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Hapafreak of the Universe · 04-28-2010, 04:10 PM

I was thinking...how do I know if I am getting the most bang for my buck...lol...so to speak, if I have nothing to compare too?

Should I hump around just for the experience before I die?

Angela · 04-28-2010, 04:15 PM

I don't know if you *should* do that, but you just made me laugh!

rei · 04-28-2010, 04:17 PM

hump around... LOL...
Made me think of this:
YouTube - House Of pain - Jump Around Music Video

If you wanna explore all the glory of having a body go for it! (Be safe though

)

Hapafreak of the Universe · 04-28-2010, 05:55 PM

Hahahahahaha!

Come on! Y'all are no help!!!! ????? Seriously! Is it worth the effort & risk? And anyway, I probably could not just have casual sex, well, maybe I would try it just once, just to see? But is it a worthwhile thang to get down with a diverse set of partners. just for the experience? And where does love & spirit come to play in it? I would really have to respect & admire my humpee! LOL! Why does love & sex have to be so, well messy & mysterious?

rei · 04-28-2010, 06:04 PM

Worthwhile? I'd say anything can be worthwhile depending on our goals and our attitude. But upping the partner number means all the more reason to be safe about it. I went through a phase a little like this at one point. Learned some fun tricks

I even went all the way with a woman once, and personally I have more respect for guys who give oral because of it

Girls are great kissers, I'd be down for making out with a girl again

But you raise a good point about spirit - sex involves an energy exchange. It is a mutual sharing of many levels of yourself. That doesn't mean you can't get all randy with people if you want to, though.

I don't know if I'd say there is much effort involved but there is risk with all the STDs out there. And the silly double-standards

But if it feels like a course of action you want to explore, go for it! Just keep yourself safe

Oh, and I quite enjoy the messiness of sex! Just grab a towel

spirit4711 · 04-28-2010, 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hapafreak of the Universe

Should I hump around just for the experience before I die?

Sure! What else to do in this life? Work? Mehhh. Sports? Yuck...

Plus, sex never gets boring.

Explinfin · 04-28-2010, 07:04 PM

If it's something you think you'd like to do before you die then hump, hump, hump, hump, hump around, hump up hump up and get down. ..

uhh..

ok. . I think my posting privileges should be removed after that.

rei · 04-28-2010, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Explinfin

If it's something you think you'd like to do before you die then hump, hump, hump, hump, hump around, hump up hump up and get down. ..

uhh..

ok. . I think my posting privileges should be removed after that.

tee hee that's where my mind went too

MidasGirl · 04-28-2010, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by rei

Girls are great kissers, I'd be down for making out with a girl again

When are you coming out to California?

rei · 04-28-2010, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by MidasGirl

When are you coming out to California?

Love the triple meaning

I'd love to make out with you sometime

Bet you're a fabulous kisser

And I've always liked Cali

MidasGirl · 04-28-2010, 11:05 PM

I know I didn't notice the triple-entendre there.

It's a date. We just need the date.

Tee hee....good thing about not worrying what people think of me publicly anymore.

joelr · 04-28-2010, 11:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hapafreak of the Universe

I was thinking...how do I know if I am getting the most bang for my buck...lol...so to speak, if I have nothing to compare too?

Should I hump around just for the experience before I die?

Yes. Experience a few sex-buddies and one-nighters and more...

rei · 04-29-2010, 12:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MidasGirl

I know I didn't notice the triple-entendre there.

It's a date. We just need the date.

Tee hee....good thing about not worrying what people think of me publicly anymore.

Hehe... don't worry, it would be a while before I had the air fare

Yeah, public opinion... all I can say about that is a lot of shamans are androgynous and they sometimes express that physically

And my man would probably think this is a hot conversation - especially if he saw your picture

MidasGirl · 04-29-2010, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by rei

Hehe... don't worry, it would be a while before I had the air fare

Yeah, public opinion... all I can say about that is a lot of shamans are androgynous and they sometimes express that physically

And my man would probably think this is a hot conversation - especially if he saw your picture

Yeah I know who else would think this is a hot conversation (you know who) but let's not go there.

Plays With Life · 04-29-2010, 12:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rei

Girls are great kissers, I'd be down for making out with a girl again

Quote:

Originally Posted by MidasGirl

When are you coming out to California?

Quote:

Originally Posted by rei

I'd love to make out with you sometime

Bet you're a fabulous kisser

And I've always liked Cali

I vote this is a *good* idea. I volunteer to be photographer.

Plays With Life · 04-29-2010, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hapafreak of the Universe

Hahahahahaha!

Come on! Y'all are no help!!!! ????? Seriously! Is it worth the effort & risk? And anyway, I probably could not just have casual sex, well, maybe I would try it just once, just to see? But is it a worthwhile thang to get down with a diverse set of partners. just for the experience? And where does love & spirit come to play in it? I would really have to respect & admire my humpee! LOL! Why does love & sex have to be so, well messy & mysterious?

I'm tending towards yes. It really depends on the person, and their values. For an asexual person, it probably wouldn't be very worthwhile.

rei · 04-29-2010, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Plays With Life

I vote this is a *good* idea. I volunteer to be photographer.

Why am I not surprised?

MidasGirl · 04-29-2010, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Plays With Life

I vote this is a *good* idea. I volunteer to be photographer.

You're bad.

Angela · 04-29-2010, 01:52 AM

Hapafreak, I definitely think you should have a wide variety of sexual relations before you croak.

As opposed to waiting until afterwards.

rei · 04-29-2010, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Angela

As opposed to waiting until afterwards.

Heh. Nice

Plays With Life · 04-29-2010, 03:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angela

Hapafreak, I definitely think you should have a wide variety of sexual relations before you croak.

As opposed to waiting until afterwards.

Good point. Post-croak sex just isn't quite as good.

Indiana · 04-29-2010, 05:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Plays With Life

Good point. Post-croak sex just isn't quite as good.

Or quite as legal.

Lucidism · 04-29-2010, 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Indiana

Or quite as legal.

But it was consensual, I swear!

Plays With Life · 04-29-2010, 06:44 AM

I'm not sure. Does the law still apply after a person croaks? Who would enforce the law on ghosts?

Then again, post-croak sex might be an explosive cosmic-earthquake type of experience that blows physical sex out of the water. I'm retracting my previous speculation, until I've tried it.

Parker Lee · 04-29-2010, 07:04 AM

I'd like to start this off by saying Wow. I thoroughly enjoy this forum--lots of characters in here(Especially Rei, in a good way, tho').

My name's Parker-- Hi all

Quote:

I was thinking...how do I know if I am getting the most bang for my buck...lol...so to speak, if I have nothing to compare too? Should I hump around just for the experience before I die?

Hello Hapa Freak--very interesting name

Quote:

Hapa Freak Says:
if I have nothing to compare too

Does this mean you're a Virgin? If so, it definitely changes the playing field.
It would also depend on who you surround yourself with, your age, and ultimately, what the "inner hapa freak" wants.

Ultimately, if you feel that you will cheat on the person you plan to settle down with because you "missed out" on other partners, than yes. I would definitely suggest going out there and bang till your heart's content.

The last thing anyone would want is for you to wait, and put yourself and your partner in a sticky situation by having 2nd thoughts about settling down with each other due to lack of "life experiences."

I hope this was helpful,

--Parker Lee

rei · 04-29-2010, 03:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Parker Lee

I'd like to start this off by saying Wow. I thoroughly enjoy this forum--lots of characters in here(Especially Rei, in a good way, tho').

Thanks, Parker! I love all the characters here too

Hapafreak, have you gotten some helpful feedback on your question?

nicbrahms · 04-29-2010, 04:36 PM

Well if I was single I woulding be shagging like theres no tomorrow, probably women aswell, threesomes, orgies, gang banging.

Oh yeh forget about it.

Nothing like variety as the spice of life.

Yes in fact we should all get together and have a mass orgy, with the exception of Gubbins, just don't want the tickle from the moustachiooooo.

Angela · 04-29-2010, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by nicbrahms

Well if I was single I woulding be shagging like theres no tomorrow, probably women aswell, threesomes, orgies, gang banging.

So there's your lesson: being in a committed relationship is effectively the same as croaking.

Plays With Life · 04-29-2010, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Angela

So there's your lesson: being in a committed relationship is effectively the same as croaking.

LOL. Glad we clarified that.

marinik · 04-29-2010, 05:50 PM

My friend a psychologist who works in a retirement home says they don't do anything else much - just have good ol' sex all the time. Good bless the little blue pill is their daily payer! A lot of heart-attacks though!

I wonder why?

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Angela Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 22,520	I don't know if you should do that, but you just made me laugh!

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rei Family Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: earth, everywhere and nowhere Posts: 9,713	hump around... LOL... Made me think of this: YouTube - House Of pain - Jump Around Music Video If you wanna explore all the glory of having a body go for it! (Be safe though )

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Hapafreak of the Universe Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: The Cosmos Posts: 60	Hahahahahaha! Come on! Y'all are no help!!!! ????? Seriously! Is it worth the effort & risk? And anyway, I probably could not just have casual sex, well, maybe I would try it just once, just to see? But is it a worthwhile thang to get down with a diverse set of partners. just for the experience? And where does love & spirit come to play in it? I would really have to respect & admire my humpee! LOL! Why does love & sex have to be so, well messy & mysterious?

04-28-2010, 06:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
rei Family Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: earth, everywhere and nowhere Posts: 9,713	Worthwhile? I'd say anything can be worthwhile depending on our goals and our attitude. But upping the partner number means all the more reason to be safe about it. I went through a phase a little like this at one point. Learned some fun tricks I even went all the way with a woman once, and personally I have more respect for guys who give oral because of it Girls are great kissers, I'd be down for making out with a girl again But you raise a good point about spirit - sex involves an energy exchange. It is a mutual sharing of many levels of yourself. That doesn't mean you can't get all randy with people if you want to, though. I don't know if I'd say there is much effort involved but there is risk with all the STDs out there. And the silly double-standards But if it feels like a course of action you want to explore, go for it! Just keep yourself safe Oh, and I quite enjoy the messiness of sex! Just grab a towel

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Explinfin Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 134	If it's something you think you'd like to do before you die then hump, hump, hump, hump, hump around, hump up hump up and get down. .. uhh.. ok. . I think my posting privileges should be removed after that.

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MidasGirl Family Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Off this forum from 10/27/10 to 10/27/11. Yay me! Posts: 2,944	I know I didn't notice the triple-entendre there. It's a date. We just need the date. Tee hee....good thing about not worrying what people think of me publicly anymore.

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Angela Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 22,520	Hapafreak, I definitely think you should have a wide variety of sexual relations before you croak. As opposed to waiting until afterwards.

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Plays With Life Family Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Sitting by the fire at the Inn of the Last Home Posts: 5,799	I'm not sure. Does the law still apply after a person croaks? Who would enforce the law on ghosts? Then again, post-croak sex might be an explosive cosmic-earthquake type of experience that blows physical sex out of the water. I'm retracting my previous speculation, until I've tried it.

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nicbrahms Banned Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: uk Posts: 3,233	Well if I was single I woulding be shagging like theres no tomorrow, probably women aswell, threesomes, orgies, gang banging. Oh yeh forget about it. Nothing like variety as the spice of life. Yes in fact we should all get together and have a mass orgy, with the exception of Gubbins, just don't want the tickle from the moustachiooooo.

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marinik Legendary Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Where Living and Loving and Laughing are written into the Constitution Posts: 14,240	My friend a psychologist who works in a retirement home says they don't do anything else much - just have good ol' sex all the time. Good bless the little blue pill is their daily payer! A lot of heart-attacks though! I wonder why?

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