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Old 08-16-2009, 10:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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hey,
my gf and i have been together almost a year now.. stuff happened between us people dont find in their life times, i love her i rly do but suddenly we got separated cause of distance now i cant meet her until january and distance relation is hard to coupe with, she wants to end this until we meet again. i tried to understand her and give her that but i can't! it just kills me not to know whats in her life... its bout 4 month until we meet again i just want her in my life no other girl, should i get over her and move on or fight for her and go through this hard 4 month.
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Old 08-16-2009, 01:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Let it be... If its got any staying power this will be the test. Not always easy to do, but is the best strategy...Be grateful for all the things and times you have shared with her.. If there are more in store then there are, if not you have a great experience with a great human being....
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It does seem odd that she wants to break up for four months doesn't it? A little unusual. You know it's difficult and still want to wait the four months out but why doesn't she?

Point blank: she wants to be with other people during your "break" but without the guilt of cheating.
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It's funny how you say fight for her when you mean fight against her decision.
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