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A Scotland born Australian has became the first person in NSW to be officially recognised as physically and psychologically androgynous, with "sex not specified" being amended in offical documents, most importantly, in the birth certificate. How's that for progress?! Any thoughts? It's certainly one to wrap the brain around when getting down to gender debates. Full article: Norrie first registered transgender EDIT: Any other countries doing this? Last edited by Gracestars; 03-11-2010 at 10:33 PM. |
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androgyny is seeing yourself as both or neither gender. it can apply to your psychological self-view or your physical self-view (or both). transgender is sometimes related but still a distinct classification. Grace, that's awesome | |
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The law talks about 'Zwitter' with translates in English into hybrid. I always thought that there's a difference between sex and gender (especially for those people who care about all those words surrounding gender). According to the Pressuian law your sex could be 'Zwitter' and there are five paragraph that deals with people who's sex is 'Zwitter'. |
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It's spelt androgyny. Andro for male and gyn for female. Androgens are a male hormone. Also, we need this here. I would change my status to this! Quote:
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Hi Just a point of view, for what it's worth According to the article, this person was born a man, so originally, there was no ambiguity. It was only later on, that this person became disatisfied with (his) assigned gender (assigned by god?! or nature, or higher self?). Simply removing the outer (superficial) male sex organs, does not really change one's biological sex. There are an infinite number of differences between male and female. The female has periods, has a womb, and is biologically made entirely differently. Even the cells are different. Just changing the outward appearance doesn't change one's sex - just as removing wrinkles doesn't make one younger. The operation, at best, will enable him to be a 'pretend' female. The birth certificate status, I think, is more for legal purposes, and possibly to placate this person. It is often easier for the authorities to do what the individual wants, rather than to go against their deeply held beliefs, whether or not they have any basis. Pressure groups nowadays know they have a lot of effect. I think that the emotional problems are really only what is out into the public eye. The (boring - unstimulating?) scientific basis for decision, is not really gone into, as the vast majority are not bothered to discover the truth Last edited by Martyn13; 03-12-2010 at 05:24 AM. |
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Yeah, I thought it was based on hormones and how they affect our decisions. And which side of the reproductive process you're on. Heh. ^.^; If you choose not to reproduce, there are still the hormones to consider. /<3 |
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As a practical matter all sorts of computer systems also expect people to have a gender and might crash or do strange things when faced with people who don't have a gender. Quote:
In Germany you would first have to change dozens of paragraphs of different laws before someone could have no gender. | ||
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And the whole point is that Norrie doesn't want to identify, or 'pretend' as you put it, to be female, either. (I hope that remains easy to read, non-gendered pronouns are not easy!) | |
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| Maybe, a few decades from now, it will be considered just as appalling that we used to officially record people's gender, as it feels now to officially record one's religion, race or political affiliation...
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| "I'm not man or woman" What a crock. He was born with a penis. He's a dude. He'll always BE a dude and there's not a damn thing he can do to himself to change that. I got no qualms with a dude who wants to do what society deems as "girly" things. I got no qualms with a dude who wants to have sex with men and women. I actually got no qualms with him saying he's neither male nor female, but I AM rolling my eyes at it. |
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In Germany we have a law that gives people who are persecuted for their racial identity the right of asylum. As a result when someone requests asylum in Berlin their race gets recorded with produced some stir and some people got angry that race gets recorded. Quote:
Additional 33-45 was a relatively short time in German history. Before 33 nearly all European states had antisemitism and Germans were much different than their neighbors. After 45 we actually cleared a lot of the ideas of race from our self understanding and Germany is now one of the few countries that gives people who are persecuted for their racial identity asylum. We openly dealt with our problems and started treating minorities fairly while France, Spain and the UK continued to treat minorities in a way that the minorities thought that terrorism is the right answer. I actually like German principles of having laws that you take seriously. If the US would have copied our regulatory framework after the savings and loan debacle of the 80s than the world now wouldn't have to suffer this crisis. | ||
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I can see how race and sex might be useful for affirmative action, but then again some people don't agree with affirmative action. Actually, aren't those optional as well? I remember that it was my transcript that carried that information about me, and I actually asked my high school counselor to change my race from white to Asian. Last edited by Cochonette; 03-12-2010 at 01:47 PM. | |||||
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i don't think i'm physically androygynous, i look like a woman and i enjoy wearing skirts sometimes. but i am psycho-spiritually androgynous, so i can speak to the idea that - at least regarding psychological androgyny - it's not a crock. i'd imagine physical androgyny is just an outgrowth of psychological androgyny, for some who don't think gender and sex should be part of their identity. do you never go through moments where you feel like your physical expression doesn't match who you feel yourself to be from the inside? not necessarily with regard to gender or sex. but, have you ever been physically strong, for example, in a moment where you saw yourself as fragile? i'd imagine we've ALL been through that at some point. so i find it interesting you are judging someone and invalidating their choice when it fits a pattern that you have probably experienced at some point, with different concepts. | ||
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Ok, well I must've missed the part where it was an actual physical anomoly. Quote:
Do I have moments where what I feel and do fits what society deems as "female"? Sure I do, all the time. But I don't feel a need to call myself a "woman" in those moments. I am a man at all times. To say that I'm "androgynous" in those moments where what I do doesn't fit the image of a man is to perpetuate the idea that certain actions are "male" and others are "female." | |
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You perceive people differently based on their sex, and it has more to do with the perceiver than the one being perceived. I have fallen in love online before with someone whose only proof of biological sex was a few photos sent to me. I have also used dating websites, where my initial attraction is always based merely on their profile. Last edited by Cochonette; 03-12-2010 at 02:05 PM. | |
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still, though, so you don't have a need or urge to call yourself a woman if you're running a more feminine vibe. okay, fair enough (but for the record, Norrie doesn't do that either). but i don't think i understand why you have an urge to say it's a crock if someone else is expressing self differently from how you might express yourself. is there a should gremlin in there somewhere? | ||
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Unfortunately we life in a time where computers matter and even without computers it's good practice to limit the complexity of laws. It's just easier if some town wants to have a gendered speaking list when there something like an official gender. Quote:
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I think that most debates have to side and I personally like to understand the reasons that other people have to held the beliefs that they do. Saying 'I really don't understand XY' just shows that one either doesn't know and is ignorant about what one's talking about or that one feels the need to hide his own reasons and therefore has to pretend that the other side doesn't reasons. |
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i think the word androgyny is being used in a less precise way here. androgyny isn't always about sexuality, and it's not really just a synonym for transgender or genderqueer. some people who are androgynous are transgender or are in a non-typical place on the spectrum for sexuality, but it's not always the case. an androgyne can feel like he/she is both masculine and feminine, or can feel like neither. i think the word becomes synonymous with transgender for this reason, but it is really not the same thing. | |
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rei, where in the official record is zie described as "androgynous"? It sounds like maybe the physicians described hir as such, but the record itself says only "not specified" as far as I can tell. If it were really about androgyny only, I suppose they would've put "androgynous" for sex. Also, I didn't say anything about transgender, so I'm not sure why you brought that up. I know what androgyny is. Wait, I read your post again... sorry, read it too quickly the first time... you're right, androgyny is not always about sexuality, but sexuality is what usually makes gender so important. Gender is, after all, based not only on your sex but your sexuality. The reason society regulates gender so stringently is because it is trying to regulate sexuality. Well... maybe later in life.... uh, I need to think about this more carefully. Last edited by Cochonette; 03-12-2010 at 02:49 PM. |
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