All colleagues treat lightly me...

[Piotrek1986]

I provide for the contact at present from above thirty colleagues and NO, no does want absolutely to become my closer pall. Nobody ever does want to go out of the house. Nobody does want to go with me to the club. I do not know what's the matter, I but complied to advices Dale Carnegie to talk about them, about their matters, to be interested, etc Suckers give them this what want they remind about me just then as something they want - enough he recorded them the CD or found something in Internet. I ************ such "acquaintances". All are false and only me they use. And I read these all books which Polish they helped me the ************. I could a lot of write out sie on this subject, but I do not know english I write the public meeting in the shortcut. Nobody comes to me disinterestedly. They do not also want to invite me to them. I am on the edge of nervous break down. Help. Not to want eternally continually to be needy and them to ask for the damned mercy enough they talked with me, to they agreed, they met etc This I have to be for them the prize and not they for me.

[mattsonn]

Steve, this forum has turned into a trash can. Maybe it's time for some stronger moderation?

[ticktockclok]

What planet are you from.......

[Michelle]

Have you two never been out of the country? Have a heart!

This guy is obviously having difficulty expressing himself in english. The post is genuine.

[andrew]

Hey, easy guys, he's obviously not a native english speaker.

I know it's difficult to really understand everything he wrote, but I'd appreciate it if you give people the benifit of the doubt. If they end up being a troll of sorts, we will take care of it.

[norbert]

Piotrek, I wanted to give you the advice to start being interested in them, be their friend first and only then expect them to be your friends. But I see you have tried that already.

Maybe they are just not the people you should care about. Just hang around until you find better ones. I know it's hard.

[openeyes]

While I fall into that oft-used "spiritual not religious" category, I find that one of the easiest ways of having people warm up to you is to go to church with them. Hence I've lately been frequenting several groups, going to student Unitarian Universalist meetings on campus Thursdays, Chabad (Jewish) Fridays, and an AME (African Methodist Episcopal) church on Sundays. Occasionally I'll throw one or two others in as well, schedule permitting. Religion often unites the people under its umbrella while dividing them against those under different umbrellas. I simply enjoy the community that each can engender, and am sincere with all of them in that respect. Were someone to ask what my religion is, I'd say humor

You can also try various hobby groups/volunteer work, and befriend the people there. I recommend Habitat for Humanity to everyone. Some of my native English speaking friends do volunteer ESL (English as Second Language), helping people learn English and often become close to them in the process. It could be worth your while to look for such an ESL group. Likely every city in the US has (at least) one.

[Akashic_Librarian]

Idiots. the poor guy is obviously bummed out about his work colleagues not becoming his friends. Even if you can't understand him you can understand that!


Piotrek1986 I think you should try and find friends somehwere else if no one will be friends with you at your work. Ok? Maybe you could go to the club or out of the house yourself and meet new people.

[Piotrek1986]

I am sorry so much errors, but I am Pole and the text I explain {translate} with the translator. I try so that me how {as} best you understand.

How {as} already higher I remembered {mentioned}, "friends" come to me only when want for example so that I burn them the compact disc.

You have a good idea, so that I recognize new friends. Already once or twice in the musical club I talked down to strange {foreign} back-scratchers and the most from them was {former} open on the conversation and the perusal. Just but how {as} this looks, if I was some gay because I talk down strange {foreign} chaps. Best if such somebody lived in my block, went together with me to school etc. Just but in class I have themselves suck people, on the housing estate unfortunately also. What page {side} can you instruct to me? Because in Poland whatever has not {sides} hereupon. They are only he kicks {digs} a couple books,. anyway ineffective in effect. Heavily he is to me also to become screwed into some social group. They have already there their own friends and is not them necessary nobody else.