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Old 08-12-2009, 01:33 PM   #61 (permalink)
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About a week ago I created a profile on OkCupid.com: Free Online Dating, Online Dating, Dating, Free Dating Services, Dating Services - a week later I have four dates set up. My first one is today - I'm relatively nervous since I haven't been on a date in years. Oh well, experience and all that!

Check out these free Internet dating sites - plentyoffish.com and okcupid.com. Hopefully there are plenty of women in your area.
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About a week ago I created a profile on OkCupid.com: Free Online Dating, Online Dating, Dating, Free Dating Services, Dating Services - a week later I have four dates set up. My first one is today - I'm relatively nervous since I haven't been on a date in years. Oh well, experience and all that!

Check out these free Internet dating sites - plentyoffish.com and okcupid.com. Hopefully there are plenty of women in your area.
yep.. by the time you get to the 4th date, you won't be nervous at all!
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Old 08-13-2009, 04:18 AM   #63 (permalink)
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I'm also trying okcupid at the moment. Currently, it isn't working too well for me. =/ Eh. Some have better luck than others, I guess.
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Sure, why not? Just say whatever you'd say in english, in english just slowly and suggestively. Do the physical contact thing, touching arms, hair, whatever. They'll get the message. If not, go look somewhere else.
In countries like Iraq, Somalia, Sudan....these countries too?
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I'm also trying okcupid at the moment. Currently, it isn't working too well for me. =/ Eh. Some have better luck than others, I guess.
Keep trying - don't worry if you don't find somebody suitable to start with. It's bound to take some time - and if nothing else, it can be a great way to make new friends as well!

Just had the girl I mentioned earlier (who I met online) over for dinner tonight and she's inviting me over to her place at some point for dinner as well soon. We had a great honest talk tonight and if nothing else, I feel I've gained a very sweet, positive girl as my friend.

I got a text msg from her before tonight saying that she enjoyed spending time with me, but didn't think she could offer more than that. I thought I had been "friendzoned" for being too much of a nice guy as usual, but she told me tonight she doesn't feel entirely comfortable with the unofficial 'dating rules' that state that a third date (the dinner tonight is the third time we got together) pretty much means you're supposed to be an item. Good to hear I'm not the only one having a hard time with that - now I'm just going to let things develop as they may and not try to control everything like the 'old me' would
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Nothing wrong with being friends first. A friend of mine told me his partner was his best friend for years and then as time went on the mutuallity grew into something else
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