I told him I might break up with him

[LuckyStars]

His response was we'll figure it out. right now we're just friends with benefits. Maybe he likes me more than I think.

He knows I meeting other guys. I actually want like a casual relationship. So, if it does happen, I will have to break things off. I wont cheat.

[scotthegeek]

I don't know if he like you or not but you're have sex with him, its hard for some men not to have feeling for someone there have sex with. Don't you feel the same?

you said you want sex and now that you got it you want to break up but are you testing him to see how he feel. Are you happy? what do you really want? I'm not sure if you have a question? I hope you don't mind my asking questions because I'm trying to find someone but if its anything like last time it might not make my feel the way I thought it would.

Scott

[secondevolution]

Originally Posted by LuckyStars

Maybe he likes me more than I think

Wouldn't it be a good idea to ask him?

[mindset]

Originally Posted by LuckyStars

His response was we'll figure it out. right now we're just friends with benefits. Maybe he likes me more than I think.

He knows I meeting other guys. I actually want like a casual relationship. So, if it does happen, I will have to break things off. I wont cheat.

If you do want a normal relationship with someone, you shouldn't just wait until your sex buddy wants to get serious with you. You have to ask him of course, but if he doesn't want to go beyond the friendship status and only wants the sex, then I guess he's merely using you for it.

You shouldn't let yourself be used without any emotional attachments. Other men might be able to offer you that type of security, so give yourself a chance.

[BillyTheAdult]

Originally Posted by LuckyStars

His response was we'll figure it out. right now we're just friends with benefits. Maybe he likes me more than I think.

He knows I meeting other guys. I actually want like a casual relationship. So, if it does happen, I will have to break things off. I wont cheat.

I guess you edited it away IDK, but right now this thread is really confusing. You told him you "might" end it, and his response was we're just friends with with benefits, and that makes you think that he likes you more than you thought

You then go on to say you want a casual relationship? This sounds like pretty much the definition of a casual relationship.

I truly don't understand what's going on here

[scotthegeek]

Originally Posted by BillyTheAdult

I guess you edited it away IDK, but right now this thread is really confusing. You told him you "might" end it, and his response was we're just friends with with benefits, and that makes you think that he likes you more than you thought

You then go on to say you want a casual relationship? This sounds like pretty much the definition of a casual relationship.

I truly don't understand what's going on here

I think we are all a bit confused at times, but as time goes on we become less confused but never totally clear because things are always changing.

I use to think if you hung out with a girl she was a girlfriend but then I found out to be a girlfriend you have to be have sex with her but then I found out that is just could be friends with benefits. so that what differences between friends with benefits and casual relationship?

Scott