Online Dating? Not convinced about Personal Ads, Match.com, Plentyofish etc

[PhoenixFlames]

Hi there

In 2010 (less than 2 weeks away I know) I'll be casting my nets, and totally reinventing myself in all areas of my life.

This will be the last time I mention it, but for you who read my other threads you'll know I saw a Hypnotherapist/Relationship Expert/Psychologist/NLP/Business Expert of 25 years all rolled into one.

Now a lot of people assumed that I must be crazy, was depressed, or had Emotional problems. On the contrary it was for two reasons
1) to get a reality check on what it means to be a Psychologist/NLP Therapist and how to get experience in the field (as doing research a lot of people are under-qualified to be a therapist as they only have an NLP Practitioners Certificate).
2) I felt I had missed out on key developments in my life as my arguing parents moved me about 3 times between ages 13-17- which meant I was unconciously incompetent at Socialising, Girlfiends, Making Real Friends, Career Planning and getting Academic Grades and Skills that made me employable.

However I eventually cottened onto what I was missing, self taught myself Psychology, Self Help, Goal Setting and I learnt from the best PUAs in the business about Dating.
However as I was missing the basic foundations of my overall life, these newfound modern PUA and Socialising knowledge was useless and I had to rely on no less than 5 "pity ****s" to loose my virginity and get experience.

Although my sessions were going well with the Therapist I actually walked out "early" from the last session when we talked about a practical plan to get me Dating.
I know I am a good looking guy as when Im out in public, women show me the signs, they play with their hair, smile, make eye contact I have a good body from Weight Training, a NBig Build and I am fairly tall 5'9.

I did hold back over certain issues but these were smoothed out by the therapist.