidate · 11-25-2010, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by beast

I think she meant that these conversations were all in the past, so she figured it was time to make a new thread.

roxyruby, perhaps you could give the older threads another good thorough reading and then see if you still want to dredge up this discussion.

Good idea. What's the point in everyone sharing everything they've already shared again?

NDN Scholar · 11-25-2010, 10:59 PM

So you all shared aspects of your sex life? Sounds like a sexy thread, I'll have to go give it a read...

billionairekid · 11-25-2010, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby

I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

Wouldn't it be more advantageous for you to renew the conversation with your own experiences? By nature other people will begin to share theirs

ginkgo · 11-26-2010, 03:47 AM

Maybe you can make money with a website about this. It used to be that 90% of the business on the internet was from sex websites. If I were more creative I would be able to come up with something. I know a 17 year old that is very creative. I will ask her.

I had a girlfriend who told me about a guy that she met that she called creepy Larry. She said something to him and he said "if you do that, then I will tie you up and kiss you all over." She did not like that and left and he treats people badly and it is very entertaining.

Maybe I can guess what you like. Would you like to be tied up and have whipped cream put between your legs and have someone lick it off? Seriously some people will pay to be on a site with you and share their BDSM fantasies with you.

You could be like a dominatrix and guys will pay you to treat them badly online. Kind of like what Chef Ramsey does on the TV show Hell's Kitchen. Have you seen any of his shows? He is like the top chef in Great Britain and maybe the world.

roxyruby · 11-26-2010, 04:52 AM

Who's on a BDSM website?

roxyruby · 11-26-2010, 04:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by elucidate

Good idea. What's the point in everyone sharing everything they've already shared again?

everything?

Llliy · 11-26-2010, 06:11 AM

I like blood. My own blood and having my partner rake his nails against my arm and bite my neck. I am very into the vampire fantasy imagining I am vulnerable and weak yet cabable of seducing such a powerful creature.

roxyruby · 11-26-2010, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Llliy

I like blood. My own blood and having my partner rake his nails against my arm and bite my neck. I am very into the vampire fantasy imagining I am vulnerable and weak yet cabable of seducing such a powerful creature.

that sounds hot ^-^ i was bitten (somewhere) there was only a little blood. (but it was accidental) another time i had to hide my face for awhile cause of bite marks

roxyruby · 11-26-2010, 09:35 AM

i find it hot to have stuff done to me against my will, as long as there is no intent to hurt or kill me, but it's just done out of lust, greed, dominance, and love

ssandra · 11-26-2010, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by roxyruby

Who's on a BDSM website?

I used to be very involved in a Dutch bdsm site and forum, but not anymore

NDN Scholar · 11-26-2010, 10:44 PM

Wow.

roxyruby · 11-27-2010, 01:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssandra

I used to be very involved in a Dutch bdsm site and forum, but not anymore

oh, what happens in a BDSM forum?

votoshka · 11-27-2010, 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by roxyruby

oh, what happens in a BDSM forum?

Join one and find out

ssandra · 11-27-2010, 02:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by roxyruby

oh, what happens in a BDSM forum?

Same as on a personal development forum.

Lots of people talking about nothing, some people talking about the subject and a very very few people actually doing something about it

Llliy · 11-27-2010, 08:23 AM

I love being picked up and thrown on the bed. Lying back with my arms above my head in just my undies. I feel powerful and sexy even though I am being treated roughly.

I love blood. I don't bite my playmates though, I draw red lines up my arms and imagine the blood pumping and tempting him with every heart beat. He gets rough, pinning my arms above my head and threatening to drain my body of blood.

I get this huge adrenilin rush from the fear and rough sensations. I love the feeling that he is so much stronger than me but I hold the power. Its my body, my blood and 100% my choice.

Anyone else into vampires?? Harbouring a secret Crush on Edward Cullen maybe?

11-24-2010, 11:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
roxyruby Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 5,929	[adult] D&S / BDSM what are your practices? What are your practices in your Domination/Submission Bondage/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism life? I just felt like this really wants to be talked about

11-26-2010, 03:47 AM	#13 (permalink)
ginkgo Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA Posts: 3,747	Maybe you can make money with a website about this. It used to be that 90% of the business on the internet was from sex websites. If I were more creative I would be able to come up with something. I know a 17 year old that is very creative. I will ask her. I had a girlfriend who told me about a guy that she met that she called creepy Larry. She said something to him and he said "if you do that, then I will tie you up and kiss you all over." She did not like that and left and he treats people badly and it is very entertaining. Maybe I can guess what you like. Would you like to be tied up and have whipped cream put between your legs and have someone lick it off? Seriously some people will pay to be on a site with you and share their BDSM fantasies with you. You could be like a dominatrix and guys will pay you to treat them badly online. Kind of like what Chef Ramsey does on the TV show Hell's Kitchen. Have you seen any of his shows? He is like the top chef in Great Britain and maybe the world. Last edited by ginkgo; 11-26-2010 at 03:49 AM.

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roxyruby Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 5,929	i find it hot to have stuff done to me against my will, as long as there is no intent to hurt or kill me, but it's just done out of lust, greed, dominance, and love Last edited by roxyruby; 11-26-2010 at 09:38 AM.

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VinceG Family Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 3,703	The real question here, roxyruby is... What are yours!?

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roxyruby Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 5,929	I don't know if it is appropriate or if I should be private. I was thinking other people might say stuff and then I could see the sort of things other people say then I could slip my answers in inbetween other peoples post

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VinceG Family Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 3,703	Well, you said "this really needs to be talked about." This is a classic case of projection. Who wants to talk about this is you! And we're all ears!

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beast Retired Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 2,501	I think she meant that these conversations were all in the past, so she figured it was time to make a new thread. roxyruby, perhaps you could give the older threads another good thorough reading and then see if you still want to dredge up this discussion.

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NDN Scholar Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The North Posts: 878	So you all shared aspects of your sex life? Sounds like a sexy thread, I'll have to go give it a read...

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roxyruby Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 5,929	Who's on a BDSM website?

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Llliy Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 14	I like blood. My own blood and having my partner rake his nails against my arm and bite my neck. I am very into the vampire fantasy imagining I am vulnerable and weak yet cabable of seducing such a powerful creature.

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NDN Scholar Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The North Posts: 878	Wow.

11-27-2010, 08:23 AM	#24 (permalink)
Llliy Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 14	I love being picked up and thrown on the bed. Lying back with my arms above my head in just my undies. I feel powerful and sexy even though I am being treated roughly. I love blood. I don't bite my playmates though, I draw red lines up my arms and imagine the blood pumping and tempting him with every heart beat. He gets rough, pinning my arms above my head and threatening to drain my body of blood. I get this huge adrenilin rush from the fear and rough sensations. I love the feeling that he is so much stronger than me but I hold the power. Its my body, my blood and 100% my choice. Anyone else into vampires?? Harbouring a secret Crush on Edward Cullen maybe?

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