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Old 08-30-2009, 07:45 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I get a lot of different reactions when I first meet someone. Sometimes I feel like I can't connect to them at all, like we're not even on the same page. Especially if they seem fake. With some people I feel like I like them instantly and want to see them everyday. Then find out later they feel the same. What causes this when we don't even know each other?

With other people I feel like I love them instantly. I just met them, but I can honestly say I love them and I love all these little things they do. But I never tell them because I'm sure they would get creeped out. Do any of you ever feel like this? and why am I like this? Does it seem like I can just connect to people easily?
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Yes) that happens often...although I can't say I love them... anyway....

This "function" of our brain to recognize good and evil is built in inside of us, but as we grow up we neglect it... =((
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Yes) that happens often...although I can't say I love them... anyway....

This "function" of our brain to recognize good and evil is built in inside of us, but as we grow up we neglect it... =((
It's not nearly as intense/deep as like the love I feel towards the people I'm really close to, but it has a different feeling/vibe than liking someone.

How do you think people neglect it?
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