How did you feel after losing virginity?

[scotthegeek]

I wanted the physical intimacy with out the sex. I just lost my virginity this month I did not like the sex that much. I like the cuddling. I hope not all girl are the same. once the girl gets turn on she would not stop until she had her way with me.

I could never understand how people could have sex on the first date. now I know. I don't feel to bad about it I just wished that I could have felt loved the first time. I don't want to date if it leave me feeling empty inside.



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[Andrew Gubb]

First time I had sex I felt crap. In fact I usually don't even count *that* time.

The second time was pretty special, though.

[Kishka]

It was with a friend, and I was a little in shock after the experience. I didn't expect it to hurt that much initially and there was no real pleasure, as I know it now, during the act. But you have to start somewhere in order to know what you like and don't like, right?

[James81]

I lost my virginity in my truck in her parent's driveway. It lasted all of two minutes and I didn't even finish.

I don't remember feeling all that different at the time. And I don't even remember feeling guilt or anything.

It was more like...Oh, I just THAT? Ok...

Fortunately, it got a lot better. Honestly, I've never really heard anybody whose first time was really all that amazing (especially girls). I think that's a testament to the fact that before we have sex, we make it out to be this magical, elusive act that will light up our worlds.

[Harald]

I still felt pretty drunk, actually.

[ssandra]

I was glad as in "Glad that is out of the way, now the real fun can start!"

It helped a lot that we were both in love, and already extremely turned on by just kissing and touching. The real first time wasn't special or interesting, but the promise of something more was there.

I think maybe you should date, without sex, until you find somebody you feel special feelings for.

Some people like sex for the sex, other people like sex with that special person (or various special persons). One is not better then the other, just pick what you feel comfortable with.

Don't write of sex and dating just because you had one bad experience. And next time learn to say no. Just as important for a guy as it is for a girl. Having sex when you don't want to isn't good!

[Williamjw]

Pretty rubbish, i wondered what all the hype about it was. But since then i have had many good sexual experiances.

[MidasGirl]

Originally Posted by Williamjw

Pretty rubbish, i wondered what all the hype about it was. But since then i have had many good sexual experiances.

+1

It hurt like hell.

Ashamed.

Embarassed. I remember going home thinking everyone could just look at me and tell I'd just had sex.

Yeah, basically I felt like crap. Which is sad cuz I actually lost it to a guy who we were madly in love with each other.

[wido1982]

You probably did not like the sex, because you're not good at it. But that's ok, it was your first time. Tiger Woods didn't hit a hole in one either the first time he swung a club.

You just have to practice and get better at it, eventually it will be what you want it to be!