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roxyruby 11-24-2010 11:27 AM

[adult] D&S / BDSM what are your practices?
 
What are your practices in your Domination/Submission Bondage/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism life?

I just felt like this really wants to be talked about

VinceG 11-24-2010 02:35 PM

The real question here, roxyruby is...

What are yours!? :eek:

roxyruby 11-24-2010 02:43 PM

I don't know if it is appropriate or if I should be private. I was thinking other people might say stuff and then I could see the sort of things other people say then I could slip my answers in inbetween other peoples post

roxyruby 11-24-2010 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by VinceG (Post 762795)
The real question here, roxyruby is...

What are yours!? :eek:

no the real question was directed to everyone ^-^

VinceG 11-24-2010 02:54 PM

Well, you said "this really needs to be talked about."

This is a classic case of projection. Who wants to talk about this is you!

And we're all ears! :):D:p

elucidate 11-24-2010 10:56 PM

Hasn't it been talked about to death already?

There's been at least 5 different threads on BDSM in the last year, including a share all. One recently about rough sex and dominating women.

roxyruby 11-25-2010 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by elucidate (Post 763056)
Hasn't it been talked about to death already?

There's been at least 5 different threads on BDSM in the last year, including a share all. One recently about rough sex and dominating women.

I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

ssandra 11-25-2010 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby (Post 763319)
I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

I don't get it... You thought the discussions were getting too much and therefor you started another one??


Anyway... I'd be happy to answer any questions or help you (and others) with any issues there might be, but I don't feel a need to just lay out my sex life just for the fun of seeing it in writing... :)

So, if you have questions, ask away :)

beast 11-25-2010 06:06 PM

I think she meant that these conversations were all in the past, so she figured it was time to make a new thread.

roxyruby, perhaps you could give the older threads another good thorough reading and then see if you still want to dredge up this discussion.

elucidate 11-25-2010 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by beast (Post 763423)
I think she meant that these conversations were all in the past, so she figured it was time to make a new thread.

roxyruby, perhaps you could give the older threads another good thorough reading and then see if you still want to dredge up this discussion.

Good idea. What's the point in everyone sharing everything they've already shared again?

NDN Scholar 11-25-2010 10:59 PM

So you all shared aspects of your sex life? Sounds like a sexy thread, I'll have to go give it a read... :D

billionairekid 11-25-2010 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby (Post 763319)
I actually thought it was getting a bit too much in the past and wanted the discussions renewed!

Wouldn't it be more advantageous for you to renew the conversation with your own experiences? By nature other people will begin to share theirs ;)

ginkgo 11-26-2010 03:47 AM

Maybe you can make money with a website about this. It used to be that 90% of the business on the internet was from sex websites. If I were more creative I would be able to come up with something. I know a 17 year old that is very creative. I will ask her.

I had a girlfriend who told me about a guy that she met that she called creepy Larry. She said something to him and he said "if you do that, then I will tie you up and kiss you all over." She did not like that and left and he treats people badly and it is very entertaining.

Maybe I can guess what you like. Would you like to be tied up and have whipped cream put between your legs and have someone lick it off? Seriously some people will pay to be on a site with you and share their BDSM fantasies with you.

You could be like a dominatrix and guys will pay you to treat them badly online. Kind of like what Chef Ramsey does on the TV show Hell's Kitchen. Have you seen any of his shows? He is like the top chef in Great Britain and maybe the world.

roxyruby 11-26-2010 04:52 AM

Who's on a BDSM website?

roxyruby 11-26-2010 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by elucidate (Post 763487)
Good idea. What's the point in everyone sharing everything they've already shared again?

everything?

Llliy 11-26-2010 06:11 AM

I like blood. My own blood and having my partner rake his nails against my arm and bite my neck. I am very into the vampire fantasy imagining I am vulnerable and weak yet cabable of seducing such a powerful creature.

roxyruby 11-26-2010 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Llliy (Post 763620)
I like blood. My own blood and having my partner rake his nails against my arm and bite my neck. I am very into the vampire fantasy imagining I am vulnerable and weak yet cabable of seducing such a powerful creature.

that sounds hot ^-^ i was bitten (somewhere) there was only a little blood. (but it was accidental) another time i had to hide my face for awhile cause of bite marks

roxyruby 11-26-2010 09:35 AM

i find it hot to have stuff done to me against my will, as long as there is no intent to hurt or kill me, but it's just done out of lust, greed, dominance, and love

ssandra 11-26-2010 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby (Post 763580)
Who's on a BDSM website?

I used to be very involved in a Dutch bdsm site and forum, but not anymore :)

NDN Scholar 11-26-2010 10:44 PM

Wow.

roxyruby 11-27-2010 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by ssandra (Post 763863)
I used to be very involved in a Dutch bdsm site and forum, but not anymore :)

oh, what happens in a BDSM forum? :)

votoshka 11-27-2010 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by roxyruby (Post 764001)
oh, what happens in a BDSM forum? :)

Join one and find out ;)

ssandra 11-27-2010 02:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by roxyruby (Post 764001)
oh, what happens in a BDSM forum? :)

Same as on a personal development forum.

Lots of people talking about nothing, some people talking about the subject and a very very few people actually doing something about it ;)

Llliy 11-27-2010 08:23 AM

I love being picked up and thrown on the bed. Lying back with my arms above my head in just my undies. I feel powerful and sexy even though I am being treated roughly.

I love blood. I don't bite my playmates though, I draw red lines up my arms and imagine the blood pumping and tempting him with every heart beat. He gets rough, pinning my arms above my head and threatening to drain my body of blood.

I get this huge adrenilin rush from the fear and rough sensations. I love the feeling that he is so much stronger than me but I hold the power. Its my body, my blood and 100% my choice.

Anyone else into vampires?? Harbouring a secret Crush on Edward Cullen maybe?


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