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11-06-2009, 08:00 AM
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Hi. Currently, im in a relationship, which, only one person is happy. And that's not ME.. I thought i loved him, i thought he could repair me, but apparently, he can't. Can you call this cheating? -When the guy I am with, loves me so much, he'd risk everything for me.. but i can't return his love back? when i'm still inlove with the guy who was never really mine..? we were never together, we were jut friends back then. And, i never thought i would be excruciatingly inlove with him. And.. NOW, the guy I am with, thinks i love him too, i can't break up with him, he suffered so much when i did last time. i gave him this chance, for i thought he could repair me, but i know he can't.. he'll never will. what will i do now?  |
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11-06-2009, 01:47 PM
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You're hurting him worse by staying with him than you ever will by breaking up with him. Trust me, if you don't have any feelings/love for this guy, the relationship is going to crash HARD down the road (may take a few years) and he's going to be far more hurt then than he will be if you just ended things now. So, first of all, you not wanting to hurt him is an EXCUSE. Second thing I want to iterate to you is that NOBODY can "repair" you. You have to repair yourself. Until you realize that one very important thing, you'll never get what you need.
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11-06-2009, 01:59 PM
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He deserves to have a chance to find someone who loves him. And you, to be with someone you love.
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11-06-2009, 04:46 PM
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What is it that you would like to change about yourself? If you feel you have a lot of trouble being happy, I'd recommend you avoid a romantic relationship with another and focus for now on falling in love with yourself! There's a lot of help out there with this, including this forum. What do you think? |
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